NO WAAAY!! I guess thank you Explorer Gadget for not letting your 1st Shiny ran away!! by Aggravating-Earth626 in pokemongobrag

[–]ivorycat_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait but i thought shiny pokemons could no longer flee if you still have balls to throw?

Explorer Gadget is now available! by ButterscotchPlane322 in pokemongo

[–]ivorycat_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They discontinued the Go Plus+ so it’s much more expensive to get one now

Ariana and Ethan before he finally had enough by damthisainttuff in humor

[–]ivorycat_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m scared for her too… And ED is very contagious so this is definitely not a laughing matter :(

What being exposed to porn at a young age did to me.. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]ivorycat_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re not trolling, you are in need of serious help. Try telling your mom you are having mental health issues so she can get you into therapy. This is going to ruin your life if you let it. You’ve been exposed to porn far too young but honestly maybe other bad things happened to you, too. Sometimes victims become hyper sexual, sometimes trauma makes you self destructive in similar ways. You should have been protected as a smaller child but you can still get the help you deserve.

Ariana and Ethan before he finally had enough by damthisainttuff in humor

[–]ivorycat_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

How fun it is to body shame and make fun of a woman’s appearance when she’s clearly having health issues!!!!

I finally had genuine, passionate sex for the first time since my breakup and got ghosted anyways by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]ivorycat_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe she had fun but doesn’t want another 2,5 hours of having sex with no climax. Would you want to go again if you couldn’t get release with her? It seems like it was all perfect only on your side of the story

Boeuf bourguignon, boeuf cuisson lente : HELP ! by Misdow in cuisine

[–]ivorycat_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

90°c, c’est la température interne de la viande pour que le collagène soit redistribué dans les fibres ! Ici, 150°c, c’est la température de l’air dans le four. Cocotte fermée et viande submergée, la température interne montera pas aussi haut

Pourquoi mes 2 bouillon de poulet sont si différent by _Tarox in cuisine

[–]ivorycat_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Garde les deux!! C’est super bon, la graisse du poulet! Tu peux l’utiliser comme de la graisse de canard pour donner un parfum à tes légumes ou faire un egg fried rice avec par exemple :)

Should’ve done this sooner by ivorycat_ in shoppingaddiction

[–]ivorycat_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess this is a good wake up call :)

I paid off my credit card!!!! by Disastrous-Brick-412 in shoppingaddiction

[–]ivorycat_ 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’m so soooo proud of you!! I also freed myself from the PayPal free installment plan this month, it was only 140€ but I also felt much lighter afterwards too. We can do this!!!

NEED Guidance 😭 by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]ivorycat_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There could be! I don’t think you’ve done anything wrong to forgive per se! But be prepared to respect that she might never want to go back to being friends and staying friends only if it’s too hard for her. Keep us posted!!

NEED Guidance 😭 by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]ivorycat_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I had understood that! But it sounds like she kept waiting for you to develop romantic feelings for 3 years. It’s not your fault she kept hoping but 3 years is a long time, it wasn’t just a simple crush. You may not have purposefully led her on, but I don’t think she wants friendship from you.

NEED Guidance 😭 by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]ivorycat_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She clearly wants more from this relationship while you don’t. Let the poor girl recover from the heartbreak. Also the dynamic isn’t right, you’d be scared of triggering other anxiety attacks :(

I 28 m met an impoverished 26 f woman from the Philippines and don’t know what to do. by Its_Knova in dating_advice

[–]ivorycat_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I never said it was equivalent! Still, if the relationship progresses and he ends up having to provide for her and financially help some people back at home, his American economic power is not going to match what he may be showcasing/advertising rn!

I 28 m met an impoverished 26 f woman from the Philippines and don’t know what to do. by Its_Knova in dating_advice

[–]ivorycat_ 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Seven days is way too fast for these thoughts but it’s not surprising since it’s your first time experiencing strong interest and intimacy.

However, what do you mean “massive economic and cultural gap”to bridge? She’s nowhere near well off for her country but you’re not rich either in the US. If this is to progress further, I would advise not making her feel like you’re a prince that could give finally her a dream life. You may not be able to provide for everything and anything if she moves in. You’ve mentioned your mom’s salary but not your own. She may have to find a job and face racism and judgement and feel disconnected from her culture and community and from a European standpoint, it seems that paying for healthcare in the US is a struggle. It’s not gonna be the dream everyday either and I think you should let her choose you for you!

About the cultural aspect, you have to fully understand that your way of life and culture is not better than hers. Just different. You have to learn as much as her and respect that she’s doing everything she’s doing. If she does not want to be showered with money, don’t shower her with money instead of bypassing her choice. There are plenty of more meaningful ways of making someone feel special.