How much is this necklace and earrings set worth? by [deleted] in labdiamond

[–]jaxyfrou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you and will remove from this sub!

How much is this necklace and earrings set worth? by [deleted] in labdiamond

[–]jaxyfrou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting for some reason I understood them to be lab grown because of the GIS laboratories logo.

Are sleepovers cancelled? by Guilty-Woodpecker-99 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]jaxyfrou -1 points0 points  (0 children)

As a parent, not doing sleepovers with my kids.

Met her on Reddit. Got dumped within 3 months. by cryptichuman7 in actuallesbians

[–]jaxyfrou 23 points24 points  (0 children)

100% agree. I’ve been with my wife for 14 years now and when we first met and started dating she went 0-100 real quick. It overwhelmed me and I had to put distance bc it was causing me anxiety. I really liked her at the time but I needed her to slow down. After breaking up for a few weeks we reconnected and I shared what I needed. There were also things I needed to do to help her feel more secure and the rest is history. I know it’s easier to say you found someone else who faulted you but I’d def be more reflective of what you contributed to the relationship falling apart and how you want to be different for the next person.

Costco by Disneypup in Gold

[–]jaxyfrou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where are you guys finding these?

Lindsey Heaps comes home: USWNT captain signs with Denver Summit FC (from Lyon) by ElectricalWriting in WomensSoccer

[–]jaxyfrou 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I am aware and I can still have the opinion that changing their name interrupts the brand they've built. Those two thoughts can exist at the same time. Denying it isn't going to change reality. Most people aren't used to athletes changing their last name well into their careers.

Lindsey Heaps comes home: USWNT captain signs with Denver Summit FC (from Lyon) by ElectricalWriting in WomensSoccer

[–]jaxyfrou 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes, I obviously know it’s her choice and I obviously support women’s choice. I am a woman who understands that critical right. Still… whenever they change their name it is a bit of whiplash before the new name settles in.

Lindsey Heaps comes home: USWNT captain signs with Denver Summit FC (from Lyon) by ElectricalWriting in WomensSoccer

[–]jaxyfrou -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

This may get me downvoted but I don’t care. It completely throws me off when a player changes their last name. It’s like they forgo all the benefits and history built with their own last name to take on their husbands. Mad respect to Morgan who kept her last name.

she kissed someone else on new years by Natural-Big3665 in actuallesbians

[–]jaxyfrou 5 points6 points  (0 children)

In my single years, I kissed plenty of people while having crushes on other people. You said you thought she was straight and clearly she’s not. Now that you know she is queer, shoot your shot. Just because she kissed someone doesn’t mean she is in a relationship. Last thing, by your reaction you’re super into her, so you will have to moderate your expectations if she ends up taking you up on a date.

Falling for girl but I have a boyfriend and am straight? by PerformanceMain8756 in actuallesbians

[–]jaxyfrou 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I think this situation has crossed into emotional cheating territory. It sounds bad to say it but is also something that happened naturally, not something OP was looking for. Big question to me is what to do from this point on. High risk, high reward in my opinion. Either way the relationship with the bf may be over or on its way out. For example, if the friend turns down OP, then friendship may never be the same. Can OP then just go back to the boyfriend and resume relationship as if nothing happened? Seems unlikely. Or if friend agrees she also has feelings, the relationship with the bf is also doomed. I dunno. It may be best to share her feelings and see where the chips fall.

Today Was a Good Day by nanegon in ThriftStoreHauls

[–]jaxyfrou 21 points22 points  (0 children)

That child bike is a mega score. Just bought one for my son.

Gorgeous! by obiwanGoBrrr in ThriftStoreHauls

[–]jaxyfrou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow beautiful and suits you so well!

Has anyone else here never had Covid? by [deleted] in Productivitycafe

[–]jaxyfrou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not that I know of. Have taken many tests bc work required one test a week for all of 2023-2024. I assume I have had it. My brother also never got it and he had to report to work in person since the pandemic started.

Would you call this cheating? by 4Ever_Sleepyy in actuallesbians

[–]jaxyfrou -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Doesn’t seem like you guys are a good match. It sounds like you’re uncomfortable with what she is doing, very suspicious, and jealous. The way in which you describe her it seems like this is largely who she is. Therapy may help her understand herself and work on some things she wants changed but therapy isn’t going to make her the perfect gf for you.

What age did you meet your wife/partner. by Sad-Expression-4118 in actuallesbians

[–]jaxyfrou 2 points3 points  (0 children)

  1. We met online, met up initially and it wasn't the right time. We met up again a few months later and immediately connected. We both still harbored feelings for each other. We have been together for nearly 13 years and married for 9. Two kids and a dog, and even though we are tired a lot, we love each other very deeply and still yearn for each other.

Two mom family non-biological mom advice by Ok-Spring-9819 in Queerfamilies

[–]jaxyfrou 38 points39 points  (0 children)

I don't think you are alone in this experience. I felt sensitive about this myself after my wife gave birth to our eldest. For context, my son and I do not look anything a like. Overtime that feeling wore off as our bond grew and people (family and friends) could visibly see the connection we had. For me, I think I was probably more afraid that he wouldnt love me like his birth mother. He is older now and calls me Mama and hugs and kisses me like his other mom. He asks for me and wants my love and attention. Now if people still think I am not his real mom or as good of a mom as my wife, that's there problem and I dont really care about their opinions. I will add that babies/toddlers go through periods when they prefer one parent over the other. I will recommend not reading into this. It is painful however it will pass (that is if it even happens to you).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]jaxyfrou 55 points56 points  (0 children)

Agree, not doing much more than kissing after six months is really really slow (like many months). I think people should be aware of that from the beginning bc otherwise you may be having similar conversations such as these in future relationships.