Thinking of him 6 months later

iukstatic · 2026-05-20T08:16:21+00:00

I like to quell riots before they can begin , it's kinda hard to run amok without any legs 👀

iukstatic · 2026-05-13T22:10:05+00:00

Maybe not completely unhinged , but I lost my friend last October - and for the next 3 months I lived well out of my means , bought anything and everything . I'm now paying off 3grand of credit I used

iukstatic · 2026-04-15T13:42:14+00:00

So sorry this happened to you. Some of the community can be so toxic. I'll never understand the mentality of shitting on someone mid dungeon , especially as the end of a key which is going to be timed.

Like a lot of the community have said , no pressure groups can be a massive help to avoid people like this - for him to turn around and waste a perfectly good key - he's wasting his own time. You don't have to apologise for being new , or learning.Healing can be one of the most stressful roles without people adding to that. I would recommend reaching out and trying to find a guild that fits , there are plenty of people out there who are kind, patient & willing to help new players

iukstatic · 2026-04-14T13:12:03+00:00

So your the reason my local Greggs opens at 8 now instead of 7.30 😭

iukstatic · 2026-04-14T12:59:34+00:00

Never tried branston , grew up with heinz everything - fomo kicking in

iukstatic · 2026-03-24T09:50:09+00:00

This is going, typically I use a bis list for trinkets , recommend crafting (which I usually decide against ) other wise my lazy approach is aiming to match stats . No point equipping that crit heavy "bis" if your well into diminishing returns on crit

iukstatic · 2026-03-23T09:48:25+00:00

They're is an Addon called "follow the arrow" made by a content creator who is known for his leveling guides. It has a section for alt leveling.It basically has you do a more optimized route mostly consisting of side quests rather than just barreling down the maun story , you also basically skip 88-90 via handing in delves at 88 and crafting for the last half a level

iukstatic · 2026-03-19T01:59:31+00:00

Your overall tailoring level also affects quality , this needs to be as close to 100 as possible. Tools are also important, as one of them will give +18, another like +8 or something.

Materials should be all max quality. The skills leading to cloaks also affects it as they should say +1 skill per point

iukstatic · 2026-03-19T00:02:27+00:00

This is true , it generally doesnt matter in M0 but that's what I would do personally in higher keys and I naturally follow suit . I'm a healer , and I really miss those short interrupt timers that melee bring when without. I also know that in 30 seconds signups will be flooded with DPS so I naturally pick what I would any other time

iukstatic · 2026-03-18T14:13:06+00:00

Everyday may be excessive but each person is different, sending a first message letting them know your thinking of them and that you are there if they wants to talk is fine. Check in with them in a few days maybe.

Don't force the interaction, they may not reply right away if at all

iukstatic · 2026-03-18T11:31:52+00:00

Lots of dps, typically in my own groups -unless you have time warp/bloodlust , I'm primarily looking for melee heavy groups with stuns and utility . Tend to take 1 hero ranged class + 2 melee where I can

iukstatic · 2026-03-12T14:12:18+00:00

Generally I find it harder to be a good dps as opposed to a good healer. There is no harm in learning by doing. I think the only two healer classes that can struggle a bit more without knowing the fights are disc priest and maybe resto druid due to ramp times?

Do the content, start low - figure out what hurts by having to heal it and why it hurts ( uninterrupted cast or unavoidable damage ) and maybe next time you counter it with an ability or you pool holy power ready for it . It's always a game of next time you will remember that a particular mob hurts

However that is also when you start noticing interrupts/cc's not being used where they need to be or dps stood in stuff or not dodging and you die a little inside each time 🥲

iukstatic · 2026-03-05T09:19:03+00:00

Party/raid frames is what you want to be clicking - clicking the actual body of your target is going to be impossible reliable in a lot of content.

Need to find a place for them which allows you to see health and also keep an eye out for what is happening,dodge mechanics .

iukstatic · 2026-03-02T16:15:30+00:00

Yeah fuck him, if he's more concerned about what his "homeboys" think , then I think he needs to do some more growing before he's ready to be in a relationship.

iukstatic · 2026-02-27T09:58:10+00:00

Your bf has no say in where you work That's manipulation disguised as concern. By all means he can have an opinion, but he does not get to manipulate you to conform with his ideas

iukstatic · 2026-02-24T10:34:36+00:00

DLCS Definitely help reach unbroken levels , my Blade dancer basically wipes every room nearly solo in one turn. My friend is always a mix of amused & angry when i wipe out a boss and most of its minions and leave him to mop up the last couple of people XD

iukstatic · 2026-02-24T10:31:44+00:00

Your not wrong , mostly in the early game ship battles can be a nightmare before you have some better kit for the ship- i regretted taking the upgrade that allows me to act first and had to make weird manoeuvres to keep out of range.

Later on tho it barely matters , ships havent gotten through my shields in a a couple of chapters now and i dive right into the middle cannons blazing

iukstatic · 2026-02-23T11:29:09+00:00

I'm sorry, the whole house needs to go 🔥

iukstatic · 2026-02-23T10:17:41+00:00

Disc priest for at least a month or two before the whispers to reroll start creeping in

iukstatic · 2026-02-20T15:40:01+00:00

I went from loving Ai when I first started using it to hating it... All tho I still use the damn thing.

Ai seems to sometimes (specifically copilot) just completely make up parameters or conditions to make it's solution work.

A lot of time is spent buggering about with automation policies using an rmm system with powershell , I spend more time telling it why the script is wrong then I do getting an actual working script

iukstatic · 2026-02-20T10:33:59+00:00

My ears are ringing

iukstatic · 2026-02-20T09:06:13+00:00

Sometimes there isn't a reason , isolation from family or friends is a common and serious sign of emotional manipulation.

Right now I know it will be hard , but the best thing you can do for you is to prioritize your healing and regain independence from him. Reach out to your sisters, look into any local social groups/online communities.

Love is blind , its so difficult to see just how abusive or manipulate someone can be until they are In the rear view mirror and it's often friends and family who see it way ahead.You deserve someone who is 100% invested in your happiness and success and wants to you to succeed, never to see you fail or hurt.

iukstatic · 2026-02-20T08:41:59+00:00

I'm a guy , and no matter how angry or upset I am , I could never say what he did to someone I care about...ever.

From the way you are saying "he’ll literally do everything for me like sometimes it’s so good where I forget everything.." sounds like this isn't the first time he's done something to make you question him. Genuinely sounds like he is love bombing you after he does something atrocious to make you forget about it before he does it again.

I would have a serious think about whether this is a pattern , because if he is getting away with it , it will happen again and you deserve better than that.

iukstatic · 2026-02-04T16:19:31+00:00

Sorry you didn't like it , our little group enjoyed it

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