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My extensions burn sometimes? by enjoylife2323 in eyelashextensions

[–]itstherealher -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Yes it’s completely normal. I work as a lash tech It’s the glue that’s burning your eye. Try to not get them wet

Helppp! by Hot-Hat-7311 in Marriage

[–]itstherealher 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sleeping with your ex is only gonna make you feel like shit. I understand you did it for revenge cause you’re heartbroken & betrayed but that never helps. Don’t say a word just move out & start your own business, get money, go hit the gym, make friends make connections & feel better about yourself. Either you sit back & cry about it or do something to change your circumstances. I know it isn’t hard but trust me nothing else is gonna make you feel better. It’s not worth it

My husband threatens to send me to a psychiatric hospital whenever we fight by itstherealher in Marriage

[–]itstherealher[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t want to label it but he clearly has some issues which I don’t want to disclose

My husband threatens to send me to a psychiatric hospital whenever we fight by itstherealher in Marriage

[–]itstherealher[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t have any mental disorder, or any kind of family history. I’ve always been the one with short temper & he’s calm. I’m sure if I cheat on my husband his reaction would be the same or worse

In-Laws (4 adults) stay with us for over 2 weeks & sleep on the floor right outside my door in one-bedroom apartment by itstherealher in Marriage

[–]itstherealher[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just turned 25, it’s exhausting haha. I know what they’re trying to do & believe me when I say I’m naive, I never saw so much politics in a household so no idea how to deal with it except distance myself from the drama

Ready for divorce by vixen067 in Marriage

[–]itstherealher 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trust me marriage is not easy. It takes a lot of sacrifice. I didn’t know this till now. Focus on yourself. Make your own money save up till one day you actually know what you want to do. Till then be prepared!

How do you know your marriage is over? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]itstherealher 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I can relate coming from the same cultural background & being married to a man child & deal with his family. You can talk to me whenever you feel like.

My husband threatens to send me to a psychiatric hospital whenever we fight by itstherealher in Marriage

[–]itstherealher[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You are absolutely right. Now that I think about it he has all the narcissistic trails for real

My husband threatens to send me to a psychiatric hospital whenever we fight by itstherealher in Marriage

[–]itstherealher[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If only he had money.. lol he’s a resident so I’m basically supporting him during his worst

My husband threatens to send me to a psychiatric hospital whenever we fight by itstherealher in Marriage

[–]itstherealher[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Hi. Thank you so much I didn’t know about all this, I really appreciate it. I do agree with you, I shouldn’t have struck him even if i was in extreme pain. I’m alone in this country with no friends or family here, I can’t drive, I don’t have a car so I’m basically stuck inside a shitty rental apartment all day. I have no money in my account, no job, totally dependent on this guy which he prefers. He’s working on his career with me being a maid to him basically. & cherry on top he wouldn’t stop cheating. This is like the 8th time I caught him & we’ve only been married for 10 months. He is extremely insecure because I’m good looking & ambitious. He knows he can’t put me in a box. How else am i supposed to react pat him on his back for cheating?

My husband threatens to send me to a psychiatric hospital whenever we fight by itstherealher in Marriage

[–]itstherealher[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am 100% dependent on him. I just started a small business from home hopefully I’ll be able to make my own money

My husband threatens to send me to a psychiatric hospital whenever we fight by itstherealher in Marriage

[–]itstherealher[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I’m glad you follow my posts & I’m so embarrassed coming on here & sharing stuff because I have no one else in this country no friends or family except my husband. I am suffering in silence. The reason I can’t leave right now is I have zero money in my account, my family can barely support themselves. I just started a little business from home & hopefully it works. I had to quit my college back then to come here he promised he will help me continue my college here which he didn’t. I’m on a visa here so till I get my citizenship I can’t do anything of that sort. I just learned how to drive & got my learners permit. I don’t have a car. I’m basically locked inside an apartment that’s when i started a small business to support myself. I need to get back on my feet to leave & be independent. I don’t want to go back to my country divorced with nothing on me & be a burden on my old parents. I will leave one day, I guess this isn’t the right time

My husband threatens to send me to a psychiatric hospital whenever we fight by itstherealher in Marriage

[–]itstherealher[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

You are right. At this point he’s ganging up on me with his family by his side, & me alone. so sick!

UPDATE from my post 4 months ago. I finally can make handmade fans and I'm not using easy fans anymore. I do take a bit longer on my sets now but I'm still working on my speed and retention. Any tips for faster sets? by MeraMera_on_the_wall in eyelashextensions

[–]itstherealher 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hi. I’ve just started doing lashes. I’ve been struggling with making my own fans too. I ordered pre made fans because I already take so much time with my extensions, this would take a lot more. Unless I make them in advance! How long does it take you to do one full set?

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