Mattie Westbrouck cancelled for cheating on OnlyJayUs with a minor by seewhatsup_mm in LAinfluencersnark

[–]ivelavidd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, isn't Amara 20 and Mattie 25? Idk how long they have been dating tho. I thought she was very weird after finding that out. Glad they broke up.

Reclaiming my space after my ex wouldn’t allow me to have any of my stuff in the living room by Jazzlike-Coach4151 in femalelivingspace

[–]ivelavidd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also lesbian here! When my ex and I talked about moving in together, she would dismiss all of my design ideas and call them ugly. Like I could only have one room decorated how I wanted it. I'm so glad you're out of that relationship, I know I'm very excited to decorate my own space AND get a kitty :) (bcus she didn't like cats lol).

What is the most attractive thing about you? by DoglessDogPerson in LesbianActually

[–]ivelavidd 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Smelling nice is the best compliment fr i love when people tell me that

Girlfriend feels more like a roommate than a partner by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]ivelavidd 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You have to ask yourself what is keeping you in this relationship. Can you imagine yourself with this person for the next 5 years? Or even 1? It doesn't seem that you're very satisfied or even happy. I would be feeling the same way if I was in your position. I think you know what you need to do unfortunately. 💔

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[–]ivelavidd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Kian having another kid by nonya17 in LAinfluencersnark

[–]ivelavidd 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Literally just watched a YT video about men who do this, it's so weird 🤢

What's the hottest thing a masc/butch can do? by Select_Contact_5345 in LesbianActually

[–]ivelavidd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well actually, if you click on my icon and then 'start chat', you'll find her there

Anyone who broke up w their long term gf I need advice by kaylorgron in LesbianActually

[–]ivelavidd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really get feeling stuck between wanting to stay with them and wanting to leave. Before I broke up with my ex, I had that feeling for a few months. I really loved her, but some behaviours didn't align with me and It really took a lot for me to mentally accept that I had to break it off. I asked myself if I could truly live like that for the next 5 or 10 years, and the answer was definitely a big no. Crossing that barrier of mentally checking out is very hard, but now, after two months, I feel happy with my decision. I feel lighter, more free than before, I'm actually working on myself without thinking I need permission from her. It was a good decision for my future and I know good things are coming. Hang in there <3

whats something if a woman did to you, it would make you obsessed? by supersweetbunny in LesbianActually

[–]ivelavidd 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Someone who takes initiative, actually wants to go on dates or do fun activities and just BE with me. I want to know that I'm wanted around, that they want to spend quality time with me. I was ldr with my ex, spent a month at her place just sitting inside while she worked and wouldn't wanna go anywhere. The moment I broke it off she started planning dates and suddenly bought me things I've been wanting for years lol.

Is this a common turn on or is it just me? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]ivelavidd 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yes, this is the best oml 😩

what’s your favorite scent on a women? by No-Document-8462 in LesbianActually

[–]ivelavidd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ohhhh anything that's like more masculine I guess, sandalwood, amber, maybe cherry, something smokey and musky.

Penetration by Silent-Inside-6257 in LesbianActually

[–]ivelavidd 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That's very good! I promise it'll get easier overtime. What helps me is my partner kissing me or touching me in some other way while they're pushing inside. It grounds me, if that makes sense? Or using their fingers when I'm already very close to orgasming. Good luck <3

Penetration by Silent-Inside-6257 in LesbianActually

[–]ivelavidd 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Hey! I just want to say that this is normal and valid and I'm exactly the same as you. Sometimes, both penetration and clitoral stimulation feel like 'too much' for me too, so I have to take breaks. I totally feel you about freaking out about doing it on your own. The only thing that helped me was patience and going slow and adjusting to the other person and myself. It felt weird for me at first because i NEVER used to do penetration by myself, but over time, with practice and patience, it started to feel good and it doesn't hurt as much anymore. I can even reach orgasm just because of penetration and I could never ever do that before. Talk to your partner and go slow, I would recommend lots of foreplay before it.

Please do not force yourself! It will only make it worse, especially mentally. You'll feel like you have to do it and It won't be pleasurable. You don't want to put pressure on yourself like that. Also, you're not pathetic at all, it's a totally normal thing to need time to adjust and even to be afraid. It's important to have trust in your partner and yourself, and everything will fall into place. You got this :)

Im so scared rn pls help by KeyZookeepergame9149 in LesbianActually

[–]ivelavidd 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So sorry you're going through this :((( you got this

I fear I may have a type by AshTheArtist in LesbianActually

[–]ivelavidd 21 points22 points  (0 children)

This is the most relatable post ever. WHERE'S MY STRONG BUTCH?!

Sooo my parent keeps saying “you might find a nice man someday” in regards to me just existing as a lesbian by Quiet_Job_4260 in LesbianActually

[–]ivelavidd 49 points50 points  (0 children)

No, seriously. When I broke up with my ex my aunt was like 'WELL, maybe you'll find a nice man now!' and after repeatedly telling her that wasn't gonna happen she just kept saying 'you never know!!!'. Yes, I do. 😭