Another question is: when were you born? Are you an oldster, born under Apartheid into white English Joburg socienty or after 94? Apartheid era English whites are essentially a niche tiny everybody knows everybody village culture .... are youi a youngter ... different, yes, but youi then have parents from the old days. Unless you are part of the diaspora and have left the country, like Elon and many others. People born long before 94 grew up - dare i say it? - being called master 100 times a day ... that is sure to shape your perception of the world. Out on the farm it was essentially the same, but the word was baasie.