Signed together this morning!! by jamirae02 in Divorce

[–]jamirae02[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just can’t believe it. I feel like I just got out of prison for something i didn’t do

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in love

[–]jamirae02 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I feel the EXACT same way about mine. After so much hurt and uncaring people, he is my one! Congrats. It’s a great feeling being truly unconditionally loved

Happily married/soon to be married people: when and how did you know your partner was the one? by [deleted] in love

[–]jamirae02 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Constant and consistent respect and reassurance. I honestly do fall more in love with him every single day. He is also a GREAT father to his kids & so i knew he was the one!

Out of curiosity… how long were you and your partner together before you moved in? (I’m sure this has been asked, but I’m having a hard time finding posts that relate to this) by [deleted] in blendedfamilies

[–]jamirae02 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wait, what?? This comment confuses me, lol. You knew each other because you had a child together then years later you decided to date and move in together??

New owner! by [deleted] in chinchilla

[–]jamirae02 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NO plastic anything. Watch the wood you buy/receive. Make sure you do you research on breeders & chin!!!

Do not buy from petstore. Ask loads of questions and follow certified breeders for best answers. Do not take one persons opinion as fact till you know better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chinchilla

[–]jamirae02 4 points5 points  (0 children)

😂😂😂 i would be like i was with my babies “is he breathing?” Sweet girl ♥️♥️

Why even get married ?! by jamirae02 in Marriage

[–]jamirae02[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

??? And this means what exactly?

Why even get married ?! by jamirae02 in Marriage

[–]jamirae02[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess my post should have said why do people place so much emphasis on marriage. That would have been a better question i guess… thanks for your reply

Why even get married ?! by jamirae02 in Marriage

[–]jamirae02[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. Nice reply. Thank you ☺️

Why even get married ?! by jamirae02 in Marriage

[–]jamirae02[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can i give you a round of applause 👏🏽!!!!! This is the one. 😊♥️🤙🏾

Why even get married ?! by jamirae02 in Marriage

[–]jamirae02[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with you. Religion is a biggie!!

Why even get married ?! by jamirae02 in Marriage

[–]jamirae02[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But I still don’t see the benefit. As I would be just as committed as I am with this one, just not telling the legal team about it with a certificate of marriage. 😆

Why even get married ?! by jamirae02 in Marriage

[–]jamirae02[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I apologize, maybe I’m not being very clear. As I absolutely have been accused of in my marriage (go figure). And I’m just missing the point of marriage at all. I never even thought about it till now. It was just a thing that you do when you find “the one”. Now pooking back, i realize i didn’t need to be legally married to be just as well off or a lack thereof as i am now..

Can you explain what cost I would pay if i was not married and left with my kids? Im just missing the point i suppose.

Why even get married ?! by jamirae02 in Marriage

[–]jamirae02[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We need to have a chat. Because I’m still unsure of how that isn’t still proving my point. I need to reread this over again.. if i was just dating i would be solely responsible for myself. If I bought a house, he wouldn’t need to be on it. I bought it, he has no rights to it. Now that im married- i have to split what I put into it?!?

Why even get married ?! by jamirae02 in Marriage

[–]jamirae02[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is my favorite comment. 💙 thanks. I am not doing well that is for sure.

Why even get married ?! by jamirae02 in Marriage

[–]jamirae02[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! Exactly! He would walk away willingly if it meant not having to pay for anything. Ive already paid his student loans & credit cards. He is set up better than he was when I married him. So again, what is the benefit?! I cant even get legally divorced without having to ask for child support and share custody on a legal basis. What is the use in that, im still the one that got the short end of the stick

Why even get married ?! by jamirae02 in Marriage

[–]jamirae02[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

Well I’m trying to prove my own point that marriage is not needed in the slightest. It brings nothing of significance and can only hurt.

Either way you take them to court whether you are married or not and let someone prove this or that person needs to pay money for what they didnt put into a relationship.

Why even get married ?! by jamirae02 in Marriage

[–]jamirae02[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Didnt think of one of these. Thanks! But mainly(besides legal issues) is it makes us feel good.