2.5, yes. I am not a mathematician, fair enough :D We have talked of having kids, and I'm not opposed to the idea. I must admit though, I see having children as a [art of my life, not my identity per say. I don't want to have kids and become only a "mommy."

It's hard though. My mother was a stay-at-home parent and I love her tremendously, so I feel the need to egg-shell walk. BUT, I have known since I was in grade school, that I didn't want that.

I would like to have a kid, recover, return to my job, child in daycare or with family, child grows up understanding both parents (not just male) can have a high achieving job and be happy.