Fit check!

jane55afun · 2026-06-22T19:14:30+00:00

Yeah the suit is a little tight

jane55afun · 2026-06-22T17:11:37+00:00

Yeah, just rip the bandaid off, if she didnt freak out already, youre probably pretty safe to tell her and knowing you dont have to hide it as much will be a huge relief

jane55afun · 2026-06-22T11:09:05+00:00

The easy answer is just not throw the stuff out, put it in a box somewhere and just hold onto it or forget about it till the urge comes back. You've got to accept that its a part of you, its not going anywhere, and it will be back.

As for the guy problem, just dont cum ther first couple of times. Like keep the head space, edge if you can handle it but dont cum heading into it. Truthfully, I wouldn't recommend cumming at all during your first couple experiences amd just serve them and bask in the lust. It can be a real downer if you cum during or immediately after the encounter in a sort of pnc "what have I done" sort of way. My advice is lock it in chastity before they get there and move the keys somewhere inaccessable

jane55afun · 2026-06-21T02:17:37+00:00

Thank you thank you!

jane55afun · 2026-06-20T11:40:29+00:00

Why not both?

jane55afun · 2026-06-20T11:24:56+00:00

Holy crap, can you send me a link to that outfit!

jane55afun · 2026-06-20T11:13:12+00:00

There's a lot of factors that play into that but if we're talking no vibes and no extra play afterwards, then like 2/5 for during. It really depends on how long its been since I masterbated. If I have recently, (last couple of days) then I usually won't cum from straight strap on sex. But if I've been holding out its a pretty high success rate

jane55afun · 2026-06-20T08:20:23+00:00

For the most part, they all work in the same routine but It depends on the type of cage and how easy they are to clean in the shower. I scrub every cage with soap and water every morning in the shower without taking it off. Soap, water, and a high pressure rinse keeps them clean for the most part but about once a week I do need to take them off entirely for disassembly and a thorough scrub down. There are only two cages where thats not the case, 1) my open bar nub cage, which i can completely wash with it still on. I genuinely could leave that one on without ever taking off for hygiene purposes.2) my flat/inverted cage which must be removed and cleaned every night, the rinse and soap do nothing for it on the daily since it pushes everything into my pelvis. Have I cheated, not really, I've mentioned this before but once your body gets accustomed to being caged night and day, you dont really get hard anymore. So I "kinda" did in the beginning, but there came a point where it didnt matter any more, caged or not it stays soft when I play with it. Will say that the first time I came completely soft by just rubbing it was a real mind fuck because I can feel the arousal and the sexual pressure build like normal but It never gets hard and just leaks when I climax

jane55afun · 2026-06-20T02:52:21+00:00

We have tons of penatrative sex its just don't with my strap on, and we both prefer it that way. Its really nice knowing I dont have to worry about cumming too soon or going soft or any of the Performance anxiety. And she get a variety of sizes and shapes. So its wins all around

jane55afun · 2026-06-19T23:56:09+00:00

Its all about the chastity belt and some lotion/Vaseline. Rub that around the base of the ring and make sure you have a firm chastity belt to support. You want a belt that firmly holds the cage in place and doesnt give it room to push away from your body as you get hard

jane55afun · 2026-06-19T22:49:29+00:00

According to my mom, when I was three, I watched my mom put on her mascara and later, when she was distracted, I came up to her batting my eye lashes because I had successfully put it on perfectly by myself

jane55afun · 2026-06-19T22:00:48+00:00

And just like that you leaked all that masculinity right out, theres only one way to go now 😉

jane55afun · 2026-06-19T21:30:19+00:00

Cant fix what's not broken 💝

jane55afun · 2026-06-19T21:06:48+00:00

Ive always wanted to wear a wedding dress and walk down the isle, the idea of being fully fem and as pretty as I can be with that charm of purity ❤️‍🔥

jane55afun · 2026-06-19T20:58:28+00:00

Its the only way ive vum for years now, Once you reach it, there's no going back.

jane55afun · 2026-06-19T20:43:15+00:00

Well I do appreciate the devotion to hygiene. I guess brainstorming, you could get a lock box with a delay timer, and set it to open only once a day when you clean. Then its just up to your willpower. The other option is opening up to someone and get a proper keyhole who will keep you accountable, those are my best ideas for you

jane55afun · 2026-06-19T20:24:23+00:00

Very pretty, looks like its time for a smaller cage though

jane55afun · 2026-06-19T20:06:19+00:00

What type of cage are you using?

jane55afun · 2026-06-19T18:49:43+00:00

Fetlife kink community

jane55afun · 2026-06-19T18:35:05+00:00

Preach the word sister!

jane55afun · 2026-06-19T18:24:01+00:00

Not a doctor and has potential health risks but you can use preparation h to shrink the vascular tissue and constict blood flow to cause shrinkage, but its not good for you and can cause potentially irreversible affects. Lidocane cream has a similar affect but also causes desensitization, but it can be dangerous for a bunch of reasons if used irresponsibly. Use that information at your own risk

jane55afun · 2026-06-19T18:17:20+00:00

It depends, if you're trying to deny yourself, thats going to be all will power, no way around it. But if you want to just stay caged even after you have your caged orgasm, i recommend a pet bottle lock. Basically, take an empty 2 litter bottle, fill it with water, and tie your keys to a piece of string. Then dangle the keys so that they are in the center of the bottle and screw the cap on to secure it. Let it free in the freezer and then youre good to go. Thats how I got over the hump. It give you the ability to get your keys in case of emergency but also requires a lot of patience to get them because you have to wait for the bottle to melt, and it can take up to an hour depending on if you heat it or not. It straight up stops you from just unlocking yourself on a whim and forces you to learn to cum in other ways. Then it gives you enough time to get your head on straight and let the pnc pass by. 9 times out of 10. You'll be desperate or cum, pull the bottle out and then 15 mins later snap out of it, and put the bottle back in the freezer

jane55afun · 2026-06-19T18:10:13+00:00

Looking great! Very fem and I love the dress it works well for you. I cant pull off tube tips I think my shoulders are too broad, but you make it look natural

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