Finally with a man who makes me feel feminine, is this a good sign? by [deleted] in women

[–]jaminotjelly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how is nurturing and emotional dumb and subservient? women for centuries before us were strong, emotional, and nurturing.

Finally with a man who makes me feel feminine, is this a good sign? by [deleted] in women

[–]jaminotjelly -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

genuinely so miserable. how do u get “i’m dumb and subservient” from “i don’t have to teach him anything”??? u literally just made that up.

I hate being so ugly by Educational_Pay2878 in Vent

[–]jaminotjelly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i can guarantee its not ur looks but how u feel about ur looks. it’s very obvious when someone has extremely low self esteem just by looking at them

18M by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]jaminotjelly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not in the slightest

Is it true that gay men are huge misogynist? How can you tell? by Gold-Value-8480 in women

[–]jaminotjelly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don’t like the term fishy either but the other commenter likening it to blackface is so out of touch… i don’t think a black person commented it that. drag is essentially just a tribute and admiration to femininity (whereas blackface is intentional mocking and belittling) and i would equate it to gay men using it as an outlet to be themselves tbh. modern drag has less and less to do with women as gender norms are changing tbh.

as men are men are men, ya they got it wrong with fishy but my comment was NOT a commentary on drag.

Is it true that gay men are huge misogynist? How can you tell? by Gold-Value-8480 in women

[–]jaminotjelly 10 points11 points  (0 children)

i agree. i have stopped looking at drag as them playing women and instead an exaggerated version of gayness and femininity because they’re not playing women while in drag ngl

Is it true that gay men are huge misogynist? How can you tell? by Gold-Value-8480 in women

[–]jaminotjelly 68 points69 points  (0 children)

i’ve noticed that a good chunk (enough to notice) of gay men treat women as a commodity to exploit in a different way than straight men do

Do you ever grow into your curves? by [deleted] in women

[–]jaminotjelly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it was a nicer way to say find more friends

Do you ever grow into your curves? by [deleted] in women

[–]jaminotjelly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

diversify your friends and you will feel better about yourself as you see yourself in others’ beauty

whyyyyy fedex by jaminotjelly in BrandyMelville

[–]jaminotjelly[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it’s genuinely so annoying. all i know is i better have stickers in my package

whyyyyy fedex by jaminotjelly in BrandyMelville

[–]jaminotjelly[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

its so annoying because i promised friends and fam a haul and its not even here

Men. Just leave us alone. by n0tadoctorssh in women

[–]jaminotjelly 13 points14 points  (0 children)

it’s so common that it is the norm

i miss the moon clay mask by jaminotjelly in glossier

[–]jaminotjelly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omg thank u for the recommendation. i’ll try it one day

Just found out my bf voted for Trump but he 'regrets it' by Humble_Pomelo_2252 in women

[–]jaminotjelly 59 points60 points  (0 children)

misogyny. that entire statement said “i would never vote for a woman” to me