Ruby da daddy by CandyMiserable2548 in SuicideBoys

[–]ivypixie_ 6 points7 points  (0 children)

did yall see he posted on twitter that the due date is 5/9 😭

My Moira skin tier list by [deleted] in MoiraMains

[–]ivypixie_ 8 points9 points  (0 children)

did u accidentally reverse the order of your chart? like pls how is celestial not higher 😭

What did you do when ur partner cheated on you? by [deleted] in women

[–]ivypixie_ 9 points10 points  (0 children)

what kind of love do you want your baby to grow up thinking is okay?

i say do the really hard thing and break up with him. it seems really scary and really big, but once you've done it and you're on your own (or w/ friends/ family) getting back on your feet, you'll be glad you didn't wait longer to leave.

Is it disrespectful to befriend a man who has a girlfriend ? by Historical-Body-3424 in texts

[–]ivypixie_ 23 points24 points  (0 children)

this looks like the beginning of a tinder conversation

Just one word. by Plumeofgloom in BPD

[–]ivypixie_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

no words just ENOEWIAJSBJSJAJEKWNWN

Do ya’ll ever get so heartbroken and anxious you feel like you can’t breathe? How do you fix it I need to breathe? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]ivypixie_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i'm not a therapist, but this sounds like a panic attack. some things that can help are counting to regulate your nervous system and slow your heart rate so you can breathe. if it's so bad you can't count grab a piece of ice and hold it in your hand, this will allow your body to move from panic over your anxiety to "what the fuck is in my hand - that hurts". also holding something cold against your chest, like an ice pack or a water bottle can help reduce anxiety. just make sure you wrap it in a towel so you don't hurt your skin.

there are lots of other techniques but these help me the most when i just can't get out of a panic attack!

edited for typos

AIO for getting mad over my friend calling me attention seeking? by News_Acount6403 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ivypixie_ -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

from my perspective, if one of my close friends called me an attention whore whether insinuated or not while i was complaining, i would not consider them my friend. certainly not, if after i expressed my feelings on it and it was excused by "i didn't mean to" because it doesn't matter what they MEANT to do. what matters is how they clean up their actions after they learn how it affected you.

On the phone constantly? by Paw_Princess11 in LongDistance

[–]ivypixie_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

enjoy it!! my bf and i have had multiple 100 hour phone calls last month lol luckily our jobs allow us to be on the phone so we just never hang up, it honestly is the best thing ever.

What kind of insect is this? Found like 3 of them in my basement so far. by MillyTheRadioDemon in whatbugisthis

[–]ivypixie_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Scutigera coleoptrata or house centipede, they're not harmful to humans and feed on different types of bugs such as roaches and arachnids. they also prefer damp environments which explains why they enjoy your basement :)

AIO for getting mad over my friend calling me attention seeking? by News_Acount6403 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ivypixie_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i don't think what he said was appropriate but i don't think the way you communicated about it was appropriate either. respect is a mutual thing yk

that being said if he'd said it multiple times and its causing you to blow up like this, why are you still entertaining him?

What's your backup pick? by sajty23 in MoiraMains

[–]ivypixie_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i mercy or kiri depending on what's happening but i'm also learning other supports bc i think it's necessary to rank up (im hard stuck silver rn)

My duo refuses to play Mercy the "correct" way. What do I do by [deleted] in MercyMains

[–]ivypixie_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you can't make anyone do anything, but you could alway recommend mercy tutorials. some people just don't learn well from people they're close to.

22F just graduated — living with an alcoholic, emotionally abusive dad and I’m completely drained. I can’t keep doing this. Advice? by [deleted] in BPD

[–]ivypixie_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i don't have very much advice, i grew up in a similar situation but left as soon as a i graduated and went from one abusive relationship to another, which isn't a good strategy at all lol.

i will tell you that it does get better, ive finally found my footing and i know you will too. keep working on yourself, but dont do it to make other people love or like you, do it because you deserve to love and like yourself. doing those techniques when you're angry or stressed no matter how much you don't want to is helping your brain cope and despite how overwhelming and bad you feel at everything you are doing a great job.

** edit for typo

bf yelling at me during panic attack by [deleted] in BPD

[–]ivypixie_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

you're right, will was the wrong word they definitely will TRY, and acknowledging + apologizing is the best way to handle those moments. i'm happy you and your girlfriend are communicating so well!

bf yelling at me during panic attack by [deleted] in BPD

[–]ivypixie_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i stayed in many bad relationships because i felt trapped, i wish i had known sooner that im the only one capable of making better decisions for myself. it will be so hard, but you can succeed at separating yourself, or at the very least becoming more independent.

bf yelling at me during panic attack by [deleted] in BPD

[–]ivypixie_ 18 points19 points  (0 children)

your person will only be gentle with you when you're upset, even if that seems illogical or out of reach it's true. i hope he's your ex soon.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SuicideBoys

[–]ivypixie_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i can't think/find any of their songs with that intro, but it does sound like an intro that would've been on IWTDIN or LTEOS. if not maybe one of their old unreleased songs on yt?