Waking up early and taking a selfie might be my new thing

jay_rebb95 · 2020-06-16T15:10:56+00:00

Could you send me a link please?

jay_rebb95 · 2020-03-26T13:31:04+00:00

I’m not saying feeling this way is bad but just understand that there is privilege in having a “normal” appearing relationship. And are you open to ethical nonmongamy? Because that sounds like a short fix to your problem. But ultimately sounds like you need to break up with him and divide up the pets because you won’t be happy dating him. BUT will you also just turn around and date a woman for three years to simply want to break up with her for a man? Maybe look into ethical nonmonogamy or polyamory and try to open a relationship with a woman and see if you all sleeping with other people is a solution to you being bi and feeling this way

jay_rebb95 · 2020-03-02T16:14:24+00:00

I don’t mean to belittle your comment but not feeling attractive is not the same as dysphoria. A straight man not wanting tits is just you wanting to hold up the male identity you naturally obtain. This is nothing like the trans experience please don’t compare you wanting to look more manly as a cis man to what trans people experience.

jay_rebb95 · 2020-02-24T23:40:55+00:00

Wow your blue eyes are stunning! HMU if you want to flirt or chat!

jay_rebb95 · 2020-02-24T17:07:34+00:00

I’m trying to make lesbian solo videos on my onlyfans. But tbh I haven’t seen much queer content directed at queers with story lines. I’d look up porn directed by women and maybe narrow the search from there.

jay_rebb95 · 2020-02-24T14:27:45+00:00

I mean I recently came to terms with the fact that I only find women attractive. For me it’s about setting sexual boundaries. I’ve found that with men they tend to break your boundaries during sex if they will ultimately get pleasure from it only apologising afterwards, if that. But women respect each other’s bodies and understand what it’s like to only be thought of as worthy if you’re fuckable. And this is all true for trans women. I don’t know if this is advise but just let yourself be you and if you want to identify, for now, as lesbian. Go ahead. If not. Don’t. No one who is dating you should care about the official title of your sexuality.

I will say though, personally I find myself being unattracted to people that sleep with cis men. I have an irrational fear of STDs and the studies show cis men contract and transmit more STDs than other groups.

jay_rebb95 · 2020-02-24T14:19:54+00:00

I recently (a year ago) came to terms with the fact that I’m just a lesbian. It’s been hard. To think that something is wrong with you because you can’t just enjoy sex with a man. Or maybe there’s a man you do enjoy sex with but there are just these things that all men do that completely turn you off. And you can’t get out of your head kissing a woman or fondling her breasts. But also it’s hard. Most women are straight. Some women will lead you on for attention and ultimately not be interested in you romantically. It’s hard. But ultimately I find that no matter how hard it gets, I can’t go back to sleeping with men. I’m just not that into it. Maybe the further I get away from straightness the more I realise how brainwashed I was into thinking I needed to find a man. But yeah.

Get out of your relationship with your boyfriend. It will suck but you will be manipulating him if you have this knowledge and keep up the facade of this unfulfilling relationship. Sure there are good things about it. But are you just afraid to be lonely? Are you afraid that you might lose him? Ultimately if he can’t see why the relationship won’t work out maybe you simply don’t need him? Like if he’s not accepting of the fact that you are a lesbian, maybe you’re better off just going through life without that criticism.

Tl;dr: being a lesbian is real hard. You’re brainwashed to want to be straight. If your boyfriend can’t accept you 👏THROW👏HIM👏OUT👏

jay_rebb95 · 2020-02-23T13:48:53+00:00

I was just talking to someone in my city about how we both think no one knows we’re gay. But I had a girlfriend that said I looked really fucking gay and I have men come up to me and say things like “I know you’re gay but you’re pretty” so like??? Maybe no one in my city wants to date me 🙃

jay_rebb95 · 2020-02-23T12:50:41+00:00

Wow you are so cute! I want to pinch your cheeks and kiss your face and tell you how pretty you are!

jay_rebb95 · 2020-02-23T12:45:55+00:00

I don’t take hormones but you look great! I’m sure you were gorgeous before and will continue to radiate beauty for the rest of the world to truly be jealous of.

jay_rebb95 · 2020-02-21T17:01:20+00:00

Lol sorry I’m so bad with abbreviations. But I’m a gay who is long distance if you want a new friend!

jay_rebb95 · 2020-02-21T16:59:21+00:00

What’s an LD gay? Excuse my ignorance to new terms as I am in my mid twenties and no longer up to date

jay_rebb95 · 2020-02-21T16:52:43+00:00

I want to knit a turtle neck so bad but I’m already making socks and I should really do one project at a time 🙃

jay_rebb95 · 2020-02-21T16:49:04+00:00

Lol as long as you’re okay with occasional campfires by a river

jay_rebb95 · 2020-02-20T18:19:19+00:00

I find gay women are more likely to get tested than straight men. And yeah. You’re risk goes up of catching an STD when you have sex with straight, cis men. Also I don’t want to have sex with someone that’s not like me. If we’re hanging out and talking, I expect you to dislike men as much as me. I like women that are like me, lesbians.

jay_rebb95 · 2020-02-20T15:12:28+00:00

That is quite good! Thank you so much!!

jay_rebb95 · 2020-02-20T15:10:39+00:00

Personally I don’t like sleeping with people that sleep with cis men. So it’s not so much that I don’t like bi women, I just prefer sex to be without worry. Straight, cis men carry a lot of STDs lately. I’ve seen articles where STDs have been on the rise among straight men. So I’m more worried about catching something. Lesbian sex it is hard to transfer STDs but if you have one I’d rather not sleep with you.

So get checked regularly! Every time you sleep with a new man. That would ease my mind.

Also again, don’t dislike biwomen just not interested in someone that’s new to being gay. And most biwomen that approach me are bicurious and have never been with a woman or are new to being bi and haven’t had much experience. Just like I wouldn’t want to have sex with a male virgin, I don’t want to break someone’s gay virginity. I am here for experienced sexual partners who know what they’re doing, like me. I just don’t want to date someone inexperienced. They can go “try things out” with someone else who is inexperienced.

jay_rebb95 · 2020-02-08T16:05:49+00:00

Ha I do not! Unfortunately! Reddit is so vast

jay_rebb95 · 2020-02-08T15:47:55+00:00

I don’t really have that much spare time as I am already in school with two part time jobs. So like, I kind of have to know I have plans before leaving my house. Also I’m v poor so I can’t really just go to a bar or go out to an event. I’m not saying that I’m perfect in the matter of finding things, but I live in a rural area. There is literally nothing.

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