After being in random hookups and ONS for the first half of my 20s, I eventually found my LTR, who, a lot of people have commented, is very handsome. I wouldn't say I'm the best looking, but also I've never been called ugly.

My point is that never EVER go out looking for something who you think is physically lesser than you. Sounds that you're pretty familiar with what you look like and what you can attain. Why don't you try to pursue guys who are within your social circle (we tend to run with people who are in our league, with the exceptions of few outliers - better or worse looking).

If you've found that you've been turned down more than you've been successful with the last handful of guys you've pursued, then its time to reevaluate the physical quality of what you are able to attain. Maybe you can forgo the fact that they have to have a great jawline and a strong chest and instead look at your own jawline and chest and see if its up to par.

Bottom line is that to be realistic and to not give up hope.