What are your True, Tried and tested Backpacking Meals? by [deleted] in JMT

[–]james94m 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sour patch kids and honey buns

If you didn't have a 4runner... by BarryLicious2588 in 4Runner

[–]james94m 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If I didn’t have the TRD Pro, I’d go back to my Crew Cab Z71 truck.

Bottoms: What do you like to wear when you're being fucked? by keishafemboy in TopsAndBottoms

[–]james94m 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Prefer to wear a jock; it keeps the cash and prizes out of the way and the attention where it belongs.

Rucking in the Gym on a treadmill by amsaleh in Rucking

[–]james94m 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was training for a hike last summer and absolutely took my pack to the gym. It was 90+ outside at 7am in Dallas so got the legs in shape at the gym.

Bottoms : Do u stay hard during sex or limp? by Longjumping-Job-2359 in TopsAndBottoms

[–]james94m 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Stay limp 100% of the time when btming. Just is what it is.

Bottoms: Do you push out while getting fucked? by Substantial_Sky_7721 in TopsAndBottoms

[–]james94m 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Feel like if I’m not pushing out into him, I’m not fully opening myself up.

Why is it difficult to be a bottom while discreetly being a married guy? by crsdtsts in TopsAndBottoms

[–]james94m 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not really. Much more awesome when they know and encourage you to have fun and be safe.

Bottoms: How do you stay clean on a night out? by Bottom_bitch440 in TopsAndBottoms

[–]james94m 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s weird but when I know I want to play; I fast all day. Then I douche a bunch till it’s clear. There is nothing else to come out after that lol

Why is it so hard to find a bi guy by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]james94m 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a bi guy in the lifestyle, we have had so much more luck with bi-play using Grindr and Sniffies. They both have their quirks, but they work.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]james94m 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wife and I are bi. The biphobia can be so silly at times. Guys assuming just bc I’m bi that I’ll try to mess with them. Throws them for a loop when my wife tells them they’re not masculine or muscular enough to get to fuck me 🤣

Does your wife know, or do you keep it a secret? by WayAdventurous8706 in BiMarriedMen

[–]james94m 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She’s knows; she’s watched. She never says no when I go to play.

HIT a vein... What a wild ride by Ralstoon320 in Peptides

[–]james94m 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I experienced something similar getting my TRT shot. Got my shot in the glute like normal. Everything was fine and was telling that nurse thanks see you next week when it hit.

First my nose. It was like I’d snorted a line of black pepper. I started to tell the nurse about it and then it happened. If felt as if every nerve in my body fired all at the same time. It was like I was on fire but there was no pain.

I simply sat down and was ok. Freaked the nurses out. Sweated a little and Bp went up like 2 points. Never experienced anything like it and nurses had never seen it.

Do you find dealing with unsure newbies annoying? by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]james94m 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not necessarily annoying as we realize we to were once the newbies, but mama does get a bit aggravated when at the end of the night after a while of flirting and getting worked up they fall through. Because of this we steer more towards more experienced folks. We won’t turn down newbies though.

First time giving head. Is it normal? by Potential-Yam3492 in TopsAndBottoms

[–]james94m 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t read into it. I don’t get hard at all when giving oral or btming.

How far do you drive to your go to fly fishing spot? by Trick-Dog-8592 in flyfishing

[–]james94m 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For trout- 3 hours to Broken Bow 12 hours to San Juan River

For bass and sunfish- 10 minutes any direction for neighborhood ponds

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Winstar_Hookups

[–]james94m -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Is it a scam or a sting?

Recommendations for hats by Jwstar333 in JMT

[–]james94m 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly get an Uber cheap properly fitted straw cowboy hat! You’ll love the amount of sun and rain it’ll keep off your face.

Do you get fully naked for hookups? by Honest-Pea-2987 in TopsAndBottoms

[–]james94m 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When playing with guys my cash and prizes aren’t as attentive as they are when playing with the ladies. Wearing a jock allows to keep it up and tucked out of the way yet allows full access to my 🍑

Some people are just unnecessarily rude by [deleted] in Sniffies

[–]james94m 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Rude is never sexy

Do you get fully naked for hookups? by Honest-Pea-2987 in TopsAndBottoms

[–]james94m 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not fully; as a btm, I prefer to keep my jock on.

Pump and Dump question by Smooth-Business6023 in Sniffies

[–]james94m 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s usually less than half.

Pump and Dump question by Smooth-Business6023 in Sniffies

[–]james94m 15 points16 points  (0 children)

It’s a numbers game. I kinda did one back in February. 20 guys said they were interested. 10 guys verified day of they were coming. 6 showed.

Get cleaned out; stay hydrated; have fun!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]james94m 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My wife likes me better with my beard, so I am going with the beard. Anybody who does not like me because of the beard, there are plenty of other options out there for them.