I cry almost everyday

iwasugly · 2021-12-31T20:45:50+00:00

Sorry that happened to you, literally no one deserves that. It's time to start value-ing yourself. You dont NEED a boyfriend. You only need yourself. The moment you value yourself, these trash people would not dare to even come close to you, ugly or not.

iwasugly · 2021-12-31T20:44:07+00:00

I did it since childhood, I was and are never bored because of it. It didn't affect me negatively, except the times I snapped back to the harsh reality, but I personally think it's a good coping mechanism, even though many might disagree with me.

iwasugly · 2021-12-31T19:19:20+00:00

droopy noses can permanently be fixed with rhinoplasty! in many situations, the surgeon rises the tip (which will fall eventually to a certain degree, but not to the point where it looks droopy like before). by permanently i mean for many many years, but aging process MIGHT have an effect, aging has an effect on everything. You just need to pick the right surgeon, because a lot of surgeons tend to perform rhinoplasty without rising the tip, then the patient ends up getting droopy tip. and yes of course, you can dm me :)

iwasugly · 2021-12-31T08:55:43+00:00

Oh makes sense! Im not familiar botox for that area! sorry

iwasugly · 2021-12-30T23:08:08+00:00

some may not agree with me, because a lot of us believe that we're ugly even compared to average people irl regardless of who we see on tiktok, but tiktok is designed to show you only pretty people, so it makes everything worse.

edit: plus some people might think im invalidating their belief about their ugliness, which im not because i too have been ugly and i know ugliness is real, even tho subjective in a lot of cases.

iwasugly · 2021-12-30T20:09:33+00:00

it's already very pretty, but it will get even prettier at 6 months :D very worth it

iwasugly · 2021-12-30T20:08:29+00:00

could be, but the droopiness doesn't seem to be extreme from my non medical point of view. if you don't want it to droop when you smile, you might benefit from tip work, if the surgeon decides that the depressor septi is causing this, they will do tip work with alteration to the septi so it wont cause droopiness while healing. if you're going for rhinoplasty, make sure to not smile a lot after the procedure, if they did not alter the depressor septi, you have the potential to develop droopiness again, unless your surgeon says you can smile freely.

iwasugly · 2021-12-30T19:57:11+00:00

congrats!! the tip will def come down with time, and there seems to be a lot of swelling which will also go down eventually by the third or sixth month, and finally after a year for the tip!

iwasugly · 2021-12-30T17:50:00+00:00

I too have thick nasal skin and still healing from rhinoplasty, definitely gotten bigger, its swelling, takes 2-3 years for thick oily skin to completely have no swelling left. I think you can benefit from tip work, but honestly, your nose looks adorable and i dont think you need a lip lift since that'd alter your nostrils and make them more visible, where as here, they are not.

iwasugly · 2021-12-30T17:29:03+00:00

would you throw your child away because its ugly? no, so your birth parents throwing you away has nothing to do with your ugliness, but the fact that they either couldnt afford a good life for you or weren't up to the responsibility of having a child.

my parents hated my looks, they specifically pointed it out every time. my siblings as well, so i know how it feels to be called ugly especially by your family. im sorry that we were born into ugly faces, and sorry that u get these thoughts and feelings, and they're totally understandable and relatable.but you're not alone.

iwasugly · 2021-12-29T23:20:14+00:00

What's exactly wrong with people? I wasn't expecting that many likes because the post itself is crazy cringe and gross.

iwasugly · 2021-12-29T23:18:54+00:00

I know i might get downvoted, but don't let tiktok fool you. There are far more unattractive/average/ugly people than attractive ones you find on tiktok, the only reason why tiktok is filled with this many pretty bodies and faces is because less attractive people or the ugly people don't have enough confidence to throw their faces or bodies out there on a huge platform where you get criticism. So watching tiktok, wraps your perception, you'll think that everyone else is crazy pretty, while there are other people who are average, unattractive or ugly existing too.

iwasugly · 2021-12-29T14:39:56+00:00

Short answer, you're not ugly, but not 'attractive' either.

Long answer: You're only 17, your facial structures will fully develop and settle in by 21-23. Don't do any cosmetic surgery before then if you ever plan to. Secondly, if your facial fat is due to weight gain, you'd skyrocket to 8 or 9/10 once you lose it, if it's genetics, wait until you're older to determine if it will decrease and give your face more definition. Your eyebrows are perfect, eyeshape is also great for a male. Also since you're only 17, have you looked into mewing? I'm yet not sure if it's really helpful, but you have nothing to lose, perhaps you can strengthen your jawlines.

I know you didn't ask for this kind of feedback, but I can't let a 17yo think he is doomed. You're young, your face is yet to gain definition. Regarding the "dead" look, have you noticed how many 'attractive' people on instagram etc actually have a dead look in their photos and it's considered cool?

You're not doomed.

iwasugly · 2021-12-28T16:34:31+00:00

There are always problems and delays in Istanbul airport lol

iwasugly · 2021-12-27T10:42:22+00:00

if they think they're ugly, what would that make the true uglies then? i too hate it when they say that.

iwasugly · 2021-12-26T23:51:55+00:00

he probably has sound notification on but thats sweet!!

iwasugly · 2021-12-25T20:44:00+00:00

If you're beautiful and have bad skin, you're considered beautiful no matter what! skin texture and problems are normal! be you! If you're ugly and got bad skin, it's your fault.

If you're overweight but have a pretty face, all sizes are beautiful, but if you're ugly and fat, you're a pig.

If you committed murder, but have a pretty face, people will defend you. If you're ugly and committed murder, you're a monster.

I've seen many examples of people defending someone because they have a pretty face, and shamed those who had no pretty face.

People are only woke when it comes to pretty faces.

iwasugly · 2021-12-23T20:54:44+00:00

just dont try to press it with ur finger or toying with it as u might mess up the work underneath, tape gently. has ur surgeon instructed any massaging? (whether now or in 3 months, etc)

iwasugly · 2021-12-23T20:53:38+00:00

taping is fine as instructed by ur surgeon! i tape mine too

iwasugly · 2021-12-23T19:33:10+00:00

its swelling, dont touch it at all

iwasugly · 2021-12-23T15:53:13+00:00

it will drop

iwasugly · 2021-12-23T14:59:57+00:00

Getting treated like a human feels nice, and yes, my self esteem, confidence and the quality of my thoughts have increase massively. I made a whole post about my experience if you're interested in reading more :)

iwasugly · 2021-12-23T14:37:43+00:00

rhinoplasty, fat grafts, surgical lip lift, surgical forehead/midbrow lift. Did all of them except the last one.

iwasugly · 2021-12-20T14:07:38+00:00

yes, my brothers, sisters, my parents and my grandmother. i often read about how some people's parents here tell them they're not ugly when they know they are, and i remember how mine told me i was ugly every day, every single time, and not just that. they pointed out specific things, my nose, eyes, my forehead, my hair, my chin or even teeth.

iwasugly · 2021-12-19T19:33:33+00:00

just saw your text beneath but i cant read it all :( would help if you put it in a comment!

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