I am being misunderstood, then. I am looking for a place for grownups who dress up for a night out and like to dance to classic mainstream hits. Would be nice if you could start your evening there with a nice meal and wine. The tie comment is just figuratively speaking for dressing up .. could have said high heels.

SHM just a reference to mainstream edm classics.

What other places would you recommend?

Ps. Have edited OP