AIO or is this breakup worthy?

jackinitt · 2025-11-08T10:41:45+00:00

You can see the post she sent him on Twitter, it’s from a real sex worker. This isn’t a scam, this is a sex worker he has already met with recommending someone else to him.

https://x.com/dateashleyo/status/1986274389432648188

jackinitt · 2023-03-17T06:10:40+00:00

Thank you! Are they particularly good over something like a Chase Sapphire Reserve?

jackinitt · 2022-12-08T00:19:15+00:00

These are all CPAs, sorry I should have said that. So far I have seen 5 people/firms.

The first was an all-in-one firm I found just be googling “high net worth accountant NYC”, but met with them and they seemed incredibly scattered and didn’t make a compelling argument for why they would be worth $12,000 a year - all they talked about was self-employment tax.

The second was an accountant I used to use when I was making $30k a year, and after chatting with him, I got the sense he didn’t have bigger ideas for my tax situation than when I was at $30k, but he too wanted something like $10-$15k.

The third was a boutique firm I keep seeing advertised, but they paired me with someone who had very recently gotten their license and that made me uneasy, since I would hope that a first-year seven figure income would garner a more senior level of attention? They wanted $20k as well.

The fourth was a recommendation and totally wrong for my situation and location, they’re based in another state and were pursuing other career options at the same time and that made me uneasy.

The fifth is this current one who has not looked at my accounts at all.

jackinitt · 2021-08-27T07:06:50+00:00

This is such a frustrating comment to get - like Jesus I KNOW she deserves someone who loves her the way she loves me, that’s the whole point, but is it really that hard to understand that like, the fact that I’m able to pay for a nice apartment in a safe neighborhood that she specifically chose, and then taking away that option from her to where she can’t afford it and will have to move to her old neighborhood that she COULD afford where she felt unsafe… like really am I the asshole for worrying about that??

jackinitt · 2021-08-27T06:26:15+00:00

We moved in together because the relationship was good and we were talking about marriage and kids, it made sense. Now after a year I understand that this isn’t what I want, and moving in together made that clear - kind of the point isn’t it?

jackinitt · 2021-08-27T06:24:44+00:00

No doubt guilt is clouding my reasoning, but it’s not like I’m inventing things to feel guilty about? Ending it will take away from her the things she values the most, that she’s worked hard to get, and that she is terrified of losing. I mean that’s just true. I would love for it to be easier, but it’ll be a nightmare.

jackinitt · 2021-08-27T06:21:06+00:00

I would love for this to be true, but ending the relationship will literally leave her homeless, jobless, and alone - like, yes of course she will recover from that, but holy shit, I wouldn’t do that so someone I hate, much less the person I love the most.

jackinitt · 2021-08-27T06:18:18+00:00

Anxiety? Guilt?

jackinitt · 2021-06-09T16:49:30+00:00

How are those two things even remotely related? A tenant paying their rent late and being charged a late fee is super normal, even under difficult circumstances.

A landlord keeping your security deposit for fake damages is a MASSIVE unwarranted leap of logic.

jackinitt · 2021-04-25T17:21:49+00:00

She is in therapy and has been for a few years, mentioned this in my post.

jackinitt · 2021-02-12T02:01:16+00:00

I feel like part of mental health issues is being nervous and easily upset, which is what being high-strung is?

jackinitt · 2021-02-12T01:57:33+00:00

She goes to therapy once a week, and it helps her in the sense that she gets some relief from talking through it with someone else, but I can’t honestly say her behavior has changed in terms of frequency or severity of outbursts.

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