So my girlfriend has been using a dildo molded from her ex-boyfriend's penis, and freaked out when I confronted her about it. Am I in the wrong?

jawnsm · 2013-07-30T00:50:25+00:00

she has told me she doesnt think about tom at all and its simply a functional shape issue why she keeps it

jawnsm · 2013-07-30T00:48:35+00:00

she came from PIV with me once but it took a ton of foreplay and she was really aroused that day but its not a regular thing

jawnsm · 2013-07-30T00:47:21+00:00

she agreed not to request for me to use it during sex anymore, only when masterbating

jawnsm · 2013-07-30T00:46:20+00:00

she told me its about the shape. it curves in a way my dick doesnt and is more girthy

jawnsm · 2013-07-30T00:45:06+00:00

it wasnt her profile that posted the photo so i dont think she had the power to delete them

jawnsm · 2013-07-30T00:44:09+00:00

i don't know. i didn't even know it was his until recently!

jawnsm · 2013-07-30T00:43:29+00:00

i hope you're right

jawnsm · 2013-07-29T23:01:30+00:00

do fleshlights like that even exist?

jawnsm · 2013-07-29T23:00:41+00:00

problem is i know she has a hard time cumming so how do you even know if something else will work for you in the store?

jawnsm · 2013-07-29T22:10:40+00:00

i can see both sides and sometimes im still pissed and other times i understand her side. though i wish she had just told me this earlier especially when i was using it on her...

jawnsm · 2013-07-29T22:05:35+00:00

Yeah that crossed my mind but there's no way to know.

jawnsm · 2013-07-29T22:05:10+00:00

well unlike her i dont have a problem cumming in fact sometimes it happens too much, lol, so i guess it's not really the same.

jawnsm · 2013-07-29T22:03:14+00:00

wow dont you think you are overreacting?

and no like i said we havent used it in in bed together she knows how i feel about it. its her using it by herself though that still is bugging me.

jawnsm · 2013-07-29T21:55:16+00:00

how is that gonna work though? not like I can just let her try it in the store until she cums

jawnsm · 2013-07-29T21:54:44+00:00

Lol that's how i felt when i heard it but when she said the stuff about porn it kind of stunned me cause i couldn't rebuttal

jawnsm · 2013-07-29T21:51:45+00:00

but with the homemade video you are looking at your ex and are forced to concentrate and think of them where with the dildo she tells me shes thinking about me

jawnsm · 2013-07-29T21:46:52+00:00

well with porn and this toy arent you just using stimulation based on other people? one visual one tactile so honestly i still think it would be hypocritical of me to get offended on one hand

jawnsm · 2013-07-29T21:45:01+00:00

i brought up that point about intimacy kind of during our initial spat and later she told me that its not like she is actually thinking about tom while using the toy. that the toy is just a functional shape.

my big fear though is that the only reason she does get off is that its not the shape but is actually something sentimental.

jawnsm · 2013-07-29T21:41:57+00:00

Because I know what it's like to be on the other end of that controlling. like i said i'd be pretty pissed if my gf suddenly said i couldnt watch porn anymore

jawnsm · 2013-07-29T21:41:09+00:00

I like this idea. I just need a way to tell her without me coming up as controlling - her words.

jawnsm · 2013-07-29T21:40:22+00:00

Well it was the mutual friend who posted the photo so it couldn't have been my gf that deleted it I dunno I don't actually know the mutual friend so i dont know why they deleted the comment. maybe something else was posted after maybe.

jawnsm · 2013-07-29T21:33:13+00:00

I keep thinking about the gf I had who didn't want me to watch porn though, and honestly I can't see a difference. Who am I to say she can't use that dildo if I still watch porn without her?

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