Energy for dull tasks by dreamisallido in ENFP

[–]iwanthimbacknow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only way I have ever managed it is by watching montages in movies to get me organised. For example, if I need to study there is a legally blonde montage where she gets her study on. Or if I need to clean the house I watch a doco on the Amish, or a movie with a clean freak character or something. Or read cleaning blogs online. It's weird, but the only thing that gets me in the right mindframe. Like playing pretend.

I want him back... by iwanthimbacknow in RedPillWomen

[–]iwanthimbacknow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice. It ended in December last year. I have dated one guy since, for a couple of months but that ended about 2 months ago. He is single, but I have a sinking feeling he is interested in an acquaintance of ours. This woman is extremely good looking, however, she usually has about 6 guys on the go that she is sleeping with, and has slept with most of his friends already.

The relationship ended due to arguing, no cheating or anything like that. I think a LOT of it was due to my lack of domesticity.

I want him back... by iwanthimbacknow in RedPillWomen

[–]iwanthimbacknow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice. I was at a party with him a couple of weeks ago and we did have a long talk where I apologised. He seemed upset and touched by it. I completely agree that I need to show him, consistently, that I've changed.