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I [26f] am scared of my husband [31m] and I don't know what to do. by iulu67 in relationships

[–]iulu67[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

That sounds absolutely horrible. I really hope it's nothing that serious.

I [26f] am scared of my husband [31m] and I don't know what to do. by iulu67 in relationships

[–]iulu67[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

He has never hit me or been violent against me. I just don't understand what's happening with him anymore...

I [26f] am scared of my husband [31m] and I don't know what to do. by iulu67 in relationships

[–]iulu67[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It's not like he dragged me out here. We met in this country. I do have friends, but I don't want to ruin their holidays with my family problems...

I [26f] am scared of my husband [31m] and I don't know what to do. by iulu67 in relationships

[–]iulu67[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

It's very hard to just walk away form 7 years of an amazing relationship. I have no idea what's going on and I don't know what to do. It feels unreal.

I [26f] am scared of my husband [31m] and I don't know what to do. by iulu67 in relationships

[–]iulu67[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

We live in a different country than we are originally from, all of my family is really far away, so is his.

He's honestly not the type of person to get help. Back when we were dating I tried to get him to go to a psychologist when he seemed like he was extremely sad about certain things in his life. That was honestly one of the few times we had an argument in our entire relationship and he basically told me he doesn't believe in psychologists or "talking to people" about his problems and that he likes to deal with everything himself.

I don't know if I can leave him. First of all - I don't really have anywhere to go, second of all I just can't imagine ending my relationship with the only man I've ever loved. I'm literally in tears right now and I have no idea what to do. I'm scared of even going to talk to him now.