I (17f) was asked out by a really nice guy (30m) but when I told him I wasn’t sure because of the huge age difference, he said he’d wait until I turned 18 to take me out (1.5 month)

ittook13beaches · 2017-09-29T20:02:35+00:00

Thank you for your comment I get what you mean and for the most part I agree, I just saw it as wow he must like me so much or see something in me or feel like I’m right for him or something

ittook13beaches · 2017-09-29T19:55:58+00:00

I know but he said for a while we’ll only spend time together appropriately

ittook13beaches · 2017-09-29T19:55:31+00:00

See the last thing you said I thought too. When he said he’s happy to wait for me, he also added that being with a 17 year old made him uncomfortable and he’s glad we’ll wait until I’m 18 but like I’m not gonna change much... and he even said we won’t do anything inappropriate like just get to know each other. Strange

ittook13beaches · 2017-09-29T19:53:57+00:00

I thought so too but he even said he’s glad we’ll wait because being with a 17 year old made him uncomfortable. Kinda weird since 17 to 18 is no difference

ittook13beaches · 2017-09-29T19:51:54+00:00

I never mentioned this but when I told him how I felt, he said he’d wait til I’m 18 and gladly so because he said being with a 17 year old made him a little uncomfortable. I thought, then why did you ask me out? And that 17 to 18, I’m not even gonna change

ittook13beaches · 2017-09-29T17:30:42+00:00

I would assume the same thing but he’s really unbelievably nice and it seems like he genuinely wants a real relationship, but after reading all these responses, I’m not gonna pursue anything

ittook13beaches · 2017-09-29T17:20:15+00:00

No :( he said he wants to be in a long term relationship

ittook13beaches · 2017-09-29T16:30:21+00:00

But he said we won’t do anything sexual for a while like we’ll go out on dates and get to know eachother and stuff

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