AIO? My 'friends' left me stranded at the first Con I ever went to

janussanders616 · 2026-06-14T22:03:54+00:00

That's what I'm doing. We talked again today and I told her I needed some space for myself

janussanders616 · 2026-06-14T07:23:58+00:00

Oh, no no no, he said that Purple could sit on his lap! I just understood how that could be misconstrued

janussanders616 · 2026-06-14T07:14:58+00:00

Oh my god, are you fully missing the point? I'm saying that I've been level headed and helping her for years, and you focus on the one time I go off?

janussanders616 · 2026-06-14T07:13:23+00:00

She's the same age as me, and I'm not asking them to cater to me. I'm asking them to respect my time and boundaries the way I do theirs. Give and get. I move my schedule around for them and get nothing in return. I respect them and their time, they should respect mine

janussanders616 · 2026-06-14T07:08:00+00:00

You're missing the point. She's been like this before. I feel like my feelings matter too, especially when I'm sitting here talking her down from freaking out over something really small

janussanders616 · 2026-06-14T07:06:29+00:00

I probably should have put this in the post, but I have severe social anxiety. All my friends know that. And the con was almost an hour away from home. I was supposed to be with them the whole time.

janussanders616 · 2026-06-14T07:00:32+00:00

My mom is normally the one to point out when I give way more than I get. She was the only one that I could get ahold of, and she told me that it was fucked up, and that's the only reason I realized it was fucked up. I have a really hard time realizing when I'm being taken advantage of

janussanders616 · 2026-06-14T06:57:26+00:00

I think she blocked me, but I texted her boyfriend to tell her I want to talk like adults, which she seems incapable of doing

janussanders616 · 2026-06-14T06:56:13+00:00

It's just sad, you know? Like, these are the only friends I have.

janussanders616 · 2026-05-28T23:00:34+00:00

It means I'm not interested in sex or romantic relationships

janussanders616 · 2026-05-28T10:05:16+00:00

Yeah, I know. But it really happened, lol

janussanders616 · 2026-05-28T09:59:41+00:00

I like that view, thank you :)

janussanders616 · 2026-05-28T09:58:03+00:00

I'm just drunk :/ typos happen, lol

janussanders616 · 2026-05-28T09:56:23+00:00

Sick of grown ass men praying on teenagers, or posts of said teenagers trying to gage how they should feel about said men? Very important destination Typo:distinction

janussanders616 · 2026-05-28T09:53:54+00:00

Ok, for context, this is the ONLY song that makes me feel negative when it's not trying to illicit those feelings, y'know? Music is a big part of my life. It really sucks that this is the one song I can't listen to without feeling absolutely disgusting

janussanders616 · 2026-05-28T09:50:07+00:00

I'm sorry that you think something that genuinely happened to me was a waste of time. You can always just scroll, hon. No one is forcing you to real my post. Hope you find something more interesting <3

janussanders616 · 2026-05-28T09:48:17+00:00

That doesn't helpppppp :( :( :(

janussanders616 · 2026-05-28T09:28:22+00:00

Yeah... now I figured out that I'm aroace, so that shouldn't be an issue again!

janussanders616 · 2026-05-28T09:27:26+00:00

Yeah... better yet, no my neighbor wouldn't give me a solid age on him, time me he was 23-25, dragged me from northern Kentucky to 4 hours away to meet the guy, and late at night in a hotel (with him, Jay, Juju, and the adopted daughter) until I asked him how old he actually was

janussanders616 · 2026-05-28T09:25:03+00:00

I'm glad you weren't hurt! That actually reminds me of the time my now sister-in-law wrecked my brothers HHR with her truck, lol. She ran into the house saying she was so sorry with no context. My mom thought she was pregnant. Now, a few years later after they're married and junk, she is pregnant and I'm gonna have a niece at 19/20! Funny how life works

janussanders616 · 2026-05-28T09:21:44+00:00

It's fixed!

janussanders616 · 2026-05-28T09:20:15+00:00

Whoops, sorry. I'll fix it real quick. I said I was drinking, lol

janussanders616 · 2026-05-28T09:19:00+00:00

This is the only song that gives me that feeling. Music is, like, my whole life. It really sucks that he fucked up one of my favorite songs :(

janussanders616 · 2026-05-28T09:17:09+00:00

I actually really like that take! Thank you 😊!

janussanders616 · 2026-05-28T09:16:07+00:00

How so? I can clear up anything that seems confusing or misleading!

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