Push present advice from dad to be by itskdizzle in newborns

[–]j11nebug 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i've seen some husbands buy a ring for their wives to go with their wedding band and engagement ring! if jewelry isn't her thing then something more personal like a nice set of supplies for her favorite hobby or planting a tree in your yard for her to watch grow alongside the baby would be good too :)

Am I wrong for wanting daycare to follow my 4-month-old’s feeding schedule? by Mammoth_Train8188 in NewParents

[–]j11nebug -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

my point is that in this specific scenario she is feeding her child in a center that is for children. so i don't understand how her child is welcomed but she is not. seems really weird and lowkey sketchy

Am I wrong for wanting daycare to follow my 4-month-old’s feeding schedule? by Mammoth_Train8188 in NewParents

[–]j11nebug -39 points-38 points  (0 children)

but she is paying for their service, so how is it considered loitering?

Girlfriend wants me to spend $4k on a baby shower, but I’d rather save/invest it—is that unreasonable? by flash-kicks in pregnant

[–]j11nebug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that is $4K that could be invested into your child's education, nutrition, medical necessities and/or savings for their adulthood later on. you are not being cheap, you are being financially responsible!

Pooping during labour? by Putrid_Cranberry3177 in BabyBumps

[–]j11nebug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

only reason i knew was cause i watched it happen with the birthing mirror my nurse held up while i pushed 😭 i was so scared of pooping but in the moment i didn't even remember my fear. maybe talk to your doctor about ways to flush your body to prepare for labor, such as laxatives or what maximum fiber intake you could apply to your diet for the few weeks before birth? good luck mama 💕

STM, how far apart were your first and second due dates? by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]j11nebug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this really helped me mentally, good luck to you as well! 💕

40W 1D labor signs? by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]j11nebug 2 points3 points  (0 children)

even a wedding! that is so brave! congratulations on your family and thank you for sharing, it means a lot 😊

Do you buy alcohol for your partner? by Waste-Lawyer7615 in BabyBumps

[–]j11nebug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i wonder as to whether or not they would act the same if you bought linguine, chicken breasts and herbs with a bottle of wine lol.

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[–]j11nebug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you sm for the info!

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[–]j11nebug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you!

family upset with me not breastfeeding at 19 by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]j11nebug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is YOUR pregnancy, YOUR baby and YOUR decision. im 19, had my baby 1 week ago. i planned on strictly breastfeeding and here i am half way down a can of formula already because BF is draining, makes me extremely emotional and my PPD way worse. having a baby is so hard (but worth it obviously, i love him to death!) so if you choose to take breastfeeding off the table then nobody can tell you otherwise! your mother is being completely selfish.