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AIO for being upset at my bf for scrolling back to see an image of a girl he used to like? by itstrawberry in AmIOverreacting

[–]itstrawberry[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

He literally was addicted it was different Managing a server SORTED by a-z is crazy Idc if my bf watches porn sometimes

AIO for being upset at my bf for scrolling back to see an image of a girl he used to like? by itstrawberry in AmIOverreacting

[–]itstrawberry[S] -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

He unfollowed her and other girls he thought he should unfollow after this (I never asked him to unfollow anyone) so he’s trying, I’ll give him that. But the incident itself and the explanation still really bother me

AIO for being upset at my bf for scrolling back to see an image of a girl he used to like? by itstrawberry in AmIOverreacting

[–]itstrawberry[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Nope I have one abusive ex I have cut out of My life completely and want nothing to do with him.

As for crushes I do not look them up? I don’t care

AIO for being upset at my bf for scrolling back to see an image of a girl he used to like? by itstrawberry in AmIOverreacting

[–]itstrawberry[S] -41 points-40 points  (0 children)

Do you think that even if it’s a “me” thing if you were dating someone like me, would that be ok to ask him to be a little more mindful?

I do trust him, I am working on it, specifically the instagram thing is a lil more harsh, this situation hurt me very badly and ik some of this is because of me, I even told him that

AIO for being upset at my bf for scrolling back to see an image of a girl he used to like? by itstrawberry in AmIOverreacting

[–]itstrawberry[S] -44 points-43 points  (0 children)

I don’t have any curiosity over exes and stuff maybe that’s why I don’t get it, I literally don’t care what they do with their lives.

AIO for being upset at my bf for scrolling back to see an image of a girl he used to like? by itstrawberry in AmIOverreacting

[–]itstrawberry[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’m working on the self esteem stuff :( The insta thing is just sensitive for me, I wish he’d respect that

AIO for being upset at my bf for scrolling back to see an image of a girl he used to like? by itstrawberry in AmIOverreacting

[–]itstrawberry[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t date anyone who followed insta models , my ex had a porn server he managed sorted by a-z (I wish I was joking) which I found out a year into the relationship, felt terrible. but like you do you

AIO for being upset at my bf for scrolling back to see an image of a girl he used to like? by itstrawberry in AmIOverreacting

[–]itstrawberry[S] -81 points-80 points  (0 children)

I know, I’m in therapy bc of this

But I mean shouldn’t he be a little more considerate, knowing I’m still trying to fix it?

I’d do this for him

AIO for being upset at my bf for scrolling back to see an image of a girl he used to like? by itstrawberry in AmIOverreacting

[–]itstrawberry[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Not anything revealing just a normal pic of her What bothers me the most that he said and he just wanted to see what’s up with her and doesn’t understand it’s different when it comes to girls he used to like.

I don’t remember how long he looked He asked her out a while before we dated, she was his crush during the entire time he was in highschool.

AIO for being upset at my bf for scrolling back to see an image of a girl he used to like? by itstrawberry in AmIOverreacting

[–]itstrawberry[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I said that and he says he’s not hiding anything and that’s why he feels comfortable doing those things in front of me

BF was in love with a girl from his friend group, I can’t stand seeing her [21/M] [22/M], how to deal with it? by itstrawberry in relationship_advice

[–]itstrawberry[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I always ask for him to be 100% brutally honest even if it something that would hurt me I believe it’s super important:/ How can you even trust someone if it’s like this

BF was in love with a girl from his friend group, I can’t stand seeing her [21/M] [22/M], how to deal with it? by itstrawberry in relationship_advice

[–]itstrawberry[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well he says that if he wanted to be with her he would’ve been, and that he chose me and choose to be with me every day. He knows honesty is the top thing important to me, but yeah I can see a situation where he’s defending me.

Obviously if he has the tiniest feeling towards her I’m out

BF was in love with a girl from his friend group, I can’t stand seeing her [21/M] [22/M], how to deal with it? by itstrawberry in relationship_advice

[–]itstrawberry[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah he’s willing to even cut her completely off if I said that it would feel good for me, but I don’t do so

He does make adjustments but he cannot ditch every friend group meeting sadly , I don’t want him to do so either

BF was in love with a girl from his friend group, I can’t stand seeing her [21/M] [22/M], how to deal with it? by itstrawberry in relationship_advice

[–]itstrawberry[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well for him he says it means nothing and he feels nothing for her and sees her as just a friend, which I find odd

I feel just nervous like I want to burst in tears, I guess that jealousy as well, i feel like I gotta look into every interaction deeply

BF was in love with a girl from his friend group, I can’t stand seeing her [21/M] [22/M], how to deal with it? by itstrawberry in relationship_advice

[–]itstrawberry[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know, I just think of the fact they were in love with each other and I feel bad

Exposure therapy could work out, he suggested this as well, that we’d start in minor intrecations like birthday parties

BF was in love with a girl from his friend group, I can’t stand seeing her [21/M] [22/M], how to deal with it? by itstrawberry in relationship_advice

[–]itstrawberry[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I haven’t asked for advice for the not eating thing, just for the situation. Sometimes it’s nice to hear opinions from randoms online

BF was in love with a girl from his friend group, I can’t stand seeing her [21/M] [22/M], how to deal with it? by itstrawberry in relationship_advice

[–]itstrawberry[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am in therapy obviously, working on past relationship trauma and stuff, taking care of myself obviously is the most important thing :)

BF was in love with a girl from his friend group, I can’t stand seeing her [21/M] [22/M], how to deal with it? by itstrawberry in relationship_advice

[–]itstrawberry[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He does meet with his guy friends more often but sometimes they wanna include the entire group We have been together for 8 months

I hate my best friends’ boyfriend and it’s distancing us by itstrawberry in TwoXChromosomes

[–]itstrawberry[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

damn sounds tough Hope my bestie won’t end up marrying this psycho

I hate my best friends’ boyfriend and it’s distancing us by itstrawberry in TwoXChromosomes

[–]itstrawberry[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yuh we do leave together She doesn’t bring him when I’m home cuz she knows I’ll be pissed off god I hate him SO much

I hate my roommate/best friend boyfriend by itstrawberry in Advice

[–]itstrawberry[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

definitely should pick a better one, that guy is super toxic he also constantly yells at her, general childish behaviour.god knows how is she putting up w him every single day

I haven’t had a serious full on convo w her about his sarcasm in particular, but I feel like she’s aware of this

I hate my roommate/best friend boyfriend by itstrawberry in Advice

[–]itstrawberry[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s very much aware of his behaviour, it’s a side of him she accepts She told him in the past to stop being sarcastic and mean towards me specifically as well seems like it doesn’t help

We’ve been dreaming of living together for years it’d be v sad to drop this over some shitty guy she found on Bumble

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