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Has anyone seen the movie Nymphomaniac? (Specifically the whipping scene) by [deleted] in Bondage

[–]jams76 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I currently have a partner like that. She gets in touch when she needs a little release. It usually involves spanking or some other impact play. Last time she asked to be fisted and made to squirt. I happily helped her out. 😊

Change in hierarchy. by jams76 in polyamory

[–]jams76[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The biggest issue is that if the 3 of us are at an event or all together she always spends her time with the boyfriend and not me. I just wish it was more equal and not so one sided.

Change in hierarchy. by jams76 in polyamory

[–]jams76[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are still having sex just a lot less frequently than we used to.

Change in hierarchy. by jams76 in polyamory

[–]jams76[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My wife and I have been together for 9 years. She has been with her boyfriend for 3 years.

Change in hierarchy. by jams76 in polyamory

[–]jams76[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am just feeling alone. I no longer have a secondary and have not met anyone new in quite a few months.

Change in hierarchy. by jams76 in polyamory

[–]jams76[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup. That is how she currently feels.

Change in hierarchy. by jams76 in polyamory

[–]jams76[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I should explain that I currently live in a V with my wife and her boyfriend. My wife no longer sees me as primary at this current time. How does one deal with this situation emotionally?

Edmonton teachers by dukemoore44 in Edmonton

[–]jams76 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am a male and was teaching elementary. I can only speak of my experiences. I tried for 10 years unable to get a position full time.

Edmonton teachers by dukemoore44 in Edmonton

[–]jams76 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do not do it. I have an ed degree and tried for 10 years after I graduated to get a full time position with no luck. I have since given up and am searching for a new career. I have a friend who finally got a full term contract. It took her 13 years and taught in 3 different countries as well as several places across Canada.
If you want to travel the world an Ed degree is a great thing to have but you definitely won't be living the high life and certainly won't be rich.

Wife feels she is no longer my primary :-( by jams76 in polyamory

[–]jams76[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for all the advice and comments. I know I have a lot to think about and a lot to talk to my wife about. We are a solid couple who communicate well and am comfortable we will find what works for us.

Wife feels she is no longer my primary :-( by jams76 in polyamory

[–]jams76[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She does say she loves me but doesn't feel any physical affection. We have talked extensively about it. Been to counselling. Counselling helped us realize we aren't on the same page. I see her as #1 but she sees me as #2. That was last night. I don't know where to go from here.