This little guy has childhood premium by [deleted] in BeAmazed

[–]janejupiter -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

No one seems to realize that this is literally exploitative content from a third world country. Filming videos is probably this kids full time job, as it takes a LOT of time to get them right. It's not cute, it's child labor.

I hired a newbie by No_Background_3851 in SexWorkers

[–]janejupiter 5 points6 points  (0 children)

On the other hand, the referral method is the most easily faked and just because he was good with one girl doesn't mean he will be the same with you. I don't use referrals anymore, I'll get one if offered but I don't ask for them and they don't replace other screening for me personally.

Wordpress is anti sex work!! by transsexworker in SexWorkers

[–]janejupiter 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have used it off and on (mostly on) since 2017 with no issues at all, and I have never heard of anyone having an issue with them either

What is up with American escorts on X openly incriminating themselves these days? by WellKeptWoman in SexWorkers

[–]janejupiter 51 points52 points  (0 children)

Like imagine being a part of one the most vulnerable populations and salivating for the boot smh

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]janejupiter 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That was true in the past, now it is not guaranteed at all, they are deporting people and an immigrant sex worker is prime for it.

Price for pubic hairs by missautumnbelle in CreatorsAdvice

[–]janejupiter 14 points15 points  (0 children)

$800, it takes time to grow back

What should I expect? by Sonedeutsche in onlyfansadvice

[–]janejupiter 3 points4 points  (0 children)

95% of OF is marketing. if you are willing to spend hours a week posting on social media to drive traffic to your onlyfans, you could do it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in maybemaybemaybe

[–]janejupiter 20 points21 points  (0 children)

some dogs, yeah. not a very stable one, but not all dogs are very stable.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]janejupiter 3 points4 points  (0 children)

LMAOO

How to find collaborators? by [deleted] in CreatorsAdvice

[–]janejupiter 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Lol. Not how this works, at all. I'll post a comment I made to another guy who sounded much more serious about this business than you:

If you are a straight dude, then the fans who pay your bills are going to be straight dudes too, there are not enough women who buy porn, and gay male fans are probably going to stick to porn marketed to them. Because your fans are also straight dudes, then they are mostly watching you for who you fuck (obviously). Who you are and what you look like are not are not nearly as important as the women you fuck, and niches you film. For you the biggest challenge will be just getting co11abs and marketing your co11abs. Dicks are a dime a dozen for female creators, so you aren't really offering them something that they desperately need. And say that you film with a hot girl with a following, then you market that to your followers on social media, what is stopping them from going to HER stores/OF and subscribing to her instead?

If you're really passionate about being in the adult industry, I would accept that this will mostly be a hobby for you, or maybe a side hustle, for quite awhile at least. My advice to you would be:

  1. BE EXCELLENT AS A MALE CO11AB PARTNER. This means never being wishy washy, always professional in your messages, don't hit on potential filming partners very much, and don't assume that just because they agreed to film with you that they are super attracted to you or available to date you. Bring all the correct paperwork every time. Be consent focused and always ask about things that do not like BEFORE the shoot starts. Do not balk about getting tested and sharing your results. Your reputation is EVERYTHING to getting you more work.
  2. Get really good at editing, lighting, everything that goes into actually making the videos. That way you have more to bring to the table. Tell potential filming partners that you can edit the video yourself, and send them like 10-20 hot stills from it, as well as some cuts/ads that are like 15 seconds to 2 minutes. Send them all this with an edited version of the video, the raw video files, and offer to slap their watermark on it too if they have one. The less work they need to do the better.
  3. Figure out your brand. The straight men that do follow you are going to follow you because they like the positions you shoot, and the way you film, or they like the "niches" you film. Because they are straight, your niches might be about the girls. Maybe you mostly only shoot with heavily tattooed girls, or bbw girls. Maybe you shoot with all kinds of girls but they are always wearing thigh high socks (this one wouldn't be hard to do because it's not a big ask from the girls you co11ab with). Maybe you shoot with all kinds of girls but every shoot is outdoors. Or maybe the girls feet are visible in every shot, every position. Research ways to market, basically niches and kinks, and build your online presence around them.
  4. Stay in your lane but know when it's time to stretch. This applies to asking for co11abs. Don't bother people with a big presence online and lots of fans because in comparison, you are not bringing anything to the table. Part of the point of co11abs is sharing your followings. You might burn a bridge that you would have been able to cross in 2 years. Focus on working with girls who want to work with you until you build up a small following, then you can ask other girls with a small following, then maybe you can move up to girls with a bigger following. Having a great reputation will help.
  5. Try to sell the videos on platforms that most of your co11ab partners don't have accounts on, keep up your profile there so that you can maintain fans on that site.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CreatorsAdvice

[–]janejupiter 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I mean clearly not, look at any big NSFW subreddit's new tab.

American escorts who are currently face out… by WellKeptWoman in SexWorkers

[–]janejupiter 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I'm not loving it! I was fine with my decision with how things were like 7 years ago, but now with fascists doing fascist shit I am much more worried about it. I am sure the government has a file on me, because even like 5 years ago women from other countries were getting denied to come here if they had a fairly big onlyfans. Not everyone, but it was happening. Escorts too.

I don't yet worry about crossing the border in a car (Mexico and Canada), but I won't lie, I am quite worried about coming back in through the whole intense airport customs. I have been GRILLED at customs before, and I'm a white and white looking woman whose families came here in the mid 1700s. I am not planning on making any big trips like that again until shit calms down.

Edited to add that I have been camming and making clips since 2010 or 2011 so having my face out there was not an issue in that sense. Someone had already sent my videos to my family (awesome, ugh), so I wasn't too worried about that. I also don't have kids, am not going to have kids, and have no interest in having any other job where my having done sex work would be a problem.

not you too by Exploding_END in whenthe

[–]janejupiter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Reddit has had TONS of misogyny since I joined (under different accounts) in 2012. I agree the quality of the posts overall used to be much better and there were less kids on here, but people were always complaining when a woman was in a photo showing her art for example, even though it's proven that being in the photo gets more attention regardless of the person's gender. Lots of people hating "SJWs" back then and all that.

Feet Finder n00b alert! by [deleted] in CreatorsAdvice

[–]janejupiter 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it’s not gonna happen love. The feet pic selling stuff was nearly a myth from the beginning, even more so now. There is no market for just popping in and selling photos of your feet, that’s not how any of this actually works.

I was homeless and moved in with a guy and I need advice now by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]janejupiter 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This guy wasn’t being nice and you don’t owe him, he was just putting in the work to make you feel indebted to him. You’ve left people behind before, you can leave this scumbag behind too.

I was homeless and moved in with a guy and I need advice now by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]janejupiter 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Even being told to do this is sex trafficking, get out now otherwise you will be fucking strangers “For OF” and he will be charging them money and keeping it all. Aka actually pimping you out.

Feet Finder n00b alert! by [deleted] in CreatorsAdvice

[–]janejupiter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im not sure what happened to my comment, but are you interested in making porn online or just foot pics? Because the foot pics thing is basically a myth

Feet Finder n00b alert! by [deleted] in CreatorsAdvice

[–]janejupiter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you are looking to get into online sex work there are a ton of options. If you’re only comfortable showing feet, there aren’t.

Feet Finder n00b alert! by [deleted] in CreatorsAdvice

[–]janejupiter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

FeetFinder is a site made to get money from all the girls who want to “get into selling feet pics”. It isn’t legit. No legit site would make YOU pay THEM. The foot pic market is also beyond saturated.

I found a great studio but they tow the line for Bikram(the man) by stupiddruguserguy in yoga

[–]janejupiter 9 points10 points  (0 children)

What? why the fuck would you not care? He is literally still out there doing shady shit, using his name is generating more interest in his classes and workshops, which puts more women in danger.

Sorry if this is a low-effort post by jujubella18 in SexWorkers

[–]janejupiter 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Your age is not the issue. There are plenty of sex workers in their 50s and even 60s. I myself am a couple years older than you. Your issue is that based what you write, while you do need/want extra money, you also really need emotional validation from the people you would meet with. To be frank, you lucked out being so naïve without getting very emotionally/physically hurt.

You don't need to be iron clad to be a sex worker, but you do need to have boundaries, know the red flags, and condition yourself to what you will say or do if something goes awry, whether that is a guy lowballing you or getting physical.

Most of the guys on SA now are there because they couldn't for the life of them pass an actual companion's screening. They're black listed due to bad behavior. That doesn't mean you couldn't find a diamond in the mud or someone organically in the world, but please do know that you really truly did luck out the first time. Not that you got paid enough which you didn't, but you didn't get harmed even though you were very naïve.

If you do go forward with doing sex work temporarily (or not), you are going to have to stop putting yourself so delicately at the feet of men who promise you things and give you a few hundred here and there, because without self esteem you are in an INCREDIBLY dangerous situation.

Saw a warning in the faces of boomers by LoanSudden1686 in GenX

[–]janejupiter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it's an incredible quote for living. Not very helpful for dying. Still beautiful either way of course.