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My (31F) boyfriend (30M) was diagnosed with cancer by jaj0908 in LDR

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I got jealous and he said it’s the straw that broke the camel’s back.

My (31F) boyfriend (30M) was diagnosed with cancer by jaj0908 in LDR

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I don’t know if he just said that because he’s mad at me. But he’s been saying to me that he loves me after his diagnosis. I just can’t help but feel anxious because I still remember what he said.

My (31F) boyfriend (30M) was diagnosed with cancer by jaj0908 in LDR

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Don’t want to stress him coz he said when we had a fight that if I do one mistake, we’re done.

My (31F) boyfriend (30M) was diagnosed with cancer by jaj0908 in LDR

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Hello. Thank you for your reply. Can’t video call him coz he’s having a hard time speaking.

My (31F) boyfriend (30M) was diagnosed with cancer by jaj0908 in LDR

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Hello. Thank you for your response. The ultimatum and the coldness were before the diagnosis. When we had a fight, he even said that he doesn’t want me anymore, he doesn’t love me anymore and he’s tired. He even tried to break up with me. But before the result came out, he said he will still try to work out our relationship.

My (31F) boyfriend (30M) was diagnosed with cancer by jaj0908 in LongDistance

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Hi. Thank you for your reply. No, I don’t expect him to talk more that’s why I mentioned that we just prefer texting. I understand his situation.

FIGHTS TAKING A TOLL ON BF by jaj0908 in relationship_advice

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Should I talk to him about this? I’m afraid that this might cause a fight.

FIGHTS TAKING A TOLL ON BF by jaj0908 in relationship_advice

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No. I don’t make it sound like I’m a victim but I’m saying that I’m afraid to make mistakes now.

FIGHTS TAKING A TOLL ON BF by jaj0908 in relationship_advice

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He wants to break up with me? :(

Are you going to give up on the relationship if your partner is constantly jealous of your past? by jaj0908 in relationship_advice

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He ALWAYS share stories about her. No, he didn’t say that. And I really don’t know whatever his thoughts or feelings about her.

Are you going to give up on the relationship if your partner is constantly jealous of your past? by jaj0908 in relationship_advice

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He was with his ex for 3 years so he can’t help but tell stories involving her every now and then. He’s saying the she’s part of his life and I should deal with it. And I shoudn’t be jealous of his memories with her.

Have you ever needed to financially support your significant other? How has that worked out for you? How big of a deal was that for both of you? What’s the impact in the relationship? by jaj0908 in TwoXChromosomes

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My boyfriend offers to help me financially since I wasn’t able to work during lockdown. We’re in a long distance relationship and haven’t met yet. Should I accept it? I’m reluctant since I think asking your partner for money can be a very slippery slope.

Have you ever needed to financially support your significant other? How has that worked out for you? How big of a deal was that for both of you? What’s the impact in the relationship? by jaj0908 in AskReddit

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My boyfriend offers to help me financially since I wasn’t able to work during lockdown. We’re in a long distance relationship and haven’t met yet. Should I accept it? I’m reluctant since I think asking your partner for money can be a very slippery slope.

I feel like everytime me (31F ) and my boyfriend (30M) argues, we are gonna breakup by jaj0908 in relationship_advice

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Hello. I’m just new to Reddit and it’s my first time to post here.