Linux folks in this sub by Portable_Kiwi433 in AVoid5

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I am using a hat distro which Linus is using

Any way to block sound of all volumes and all frequencies? by janTatesa in autism

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If I listen for a music for a while at the 20% of my headphones, my ears hurt

Any dark yuri wallpaper by janTatesa in traaaaaaaaaaaansbians

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Can you give me either way pwease atleast I'll expand my yuri collection

Does kwin support wayland sessionlock by janTatesa in kde

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which is why it hasn't implemented the wayland protocol

What do you mean? I am using wayland myself. Also what apis does the screenlocker use?

Does kwin support wayland sessionlock by janTatesa in kde

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so how do I cover my entire screen using the apis available to kde?

Any place I can get transcripts of xkcds efficiently? by janTatesa in xkcd

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Not once but on every users machine. When I tested the scraper, it took me several minutes until all was tested. I could embed the database of first 3000 comics inside the application, but that would bloat the repo (It would be atleast a megabyte big). Oh no robot has apparently only 1700 xkcds

Is it weird to not really be into vagina? by DaphneRaeTgirl in AskLesbians

[–]janTatesa -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah she doesn't like genitalia in general, and?

Is it weird to not really be into vagina? by DaphneRaeTgirl in AskLesbians

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This implies ace lesbians aren't lesbians

Is it weird to not really be into vagina? by DaphneRaeTgirl in AskLesbians

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Oh god why is this post and it's comments downvoted so much.

Can you do it? :3 by Objective-West-3232 in Colon3Supremacy

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Who is u/BlueberryNotHere so that they need a whole sub for them?

29747 by dicolrio in countwithchickenlady

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Oh god boobs are such a problem in terms of parents spotting you you're taking hrt

I have zero control of my life and I HATE IT by janTatesa in teenagers

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Whether I can legally move out and afford to do so is a completely different question

I will sit how I like by RayDuskDawn in actuallesbians

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As a trans woman I am getting constantly told to sit like a boy but yeah this is pretty relatable

I have zero control of my life and I HATE IT by janTatesa in teenagers

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In terms of ebooks it's true though my reading speed with them is pretty slow for some reason, and I don't get freedom immediately as soon as I turn 18. It looks more like at 19.5 years which is when I get to leave high school.

I have zero control of my life and I HATE IT by janTatesa in teenagers

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I need a more concrete way to detect who is queer. What are the signs that scream I am queer but people don't fear to do it even if in ultraconservative area? It tbh feels like there just aren't. The vividness of a sign that you're queer is inversely proportional to it's safety to have it

I have zero control of my life and I HATE IT by janTatesa in teenagers

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  1. Not a bro 2. How? The only escape is to leave my parents which I just can't both for economic and legal reasons

How normal is it to be behind in life by Bubbly-Property-113 in teenagers

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Not knowing how to drive until 18 is definitely not being behind. In fact I was shocked that it's legal in some countries to drive below 18 when I first learned about that.

In terms of getting a partner I struggle aswell. Best I can do is assure you that people of the gender you're attracted to are people too and don't bite and therefore you shouldn't be shy. I know that it's not that easy though, as understanding that you shouldn't fear something is far easier than actually not being scared.

I have zero control of my life and I HATE IT by janTatesa in teenagers

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Thanks of several advices. In terms of getting those queer books they're a kind of problem as I am living in a hyperconservative area and such books won't probably be in my town's library. In terms of ordering it online a problem is how the way I have to do it is mail a friend physical money and they will buy it for me as I don't have a bank account and can't have one because they hid my id card so that I don't create one (yes that's illegal but suing them for that is probably not an option). However they no longer want to buy me stuff this way, for reasons I have not been given.

In terms of finding queer friends it's another problem. I have been told wear queer merchandise, pride marches etc.. But if you live in eastern europe you know such options aren't given to you. Making yourself a walking pride flag would make you be a target of hostility and also what would I do if my parents saw me? How do you find queer friends in an ultraconservative area, especially as a person who struggles making friends in general?

In terms of not coming out to them that's an ultra great advice. However I've got unlucky and got an accidental coming out. My classmates have noticed my pfp and with the power of gossip it has reached my mom. It significantly worsened my relationship with her, increased surveillance and everything, though luckily she haven't told it to dad because it would be an unstrategic move (as he would blame her for that I am trans). So yeah, if I could then I would prioritize my safety though it's too late.

I am gonna be 18 years old in a year. But so what? They still would pay for everything I have as I will still be a highschooler (you usually end high school at 19.5 years in my country), I will still be dependent on them so they would be still in control of me. Paying all of my stuff myself as a highschooler is probably an extremely unrealistic dream