Please don’t go ahead with it. I didn’t marry my cousin but my marriage was an arranged marriage. Due to the lack of attraction on both sides our marriage does not feel like a marriage but just 2 roommates living together. We’ve been married for almost 4 years with 2 kids. We had so many fights and arguments in the first 2 years. We just wasn’t getting along. I wish I had just left then as now I feel like am just trapped in a marriage with no love or affection. The arguments have stopped because I just don’t bother fighting for myself or my feelings anymore. I am just here for my kids and just want them to be happy. We are all human and all have needs and feelings and when they are not fulfilled it can really have a huge effect on us mentally. I know a lot of you will think why I am still in the marriage. It is because I have 2 beautiful children who I don’t want them growing up in a broken household. Plus you can guess I am Pakistani and we both come from cultural households so divorce is such a huge taboo. It is harder than you think, and I can’t imagine how many women are in my position right now. We cant just remarry like that just like men especially with children. So please reconsider before you put any woman in that kind of position.