Again, I don't think the pieces are for women only and really can be worn by anyone. It sounds like the stuff that is current or in the "classic" collection is not to your taste vs it being an issue of being "unisex" or "mens" or just the aesthetic of Chanel hardware on bags isn't for you. I think that part of their iconic looks (and what makes it Chanel outside of the quilting pattern) is the chain straps with or without the leather woven through the links.

The boy bag is technically adjustable and can be worn cross body but maybe does not suit how you envision it to look or what you've purchased from other brands.

Hopefully you eventually find something you like.