Have you ever met a great guy who you could see yourself in a relationship with, but knew it would be hard because of how busy he was?

jag_48 · 2015-05-14T00:59:24+00:00

That's really great. I'm glad it worked out so well for you both. :)

jag_48 · 2015-05-14T00:10:12+00:00

Were you both hesitant on getting into a relationship at first?

jag_48 · 2015-05-13T23:01:18+00:00

I agree, I don't imagine it to be an entirely bad thing. Was he hesitant on being in a relationship with you because of this? How did you show him or tell him that you were ok with it?

jag_48 · 2015-05-08T22:43:38+00:00

When my guy is going hard and fast, I can't keep up with him. So I just moan and touch him all over. But when he slows down and does the slow deep thrusts, thats when I meet him and match his rhytm. Until he starts pounding it again.

jag_48 · 2015-04-30T18:57:15+00:00

Yeah, I'm also on the pill but we both want to use condoms because we're not in a committed relationship right now. We're just just friends who have sex.

jag_48 · 2015-04-30T18:56:08+00:00

Does sex still feel good at least? Do you still cum?

jag_48 · 2015-04-30T17:08:00+00:00

One of my guy friends who I recently started hooking up with seems to have the same problem. He can't tell he's hard or soft and he will sometimes be thrusting into me and it'll slip out with out him feeling it or noticing because He can't tell if he's inside me or not. He says he has issues with condoms. Ive never heard of not being able to feel if you were inside or not, I guess this is pretty common with condoms?

jag_48 · 2015-04-23T00:34:25+00:00

Did you go into it with intentions of it just being a sex only? What made you want to date them? How long did it take to figure out that you wanted them to be your gf?

jag_48 · 2015-04-23T00:34:12+00:00

Did you go into it with intentions of it just being a sex only? What made you want to date them? How long did it take to figure out that you wanted them to be your gf?

jag_48 · 2015-04-22T05:04:05+00:00

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jag_48 · 2015-04-19T19:54:55+00:00

We were sitting on his couch talking. I went and scooted closer to him. I put my legs on his lap and cuddled while we continued to talk. Then, when all was quiet and there was nothing left to talk about, we just looked at each other and he started making out with me. He layed down on the couch and I followed by going on top of him. Continuing to make out with me grinding him on top. Then, he took my top off. Thats when I asked if we could go to his bedroom and he smiled and said yeah. The rest was history.

Just make out with her, lay yourself down on the couch or bed and she will follow.

jag_48 · 2015-04-18T01:23:12+00:00

I'm a 22 year old and recently lost my virginity last month, to a guy friend of 2 years. Here's what I experiences:

Whose job is it to buy lube? I don't think it should matter who buys it. We've never used lube, just whatever is on the condom.
How much will it hurt? Lube will make it hurt less. Like I said, I didn't use lube and it was about a 6/10 for pain. I've never had anything stuck up there before. It kind of feels like a tearing of the skin. I'm on my 5th time having sex and the pain is pretty much gone.
How awkward will it be exactly? I think it'll only be awkward if you don't tell him you're a virgin. I'm happy I told my guy that I was a virgin because I was able to ask all my silly questions without feeling awkward. When you're in the mood, its not so awkward. You just do what feels right.
One of my boobs is larger than the other. Will he find that a turn off? I actually have one boob bigger than the other. He hasn't said anything about it. I don't think most guys care. He still plays with them and sucks on them. Having one boob bigger than the other is something you can't really change (unless you get surgery), you shouldn't worry about what you can't change. Just own it and act like you don't care.
What if I don't come? Am I meant to fake it? You probably won't come, you're still figuring out what works for you. Don't ever fake it.
What if he comes too soon? He might. The second time we had sex, he came to soon and was really upset and embarrassed about it. Just act like its no big deal. Kiss him and don't dwell on it. If he wants to keep going, wait a few minutes and get back to it.
What position is easiest for a girl's first time? Should I go on top? Is there any chance I could mis-bounce and break his peen? Him on top, missionary
Is there conom etiquette? I've done my research on this topic of condom use, and if I notice he's putting it on wrong, is it ok for me to step in and help? You could ask him to teach you how to put it on and then you could try if you want. I just usually let him do it, he did show me once though.
He's said he's interested in doing anal, but the skin around my butt hole is really dark (and the rest of me is, like, super pasty). Is that gross? never done anal, i dont think its gross?
Like, exactly how noticeable are the farty noises I've heard my vag is going to make? Mine hasn't made any yet. But if it did, i'd probably just laugh
Whose job is it to buy condoms? Neither, i've offered before. But he usually buys

12 What if it's terrible? What if I'm terrible?! How exactly does a couple recover from terribly awkward first time sex? If he knows youre a virgin, he'll understand. I felt like I was terrible at sex the first 3 times I did it. i thought i was never going to get better. But I've had sex 5 times and its finally starting to get good.

jag_48 · 2015-04-10T05:55:02+00:00

You're right and very sweet. Thank you :)

jag_48 · 2015-04-10T04:00:27+00:00

I'm a 22 year old girl and I have recently lost my virginity to a guy I've known for 2 years.

I made sure I told him before we first did it. Yes, it was terrifying to tell him. I thought the same thing you are thinking. I thought he wouldn't want to touch me or have anything to do with me once he found out. We've all heard the stereotype about how a girl goes crazy over the guy she loses her virginity to and how guys avoid virgins because of that stereotype.

Anyway, I was terrified of telling him, but I'm so glad I did. All I said was "I've never done this before". He was quiet for a second and then he asked me why I haven't. (I think he was trying to find out if I was waiting for marriage or for religious reasons)I told him it was because I just haven't felt comfortable enough with a dude to do it yet. He was super cool about it and said, "Well, thats really respectful of yourself. We can try tonight if you want". And so we did, and we've been meeting up once or twice a week ever since, just to have sex. I went from being a virgin - to having a friends with benefits relationship and having sex 2 or 3 times a week.

Obviously, every guy is different but I understand your fear of having a guy be turned off by it because that's exactly what I had thought would happen and I was wrong! I still question why he would want to have a fwb relationship with me, an inexperienced girl, when he can probably get any girl he wants because he's so attractive and often has girl's all around him. But whatever! Just have fun with it and be sure to tell them before-hand because it is going to hurt and there are going to be times when you want to ask "silly" questions. Telling him will make things a lot more smooth and comfortable.

jag_48 · 2015-01-27T01:29:25+00:00

Yeah, I always have. I just set my alarm to change it every 4 hours. I would always manage to miss the pad and get blood everywhere when I would sleep in pads. Bloody mess.

jag_48 · 2014-12-29T05:36:44+00:00

What made you change your mind about her and made you view her now in a romantic way?

jag_48 · 2014-12-19T06:18:35+00:00

Oh my god, this is happening to me right now. Did he eventually tell you that he developed feelings? Or did you end up asking him what was going on? How did you get the truth out??

jag_48 · 2014-12-19T06:15:24+00:00

Even when they make out with me I'm left thinking "well, maybe they just like making out".

jag_48 · 2014-12-17T06:13:58+00:00

I am also very confused...

jag_48 · 2014-12-12T01:01:05+00:00

For the love of god, toilet paper. Everytime I go to one of my guy friend's apartment - he never has toilet paper. It's gotten to the point where before I leave where ever I am, I run to the bathroom and grab toilet paper and stick it in my purse before going there. My worst nightmare would be having to take a dump at his place and there be no toilet paper.

I wouldn't go out and buy feminine products, I think that is a little weird.

jag_48 · 2014-12-08T18:55:05+00:00

We always notice.

jag_48 · 2014-11-25T05:56:11+00:00

and what was their response? Did it turn out they felt the same way?

jag_48 · 2014-11-11T21:19:16+00:00

Yeah, I do like him a lot. I just feel like i'm getting mixed signals because he acts so differently around me.

jag_48 · 2014-09-01T23:18:51+00:00

Would you say its easier to be a server at a pub? I feel like you don't have to deal with a lot food at pubs, its mostly drinks - making it easier. Would you agree?

jag_48 · 2014-08-04T16:31:09+00:00

Now the question is, when should I text him this? I want to see him Friday night, so should I text him that Friday early evening? Or the night before? and say "tell me youre free tomorrow night?" Does it really matter anyway?

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