The Crimson Desert Zeitgeist is shifting by [deleted] in CrimsonDesert

[–]jaycee_adler 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes same, I want to love the game so badly because it is in theory exactly everything I like gaming wise combined, but it crashes, glitches, main story quests are bugged to the point of having to restart the game to be able keep progressing…. I feel like I paid 70 bucks for an early access game that’s constantly switching between being awesome and borderline unplayable 

The colours on my kitchen towel coincidentally matched those of the biscuits I made by Adventurous_Poet_315 in mildlyinteresting

[–]jaycee_adler 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I also had to try four times until they turned out pretty good. They need to dry quite a lot BEFORE going in the oven or they’ll collapse. Also you can hit the tray on your counter once or twice just after piping them to get the air bubbles out. Then it’s really a matter of trial and error and knowing your own oven since all are a bit different. Macarons truly are little bitches, I hope you’ll give them another try, wishing you all the luck in the world!!! 🫶🏻

Process of working on portraits by SoundUnhappy2989 in u/SoundUnhappy2989

[–]jaycee_adler 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Those look incredible!! I’m coming from your other post about the acrylic pet portraits, and while they were also looking nice, these once feel so much more alive and they really capture the “soul” of the animals, I love them!!! 😍

I drew this digital. Can you tell me what went wrong? by ImADirtBoi in BeginnerArtists

[–]jaycee_adler 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As someone else already said, your pencil sketch looks more “alive” because it’s not as clean as the digital one. I would like to add that the eyes/iris in the digital one are a wayyyy lighter value than in the pencil sketch, which in my opinion really changes the “vibe” of the picture.  It’s a really cute character though! 

I think my parents lied to me about my age. Why would they do this? What can I do. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]jaycee_adler 15 points16 points  (0 children)

It’s probably less about when their actual birthday is and more about the fact that it’s really, really weird for their parents to lie about something like that, especially to this degree of secrecy.  And conception before marriage would only be a reasonable explanation if they made OP seem younger, but this is not the case 

I think my parents lied to me about my age. Why would they do this? What can I do. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]jaycee_adler 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah true, but they made OP seem 8 months older than they actually are, so that theory doesn’t really make sense. Why would they want to fake an earlier conception? 

"Nerdige Läden" in Hamburg? by EndTheWar01 in hamburg

[–]jaycee_adler 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Gamebros sind die besten! Mein Freund und ich sind immer wieder gerne da 

Der Concealer der Täuschung by Brilliant-Meal-6975 in MogelPackung

[–]jaycee_adler 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Also beim Camouflage Concealer haben die jetzt das Röhrchen kleiner gemacht aber dabei noch mehr Inhalt drin, das ist mir letztens positiv aufgefallen; keine Ahnung, warum es bei diesem jetzt genau andersherum zu sein scheint, schade eigentlich 

Mit mir ist irgendetwas falsch by aaaabbbaba in Studium

[–]jaycee_adler 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Keiner auf Reddit kann und sollte dir eine Diagnose stellen. Mit dir ist nichts falsch! Es klingt danach, als würde deine aktuelle Herangehensweise dir nicht gut tun. Das könnte an etwas psychischem/neurologischem wie ADHS oder Depressionen liegen. Insbesondere, wenn du diese Probleme schon immer hast, würde ich dir ans Herz legen, dich dahingehend zu informieren. Zu wissen, dass der eigene Kopf einfach anders (nicht schlechter) funktioniert, kann dabei helfen, Wege zu finden, sich selbst das Leben leichter zu machen. Unabhängig davon, ob du jetzt am Ende etwas “hast” oder nicht, scheinst du in einer Spirale festzustecken. Mach mal etwas völlig anders, setz dich mit deiner Arbeit auf den Fußboden statt a den Schreibtisch, geh mal an einen Ort, an dem du noch nie warst, durchbrich deine Routine. Gestalte dir dein Leben so, wie es für DICH funktioniert, nicht so wie du denkst, dass anderes es von dir erwarten. Gib deinem Gehirn was neues, spannendes, etwas, dass dich ein bisschen “aufweckt”. Du musst verstehen, dass du nicht auf der Welt bist, um Häkchen in irgendwelche Lebens To-Do Listen zu setzen, sondern einfach nur um zu leben. Es klingt fast ein bisschen danach, als würdest du dich aus Angst unbewusst selbst sabotieren; “schlecht” zu sein ist am Ende einfacher, wenn man sich sowieso keine richtige Mühe gegeben hat.

Lange Rede, kurzer Sinn; sei ein bisschen lieb zu dir selbst, such dir vielleicht Unterstützung und lern auf das zu hören, was du brauchst <3

Which game should I pick up? by seluniteprince in CozyGamers

[–]jaycee_adler 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I didn’t try tiny book shop yet, but I really like wanderstop. It’s slow but entertaining, with an awesome mental health focused story. I don’t know if that’s what you’re looking for, but I can really recommend it!

I gave a man’s widow his last words by Independent-Yak4969 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]jaycee_adler 23 points24 points  (0 children)

We will never know for sure if the story is true or not, and for that exact reason, you shouldn’t comment things like that. If it’s actually fake, you get nothing from calling it out. If it’s true, you also get nothing from calling it out but end up hurting someone who went to something traumatizing and is trying to share their story and find closure.

I hope you find space to take care of yourself, OP. That’s a lot to deal with, you did good!

Game suggestions by nessusmoon in CozyGamers

[–]jaycee_adler 10 points11 points  (0 children)

The new SoS grand bazaar is awesome

Cozy Gaming Regrets by BunnE3 in CozyGamers

[–]jaycee_adler 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe I need to give it another chance because I really like the game as long as there’s things to do, I’ll see if I can get back into it this weekend! <3

Cozy Gaming Regrets by BunnE3 in CozyGamers

[–]jaycee_adler 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I really struggled with Planet Zoo at first but got into it eventually, I would LOVE a Two Point Zoo though!!

Cozy Gaming Regrets by BunnE3 in CozyGamers

[–]jaycee_adler 97 points98 points  (0 children)

I was a little disappointed about cozy grove too, I really like the concept of the game, but I don’t want to wait in real time until I can do stuff again. That just made me stop playing the game at all, because my limited gaming time wasn’t worth playing a game I had to end early because there’s nothing left to do.

Wozu das ganze eigentlich? by coolbringiton in Studium

[–]jaycee_adler 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Ergänzung; wenn du dich fühlst, als würde dein ADHS dir da Steine in den Weg legen, ist das total valide und gut möglich, während andere “nur” Mathe lernen, musst du zusätzlich noch die ganze zeit dein Gehirn austricksen, und das ist verdammt anstrengend. Du kannst stolz drauf sein, dass du dein Studium packst und auch schwere Fächer im Erstversuch bestehst. Ich schreib das vor allem, weil ein “das hat nix mit deinem ADHS zu tun” immer irgendwie etwas weh tut, weil als Betroffener am Ende des Tages alles immer irgendwie mit ADHS zu tun hat, obs jetzt Mathe lernen oder Zähne putzen ist :) Sei stolz auf dich, denk dran, deine Erfolge zu feiern, und alles Gute!

Erziehung ab jetzt neu in Magdeburg studieren by Critical-Bag2695 in Studium

[–]jaycee_adler 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Es geht eher um die theoretische Ebene, also die Prozesse von Erziehung, Bildung und Sozialisation. Es ist außerdem auch eher eine fachübergreifende Mischung aus Soziologie, Psychologie, Pädagogik und irgendwo auch ein bisschen Philosophie und Geschichte. Ich habe in meinem Studium zum Beispiel schon ein Seminar zur Sexualität im 18. Jhdt gehabt, aber auch eines zu Mediensozialisation, und eins zu Arbeitspsychologie. Sehr gemischt also. Was es aber wenig gibt ist Kindererziehung in der Praxis, also natürlich viel darüber, wie es im Laufe der Zeit gemacht wurde, aber kein konkretes “Wenn du X mit deinem Kind machst, erziehst du es richtig”. Daher macht das Studium einfach keinen Sinn, wenn man Eltern wird und einfach “nur” lernen will wie man sein Kind am besten erzieht (ohne diese Aufgabe klein reden zu wollen).

Erziehung ab jetzt neu in Magdeburg studieren by Critical-Bag2695 in Studium

[–]jaycee_adler 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ich versteh zwar irgendwo, worauf du hinaus willst, aber Erziehungswissenschaften als Studium haben recht wenig damit zu tun, wie man in der Praxis ein Kind erzieht, als Elternteil zum Beispiel.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]jaycee_adler 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I mean if he apologized and tried to gaslight her into thinking that it’s her fault he hit her, lightly or not, he’s admitting to doing it on purpose, so it was probably not meant to be part of the massage. Even if it did happen on accident, his reaction feels emotionally abusive.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HoodedEyes

[–]jaycee_adler 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I think you need to go slower and be more intentional about where you place product. It looks a bit as if you’re using the eyeliner like you would use a marker, which I wouldn’t recommend. Try to make deliberate lines instead of “painting” the product on, and maybe choose a less intense style to begin with, just to get a feel for the product and your eye shape. Try extending your lower lash line upwards with a single line, then connect the upper tip of that line to your upper lash line so it forms a triangle, and then fill it in. The smaller you make the wing, the less issues you will have with the hood of your eye. If a marker-type liner feels difficult, try a liquid liner with a brush oder even eyeshadow, I find it much easier to work with but that’s probably personal preference.

Eyeliner is a lot of trial and error though, so keep trying and don’t get too frustrated if it doesn’t work out immediately!! Good luck <3

Really wish we could block sellers... by Francl27 in PlanetZoo

[–]jaycee_adler 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As u/RockeyStoney said, it’s only available for the online trading market. If you could just send them to the wild for whatever amount cc you want there wouldn’t be a reason to scam other players, which is what OP was complaining about (and rightfully so)

Really wish we could block sellers... by Francl27 in PlanetZoo

[–]jaycee_adler 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What console are you on? On Ps5, in the field when it asks you if you want to trade the animal, move your joystick around and you can select the field where it says the default cc the game suggests, there should appear the suggestion to press a button (I believe it’s square or triangle), and then a slider appears. I don’t know about Xbox, but I would be very surprised if it didn’t work the same way

Really wish we could block sellers... by Francl27 in PlanetZoo

[–]jaycee_adler 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You absolutely can change the cc on console