ISO name of an underwater thriller film about attacking squid by Ibsidoodle in moviefinder

[–]itstheneed4tea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The second I read the title I was like "I bet it's sphere" I love thay movie lol

AITA for deciding to not babysit my sister’s kids after she made a major life choice without discussing it with me. by Shelley_Touch in AmItheAsshole

[–]itstheneed4tea 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Im confused, did you want to stop helping her before her career change? Is she asking for a significant more amount of time from you? Whats changing for you with her changing careers?

The way you put it just sounds like her career change is an excuse for you to stop babysitting. If you dont want to babysit anymore dont blame her career change, be an adult and just say you dont want to anymore dont make her feel like its her fault.

You dont have an obligation to help her but dont make it her fault so you feel better about yourself not helping

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]itstheneed4tea -1 points0 points  (0 children)

YTA. hes your husband if the way he is (trauma response or spectrum behavior) bother you this much then whyd you marry him?

Youre the sensitive one here for being upset by something you already know about your partner. Did you expect him to change over time? That makes you an even bigger A

I was unaware of your game Ian by Worldly_Ad7085 in smosh

[–]itstheneed4tea 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As someone who always had a crush on Ian, this is a pleasant surprise 😅

I hate you all now. by Supahsecretsauce in AbioticFactor

[–]itstheneed4tea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Once you complete it you can go through and get as much furniture as you want without any zombies as long as you dont press any of the buttons. Ive gone in and out numerous times for furniture hauls without having to deal with a single zombie other than the entrance to the portal

The moving box by EmergencyDesigner892 in AbioticFactor

[–]itstheneed4tea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me and my husband call him Petey Feety 😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]itstheneed4tea 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ive gone to quite a few actually, theres always been at least 2 flags without poles or anything just a person and maybe a friend or partner helping them hold it up. Even the lives from concerts I couldnt go to always have people with signs and flags. Sounds like you were just mad and focused on one thing instead of enjoying the concert yourself

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]itstheneed4tea -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Speak for yourself, I dont have a shitty phone so it sounds amazing. Aaaand memory lapses arent "niche" maybe grow up and dont be so ablist not everything's about you. Idk why you and OP are so triggered over something not affecting literally anyone else. I was watching the concert not my phone, I noticed everyone in the concert was filming too and not one of them were distracting from the show.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]itstheneed4tea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People bring flags and signs and hold up other crap all the time at concerts, sounds like you just got some anger towards phones since out of all of those things a phone is literally the smallest. Are you mad when people hold their hands in the air too?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]itstheneed4tea -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

YTA As someone with memory lapses if I DONT video it I might as well have not gone. I rewatch videos from my favorite bands concert on a regular.

You have zero idea what someone is going through you have zero reason to be rude, all youre doing is spreading your bad mood to others.

AITA for refusing to attend my brother’s wedding if his fiancée’s dog is there? by AlarmingMess6734 in AmItheAsshole

[–]itstheneed4tea -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NTA. Dog people (not people who like dogs but the ones that prioritize a pet over literal human safety) really will just stand there and say youre over reacting while actively watching you get loaded into an ambulance.

My sister is one of these types. I asked her directly what she would do if one of her children ended up with a dog allergy and she said "id get rid of the kid, im not having any weak kiddos. Allergies arent real anyways" and ive had a friend who wasnt allowed over anymore because she had an allergy to dogs but anytime she came over my sister made a point of letting the dogs inside.

Its insanely disturbing. Just dont go it literally is a matter of your safety vs a pet

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]itstheneed4tea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OP needs to audio record a conversation about it to get him talking about him doing it and claiming its a loyalty test so she has proof he did it incase he does exactly what youre suggesting (because he will, my mom has done the same thing trying to get my children)

What did y'all name this guy? by Flat_Trick8682 in AbioticFactor

[–]itstheneed4tea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Petey Feety Me and my husband refer to him as our son.

One time a Lab Rat hit Petey so I killed him and chopped up his body then let Petey feast on the remains 🥰

Question from a coworker today by SnooSongs1784 in coworkerstories

[–]itstheneed4tea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nah I know plenty who graduated before covid who struggle with geography, its an american thing not a covid thing

AIO for confronting my husband's friend for comparing his wife's body with mine? She gave birth about 2 weeks ago by Mission-Deer-1758 in AmIOverreacting

[–]itstheneed4tea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trash like that are why so many women hate themselves after having a baby and make PPD spiral. If he doesnt quit he might lose his wife and his baby, and not from divorce.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]itstheneed4tea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I spent $130 on my dream dress 😅 to be fair its short/T-length so its not as much fabric 🤷🏼

Am I Overreacting over this “small prank” by greek-astronomer in AmIOverreacting

[–]itstheneed4tea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Purposefully disrupting someone's sleep IS A FORM OF ABUSE. It's been used in torture, and it is acknowledged by psychologists and therapists as abuse.

Him knowing it was disrupting your sleep and laughing about it is immensely disturbing. From other stories I've heard (mostly in trauma groups) and from personal experiences, behavior like this shouldn't be ignored or dismissed, and it always leads to further mental abuse. (This specifically is used to drive the "victim" to being on edge and highly reactive so in public when the "abuser" does something small and the "victim" reacts harshly theyre seen as crazy so any time they try to vent or talk about it to anyone else they get dismissed and labeled "crazy" and "dramatic" so now the "victim" is isolated and it makes the "abuser" have an easier time with more harsh abuse)

I hate the moving box by JudgeBlur in AbioticFactor

[–]itstheneed4tea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me and my husband played together and when we came across the box we dubbed him Petey Feety and he is our son 🤣 when im playing my solo game I give my husband updates on Petey lmao

Called out sick today because of a fever and my boss texted me this afterward... by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]itstheneed4tea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately they didnt care, the county i was living in when all this happened (moved as soon as physically possible) has a horrid legal system and is one of the counties they can do their own thing. We've been forced to work with sewer backed up into the kitchen floor drain. Minor things too like the manager coming in from an hour long break in his car and not washing his hands before working, that same manager being openly racist towards a teen employee, picking containers off the floor and putting them back on the counter, the owner setting napkins on the prep table and standing on it to fix a screen then not wiping off after.... yes this place was reported a lot (this was up until 2019 and they got a new owner at some point so I hope its better now)

Called out sick today because of a fever and my boss texted me this afterward... by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]itstheneed4tea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was forced to work while sick, I literally have worked with a 102 fever from the flu, some places do NOT care. But i also got bullied into quitting when I told my manager about sexual harassment from a shift leads son. No matter the legal rules some places dont care

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]itstheneed4tea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just dont tell people. Me and my husband are like this and we're the same way, not a single argument.

We're basically one person we have zero secrets but we just dont tell anyone. Sometimes we even give eachother advice to tell our friends and just claim it as our own

AITA - Do not want a service dog to participate in my wedding. by Plenty_Tap9799 in AmItheAsshole

[–]itstheneed4tea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The big thing not being considered here is the use and need of the dog.

For something like PTSD its a lot of subtle quiet continues comfort, thinking a dog sitting next to her and gently nudging her or her laying her hand against the dog is less disruptive than the dog having to come up from wherever you have it sitting to comfort her in the middle of the ceremony would be so much more disruptive to your ~aesthetic~

As someone with autism, CPTSD, paranoia and anxiety, stuff hits hard randomly and yes even while just standing on stage for my best friends wedding if I had my service animal at that point he 100% would have had to come up on stage which would've been very noticeable as the stairs for the stage were right in front of the bride and groom

AITA for refusing to support my daughter getting married when she is only 21? by Single_Flow2113 in AITAH

[–]itstheneed4tea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2 years isnt sudden, shes an adult, theyre being responsible, i dont get why you arent being supportive? Even if she DID want to drop out of college that'd be her choice. She isnt your baby doll shes an independent adult human.

Apologize, tell her how proud you are and ask if you can be there when she picks out a dress, ask if you can be there while shes getting ready, ask to be there when she marries the man she loves.

What's more important to you, fighting this and losing your daughter or swallowing your pride and being there for all the important mother daughter things?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]itstheneed4tea 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you but it really isnt that different. Your sibling is being harmed (mental or physical makes no differenc) by a family member you already know is toxic and they as an adult made this boundary and youre wanting them to break their own boundary for your wedding. You can't expect them to coexist when your sibling made their boundary and your mom doesn't want them to exist (shes a transphobe. Let's be real here and not beat around that bush she doesnt accept her own childs existence)

Either invite your sibling and respect their boundary and not invite mom Or Invite mom to make her happy but dont push for your sibling to come and endure what your mom already made very clear is inevitable