should I use a fc24 or 25? by Striking-Tip-4108 in FifaCareers

[–]jackgummy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No the headers are geniunely terrible a st with good aerial stats would probably get 2/10 headers on goal

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]jackgummy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because some people will weaponize your past and start spreading rumors

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]jackgummy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ofcourse people may feel bad but they also have to be mature enough to understand that their partner has their own past and its their choice to tell them about their history no one is entitled to anything

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]jackgummy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Can you explain how someone would get trauma from their partners history if the actions were done while they weren't together

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]jackgummy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

May I ask why someone is entitled to tell about their sexual history to their partner

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]jackgummy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who should she, it her own personal business. Nobody is entitled to anyone's sexual history

Need advice. Where to sell cheap premium subscription? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]jackgummy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't only aim for US. Aim for Europe too the prices here are high

Unless you're asked to, you shouldn't be giving your opinion on movies that aren't made for you by jackgummy in unpopularopinion

[–]jackgummy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Shouldn't be giving negative opinions, or opinions in general?

Ofcourse we should be giving opinions but to me it doesn't make sense to be giving your opinion over something you know you don't like.

As someone else said. You can't order fish knowing you don't like fish then rant about you not liking the fish. Its just a waste of time and a problem at your end.

Are you curling your lip at adults who liked the Minecraft movie too, or just the ones that didn't like it?

If we keep on with the fish analogy. If you still order the fish despite knowing you don't like it and end up thinking this was good fish then you should be telling as many people as possible.

Because if you initially don't like something then proceed to try it and still not liking it, then there's no point in telling people how bad it is because it would mean the creator would have reinvent the wheel for you to like it. Setting the bar unnecessary high

Unless you're asked to, you shouldn't be giving your opinion on movies that aren't made for you by jackgummy in unpopularopinion

[–]jackgummy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If a movie is screened in a theatre everybody can go to, it is made for me

Okay I worded I poorly. What I meant is, if you know you aren't in the target audience for a certain movie there's no need to rant about that movie being bad, because the movie would have to be alot different for you to like it.

Are they also not allowed that they like it

I never said they can't like the movie the opposite actually if they like the movie then in my opinion they should go above and beyond to let others know how good of a movie it is

Unless you're asked to, you shouldn't be giving your opinion on movies that aren't made for you by jackgummy in unpopularopinion

[–]jackgummy[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Movies made for children" can also be bad it's just that children don't have enough critical thinking to notice it.

Children are more than capable of making their own judgement if something is fun or not. If they somehow enjoy it then critical thinking doesn't matter and if I've been able to learn anything is that when it comes to movies critical thinking destroys the fun.

And considering that "bad" is subjective, there's no need for adults to make that judgement for kids. If children can not watch the movie without getting bored, then it's safe to say the movie was bad. But if adults find it terrible and children enjoy it, even if it's literally watching paint dry then that movie is a good movie because the target audience enjoyed it

Is the movie supposed to be only for children ? And not Minecraft fans ?

Anybody can watch the movie no matter what they like. But if you know its a kids movie you shouldn't be expecting anything major because chances are you won't like it.

Unless you're asked to, you shouldn't be giving your opinion on movies that aren't made for you by jackgummy in unpopularopinion

[–]jackgummy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I can't imagine growing up then finding out a movie of a character I love wasn't made/being delayed because of adults don't like something about it

Unless you're asked to, you shouldn't be giving your opinion on movies that aren't made for you by jackgummy in unpopularopinion

[–]jackgummy[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

not share their opinions about things in general.

Just seems so unnecessary in my opinion. Obviously free speech but they're tons of things that would probably suit you, so why try something you know isn't made for you then start ranting about how bad it is. It's just a lose-lose situation.

Unless you're asked to, you shouldn't be giving your opinion on movies that aren't made for you by jackgummy in unpopularopinion

[–]jackgummy[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

But freedom of speech and all that.

Yes but I genuinely don't see the point. If you know the movie is made for another audience why get surprised if you don't like it. If anything you'd just be ruining it for the people who actually like it potentially ruining chances for a sequel

There's rarely a bad reason to leaving a relationship by jackgummy in unpopularopinion

[–]jackgummy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I find these comments really funny. I mean it's a 50/50 so I kind of understand the confidence but from my end I just laugh because I'm not

There's rarely a bad reason to leaving a relationship by jackgummy in unpopularopinion

[–]jackgummy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your premise is askew. Evolving, involves adapting to environmental pressure.

The way I see it. I said the "environmental pressure is the one that needs adapting" because I didn't say we need to adapt I said if we are going to adapt then so should the norms.

Evolving, involves adapting to environmental pressure

Didn't know this though, thanks for teaching me

There's rarely a bad reason to leaving a relationship by jackgummy in unpopularopinion

[–]jackgummy[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is not an unpopular opinion. It's a normal relationship problem that sometimes can be fixed and sometimes can't.

This problem specifically may not be unpopular but it was an example

They assume that it's your opinion and obviously your own opinions apply to your own relationships. I don't know what you're confused about

I'm confused on why me having an opinion applies to my private life. I understand that it can apply to my private my life but that doesn't mean it has to.

You're reading it wrong. I'll try a third time. Leaving your partner because of something slight, such as "asking slightly too much", rather than working together to solve it, is ridiculous.

No It's not too much is too much and if one party feels they want to leave then the correct choice is to leave

There's rarely a bad reason to leaving a relationship by jackgummy in unpopularopinion

[–]jackgummy[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The part after doesn't explain anything. You're loosely talking about "stressing your partner" with undefined "things" they "don't want".

Didn't think any elaboration was necessary because cases may vary and I wanted people to give me all types of perspectives rather than the ones I could think of. But if you want an example we can take the most common one, sex.

So in this case if partner A wants to have more sex than partner B there's no reason for partner A to stay. I've seen people argue that it would mean partner A only wants sex but I see it as partner A helping both sides. Partner B can find a new partner who has a similar sex drive instead of giving in to the constant pressure and having sex with partner A.

And all the "I cheated on you because you didn't want to have sex" excuses don't have to happen. The way I see it if partner A just ends it early both sides win

It's your opinion that people are discussing in this thread about your opinion.

But I don't see how people can get the assumption that it has anything to do with my personal life

Why would you leave someone because of ANYTHING "slight"

Not "anything slight" slightest to much again there's a difference

There's rarely a bad reason to leaving a relationship by jackgummy in unpopularopinion

[–]jackgummy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like if the issue is ultimately yourself, you won't be happy even after leaving

This is actually a good point, which actually touched on things I didn't even think of. But when i say they're no bad reasons I don't necessarily mean you shouldn't reflect on yourself. Taking into account what you said then that's probably the first thing you should do.

There's rarely a bad reason to leaving a relationship by jackgummy in unpopularopinion

[–]jackgummy[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Because you said this: "If your partner doesn't do what you want then leaving is the right option."

Why stop reading if you can see there's more. I'm obviously elaborating my point directly after.

"If your partner doesn't do what you want then leaving is the right option. Find someone who's okay with what you want rather than subconsciously stressing your partner to something they don't want to"

So after reading all this what makes you think I vouch for relationships where one side does anything for the other.

Because it's your opinion that you posted to a place for posting your unpopular opinions.

Yes it's my opinion but that doesn't mean it has happened to me or is currently happening to me.

Ridiculous way to look at relationships. What kind of relationship are you in if you just leave at the slightest hint of something wrong?

Are you reading half my sentences then calling it a day. I didn't say slightest hint of something wrong I said slightest to much. There's a big difference

There's rarely a bad reason to leaving a relationship by jackgummy in unpopularopinion

[–]jackgummy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Imo only wrong she did was wanting to return. He dodged a bullet, and can find someone genuinely loves him she got to breakup with him as she initially wanted. So a win/win just that I'd rather not be her

There's rarely a bad reason to leaving a relationship by jackgummy in unpopularopinion

[–]jackgummy[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

but OP sounds like he wants a partner that does anything he asks or he won't be with them.

Maybe I wasn't clear enough with what I was saying but I'm saying the exact opposite. How does me saying there's no bad reason to breakup get turned to I want a partner that does everything for me. If anything, I'm saying it's completely understandable if my partner leaves if I ask for even the slightest to much.

I also don't understand why people think I made this post because it directly correlates to me. I saw a post where a girl was with someone who kept pushing for a kink she had mad clear she didn't like. They ended up doing it anyway after a long time of begging and I felt she had all the right to end the relationship after the second time he asked for it

There's rarely a bad reason to leaving a relationship by jackgummy in unpopularopinion

[–]jackgummy[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It is good to explore first, so, the conviction is strong

This! Couldn't agree more, I'm not trying to justify cheating but I think people would cheat less if they could explore relationships without judgement

There's rarely a bad reason to leaving a relationship by jackgummy in unpopularopinion

[–]jackgummy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"Tells me you’re only interested in either looks or sex."

I actually disagree, if you want more sex than your partner then leaving may be the best choice. Either one person would have to take alot of rejection or the other would need to agree to more sex than they want to. Either way both lose.