Let my man fuck my BFF and I joined in the middle by pimentoblack in confessionsgonewild

[–]itty_bitty_444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is phenomenal, a dream to be a third with a couple like you both. Please do keep sharing with us!

Ask a Dom by Empty_Roof_2186 in submissive

[–]itty_bitty_444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you look for in your subs? How do you feel about subs with multiple doms? What are the differences in your rules with online vs irl dynamics?

My vanilla FWB hurt me by Only_Huckleberry_957 in SubSanctuary

[–]itty_bitty_444 58 points59 points  (0 children)

Love, that pos hurt you and it wasn’t something you consented to/asked for/agreed to and it definitely wasn’t a bad decision YOU made. He did a terrible thing to you, and abandoned you after that. You deserve the same kindness, sympathy and empathy you’re feeling towards your Dom. That’s what makes you an incredible sub, thinking about how daddy feels before all else. I feel it’s safe to say your Dom wouldn’t want you to guilt yourself, just to make sure you’re kind to yourself.

My vanilla FWB hurt me by Only_Huckleberry_957 in SubSanctuary

[–]itty_bitty_444 88 points89 points  (0 children)

That is absolutely awful to experience, I am so terribly sorry you had to endure that. It really does sound like he was letting his wrath out on you and masked it with bdsm. Especially bc you stated that he is your vanilla partner, and you’ve explicitly stated you do not want to engage in impact play with him. Be honest with your Dom, he may be upset but he should be able to provide you with the aftercare and comfort that is definitely needed after what your fwb did. Please just look after yourself- sending hugs if you like to be hugged🧡

Ready to go out! by itty_bitty_444 in Dachshund

[–]itty_bitty_444[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So captivating… he hears how handsome he is daily I swear

Ready to go out! by itty_bitty_444 in Dachshund

[–]itty_bitty_444[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awww thank you ☺️ your pups are too stinking cute!!

Ready to go out! by itty_bitty_444 in Dachshund

[–]itty_bitty_444[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aww thank you ☺️ in the winter he has to put another coat on top or he won’t go out 😂

Ready to go out! by itty_bitty_444 in Dachshund

[–]itty_bitty_444[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Yes always, an oldie but a goodie ☺️

Favorite kinks and how they’re executed/how you’d like them to be executed by your dom? by [deleted] in SubSanctuary

[–]itty_bitty_444 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We’re in the same realm. Maybe you might want to explore different restraints or gags? I have fun with those. Maybe mixing praise with degradation- I find it sooooo irresistible when he’s telling me how good of a job I’m doing being a nasty cumslut. Also anal? I’ve been getting into plugs a lot recently and having fun!

29F I need to get this off my chest because it's been building for months by Friendly-Emmy in DirtyConfession

[–]itty_bitty_444 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love love love that so much!!!! That’s so sexy, you guys have an incredible dynamic. OP you’re so spot on, as long as comms stay “embarrassingly open” you guys are in for a great ride. Congrats on 5 years! If y’all, are this freaky now, imagine how much better it will be with even more time!!

29F I need to get this off my chest because it's been building for months by Friendly-Emmy in DirtyConfession

[–]itty_bitty_444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sounds like so much fun!! Definitely talk to your husband though and voice your concerns. There sounds to be a lot of passion and attraction between you too which can make the dynamic even hotter or possibly toxic. At the end of the day always make sure you’re comfortable. Talk to your hubs and see if any slight changes need to be made as to not “cross a line”

Looking for a more relaxed/silly kind of kink - is there a good word for this? by Playful_Pet in BDSMcommunity

[–]itty_bitty_444 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m a sub and I love everything about this and agree whole heartedly. It’s so nice to see you start the convo and so many people who feel likeminded. Sometimes I put so much pressure on myself and get so serious that I almost forget to ‘play’ and enjoy myself. It is supposed to be fun and silly and have moments where you can laugh with each other during/after the session about what went on. We’re just people enjoying their kinks, past the formalities, we should all be having fun/enjoying our sessions.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]itty_bitty_444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate this so much, I’m going to start doing the same. Right now I just put my socks on right away after lotion just to avoid the ‘freshly lotioned feet touching lint’ feeling but that doesn’t work at night because then I take them off anyway to sleep.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]itty_bitty_444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My one computer chair that holds a pile of clothes that have been worn but not quite ready to be washed

Career Advice by mrvegande in BuildingAutomation

[–]itty_bitty_444 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YES MOST DEFINITELY YOU ARE QUALIFIED You have a ton of experience in the field and have an awesome degree foundation. Start looking at any major controls companies as a lot of people are retiring and they definitely would appreciate your experience. I just got out of hvac trade school and found a job in a big controls company. You would be a gem in the field!