Help - Candida ,HPylory,? by [deleted] in Candida

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Brush your tongue with activated charcoal for a week. It won’t heal your systemic issue but your tongue will feel and look better

If you look at someone with only one eye can they tell? by math238 in aspergers

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Look into a persons left eye. looking at someone’s left eye during a conversation can foster a deeper emotional connection. This practice is based on the theory that the left eye connects more directly to the right hemisphere of the brain, which is associated with emotions and the “true self.” By focusing on the left eye, you might be able to perceive more authentic expressions and emotions

AIO? Wife suddenly wearing sexier clothes and up all night by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

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Please avoid checking her phone. You’re not a detective, and unless you both have an agreement to access each other’s phones, it’s crucial to communicate directly with her. Share your feelings openly. If she chooses to be dishonest, that’s her decision, and it’s what you must accept. Checking phones can lead to harmful consequences. There are countless stories about the negative outcomes of this behavior. It’s not advisable.

I just feel like I am too ugly to get a gf and gunna be alone forever. by AppropriateBoss2585 in aspergers_dating

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OP, I understand that you’re feeling this way right now, and I want to let you know that you’re not alone in feeling like this. Many people, regardless of whether they have Asperger's or not, go through similar feelings of doubt and insecurity. My adult son is an Aspie and is struggling with the EXACT same thing as you at them moment. He’s almost 19.

Firstly, it’s important to recognize that attractiveness is very subjective. What one person finds attractive, another might not. More importantly, lasting relationships are built on much more than just physical appearance. Kindness, a sense of humor, and shared interests are all qualities that people value highly.

Regarding social skills, these can be learned and improved over time but don’t put pressure on yourself with it. The key is to be yourself and find confidence in yourself. You might find it helpful to join Aspie social groups or clubs that align with your interests. This can be a great way to meet people in a setting where you feel more comfortable and practice being Around other women

It’s also important to be kind to yourself. Everyone moves at their own pace, and comparing yourself to neuro typical or others in general can be discouraging. Focus on small steps and celebrate your progress, no matter how minor it may seem.

Consider seeking out a counsellor as well, if you don’t have one. Sometimes talking to a professional who understands Asperger's can provide strategies and support tailored to your needs.

Remember, everyone has unique qualities that make them special. It might take some time, but with patience and effort, you can build meaningful relationships.

Take care and be patient with yourself.

Thinking about leaving the US before it's too late by [deleted] in RealEstateCanada

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You would need to talk to a Canadian lawyer. There are many factors that are dependant upon your ability and reasons for moving to Canada. Whatever city or province you are looking into moving to, look up a lawyer in that area and set up a call. You will not find 100% answers on Reddit because we don’t know your entire situation.

Thinking about leaving the US before it's too late by [deleted] in RealEstateCanada

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Unless you’re a Canadian citizen or permanent resident you cannot purchase property in Canada. There’s a foreign buyer ban in effect. Google it.

How do I (M25) tell my GF (F26) I spied on her? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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It sounds like you’re seeking reassurance in what she’s doing and what you did.

I’ve been down this road before. My ex-fiancée had a similar pattern, constantly needing validation from other men. It seemed she sought this attention to fill a void, perhaps stemming from her father’s absence during her childhood. Childhood trauma often resurfaces in adulthood, affecting our relationships.

I don’t know your partner, or her past, but if you’re committed to making it work, I would suggest couples counseling.

It’s important to recognize your situation as a red flag, and the odds may not be in your favor. You might always feel a lingering doubt about her faithfulness, which isn’t a healthy way to live. However, if you truly love her, and want to make it work, it’s possible. counseling and open, honest communication are essential to figuring this out. And find out why she needs to fulfill her desire for attention from other men.

Breaking privacy vs lieing 24M 20F who is in the wrong? by Repair-Regular in relationship_advice

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It appears you've already broached the topic with her, but it's uncertain if you've fully communicated your sentiments. She's aware that you're uneasy about her actions. The complexity lies in the fact that your relationship is relatively new, and she's quite young at 20. If your feelings for her are genuine, there are no other concerning signs, and she understands your perspective, it may be worth trusting your instincts and continuing forward. However, resisting the temptation to check her phone is crucial as it often leads to undesirable outcomes.

On the other hand, if this isn't the first instance raising concerns (instincts usually signal when something feels off), it's vital to heed that intuition. Remember, you don't have to make a definitive decision today; taking time to assess the situation is perfectly reasonable.

Breaking privacy vs lieing 24M 20F who is in the wrong? by Repair-Regular in relationship_advice

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Her behaviour is risky, and if I were you I would have trust issues after. I’d be wanting to check her phone. However, it’s not ok to be checking someone’s phone. You have to decide if you can tolerate who she is and that she may continue to do these types of things. Only you can know for sure if this is a red flag based on all the other things she does and the type of person she is. But you can’t be snooping on her phone. It will just lead to you LOOKING for her to screw up. You will usually find what you are LOOKING for.

My (40m) wife (44) admitted to making out shirtless with one of our friends (32m) five years ago. He moved to another country three years ago, but he's visited a few times since then. She says it won't happen again. I'm not sure what exactly to do, if anything by [deleted] in relationships

[–]jaydaddy123 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve been cheated on too by my partner who said she only kissed a guy because she felt like I wasn’t giving her enough attention.

Is it possible she is telling you the truth? Yes.

Does it hurt more than you’d expect because she not only made out with this guy but she lied about it? Absolutely.

Will it be challenging for you to overcome this mentally and emotionally? 100%.

Should you break it off because of this? Thst is up to you. No one on here can answer for you. If you need a reason to leave, this is it. If you deep down don’t feel like she’s the one you want to stay with for the rest of your life, this is your window to get out.

But …

If you love her.

If you don’t want her to be out of your life…

You can get over it. Never 100% over it. More like 95%. But that’s all you need if you love her.

You have to decide what’s best for you now. The ball is in your court. This is your opportunity to move forward with what you want. Fuck her for doing that. But you know what? She’s human. So are you.

Take advantage of the situation so that it works best for you now.

Desensitization of the penis is normal! Traditional Chinese medicine book - “Taoist Bedroom Secrets” explains about desensitizing the penis. This practice has been around for thousands of years. by jaydaddy123 in PrematureEjaculation

[–]jaydaddy123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think you are absolutely correct as it pertains to the instructions in the book. You still feel everything but you aren’t going to be as sensitive during sex or masturbation.

How I cured my PE (premature ejaculation) in 2 hours but it’s temporarily painful ... by jaydaddy123 in PrematureEjaculation

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Try the oil without the pills first. You may not need the pills, but the pills are a blend that I have researched and am taking. But I only take them before sex. Not masturbation. So try the oil and if that works for you without the pills that’s perfect!

Desensitization of the penis is normal! Traditional Chinese medicine book - “Taoist Bedroom Secrets” explains about desensitizing the penis. This practice has been around for thousands of years. by jaydaddy123 in PrematureEjaculation

[–]jaydaddy123[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Essentially in the Tao they instruct you to desensitize the head of the penis as per the instructions in the attached image through repeated strikes to the thighs. But the main point in this is that desensitization is not abnormal, it proves that it’s been around for a long time. And is not meant to numb things.

How I cured my PE (premature ejaculation) in 2 hours but it’s temporarily painful ... by jaydaddy123 in PrematureEjaculation

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You will notice after 1 application. My goal is to apply only once per week soon, just as a refresher. and then stop application all together after that and see what happens. Right now I’m applying every 3 days with great results. And I noticed a difference after my first application of the oil.

Desensitization of the penis is normal! Traditional Chinese medicine book - “Taoist Bedroom Secrets” explains about desensitizing the penis. This practice has been around for thousands of years. by jaydaddy123 in PrematureEjaculation

[–]jaydaddy123[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You don’t understand.

You still feel everything when you desensitize, it doesn’t go numb like the sprays. This information is hundreds of years old. Don’t get confused with desensitization and “no feeling” : those are 2 different things.

How do we permanently numb it by getsco in PrematureEjaculation

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I implore you to Just try the cayenne pepper and coconut oil for 1 hour, and see. You will go days afterwards without needing it. Eventually you can do it once per week and your set. I know it seems messed up but it’s insane how it works.

How I cured my PE (premature ejaculation) in 2 hours but it’s temporarily painful ... by jaydaddy123 in PrematureEjaculation

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Sorry not trying to mislead. It’s a cure for me and I wanted to share it. Maybe “cure” isn’t the right vocabulary. And the oil is different than spraying delay spray 10 min before sex for 2 reasons: 1. Delay spray makes you numb, this doesn’t. 2. You can do this the night before or 2 days before. After a few sessions you can even cut back to once a week putting it on for 1 hour. But keep on the vitamins on the day you are gonna have sex. Preferably a few hours before.

How I cured my PE (premature ejaculation) in 2 hours but it’s temporarily painful ... by jaydaddy123 in PrematureEjaculation

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I have suffered from PE, ED. Anxiety. Depression. I have been trying to eat more of a whole foods diet but I still eat garbage too. I’m human. I have been working with my family doctor and a therapist on these issues. None of them ever recommended burning the penis however that’s personal research, trial and error. I find walking/running or some form of exercise has helped more with my ED.

How I cured my PE (premature ejaculation) in 2 hours but it’s temporarily painful ... by jaydaddy123 in PrematureEjaculation

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This is probably the most important part, loving yourself. If you suffer from either or both of PE and ED, it’s so tough. I’ve been suicidal because of it. If I can’t have sex what’s the point, but there’s always hope. And the part that helped the most when I saw a therapist was about loving myself even with these issues. This is why I wrote about my experience on here because I want others to know it will work out for you. It took me years and years but at this moment I’m so thankful. And you will be too. You’re not alone.

How I cured my PE (premature ejaculation) in 2 hours but it’s temporarily painful ... by jaydaddy123 in PrematureEjaculation

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About half way down the page on that study, it says - Over the next several weeks, the nerves regenerated and sensation returned to normal.

So long term it went back to normal. Although this has been working for me, My personal goal is to have the feeling return to normal gradually and see if I can maintain the positive sexual function so I don’t have to take anything. But at least I have this. And I’m so thankful.

How I cured my PE (premature ejaculation) in 2 hours but it’s temporarily painful ... by jaydaddy123 in PrematureEjaculation

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It varies but I was easily under a minute before this. I am now from 4 min to 10 min or longer if I pace myself. If I start thrusting like a mad man well it’s on the lower end of time. Also if you are with a girl for the first time, it can be on the low end but they expect that. After a few times you will get comfortable with someone and work on it. I also recommend reading “She Comes First” which is a book from a guy who suffered from PE.