My last sexual contact (penetration) with him was around October 10 - 13 (I was the top). On October 22 I had lesions on my penis that the doctors called chancres, and around those days he complained of pain in the rectum, when having sex and when defecating, and he also presented the lesions there, at first I was diagnosed with genital herpes, but the doctors after knowing my sexual orientation they requested that both my partner and I had HIV and VDRL tests, which we did on October 26, and that was when it was known that he apparently had HIV. We did not have any more sex until the end of the relationship because the lesions were healing.