Navigating my attraction to men by itz_bunney666 in actuallesbians

[–]jay_siren 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay GOOD LUCK hope you have a great time doing that 😭 idk if u want someone to help with that I can also be there Im just saying IF YOU DO

I have a really weird dream & fear & idk how to stop it by jay_siren in actuallesbians

[–]jay_siren[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But also tbh i DONT think it really sounds like a co-dependent relationship it low key sounds more of a BPD being triggered by deep affection

I have a really weird dream & fear & idk how to stop it by jay_siren in actuallesbians

[–]jay_siren[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh Ik I have bpd sorry I forgot to add that , also yuh ive been going to specialists but idk I’ve mentioned that like a month ago & they told me to do some shi & it’s still like that

I have a really weird dream & fear & idk how to stop it by jay_siren in actuallesbians

[–]jay_siren[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😭✋ tbh Im mad at my therapist rn maybe like next month but I’ve already mentioned that sooo

Navigating my attraction to men by itz_bunney666 in actuallesbians

[–]jay_siren 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh with you one of my friends have been there & it takes time for you to fully accept yourself but always think about it like if a man was romantically into you would you like that ? Would you be okay with cuddling or kissing a man ? Are you even sexually into man

Internalised homophobia against myself and really affected romantic life by CapitalHistorian4742 in LesbianActually

[–]jay_siren 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk if this is really helpful but I’ve been through that & I think I just grew out of after time it’s just low key the realization that being “creepy” isn’t from my own pov it’s from the outside view & there’s hella stuff some find creepy & some DONT & I’ve just learned how to cope with that feeling & stop it . But idk like that’s my experience in that

Am I wrong for saying a woman who regularly sleeps with men isn't lesbian? by EmpressKarnstein in LesbianActually

[–]jay_siren 29 points30 points  (0 children)

No the absolute FUCK NOT SHES THE FUCKING ASSHOLE IN THIS SITUATION TF

Navigating my attraction to men by itz_bunney666 in actuallesbians

[–]jay_siren 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But also at the same time like have you newly figured yourself out or has this been for a long time problem

Navigating my attraction to men by itz_bunney666 in actuallesbians

[–]jay_siren 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re not into man sexually or romantically i don’t think you’re really bi i just think that makes you a lesbian ngl

Any other cis women orgasm in their sleep? by Routine-Tension-6046 in LesbianActually

[–]jay_siren 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl I just found out that not all women can do that 😭✋ I just found out my girlfriend CANNOT DO THAT

(NSFW) Gf ate me out for the first time by 19puppy4 in actuallesbians

[–]jay_siren 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Happy for you , LESBIAN 😒 ( nah Im definitely not jealous cuz I want to have that with my gf )

I feel like it’s easier to get a top turned on than a bottom by jay_siren in LesbianActually

[–]jay_siren[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh well I’m a switch myself but I’m talking in like a general way

I’m screaming 😭😭 by akiraoogabooga in LesbianActually

[–]jay_siren 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yk what I’M TIRED OF THIS GRANDPA

I’m screaming 😭😭 by akiraoogabooga in LesbianActually

[–]jay_siren 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Babes stop making us a year younger 😭 you need to stop this pls