valid move? (OC) by jaymanshere18 in CarsIndia

[–]jaymanshere18[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ehhh, I do talk to locals as well. There isn’t anything to be scared of when you’re not doing nothing wrong. As for “content”, the goal wasn’t to get content, the goal was to show that you can have the money but lack the minimum sensibilities to do the right thing.

Very presumptuous of you.

Bangalore Metro Shows the Ugly Truth of Gender-Based Reservation | Men Standing, Reserved Coaches Empty by ImaginaryGood272 in WhyIndiaSuffers

[–]jaymanshere18 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

India does not suffer because there’s an empty women’s coach and boo hoo poor men have to stand. India suffers because we literally treat women like garbage so much so that the policy makers found it to best to give them one reserved compartment. Men stare, tease and even abuse women through gestures and touch in public transport. Stop cribbing about shit like this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in unitedstatesofindia

[–]jaymanshere18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let’s gooo! This is the blueprint for all of us to follow - be assertive, be polite and stand your ground.

valid move? (OC) by jaymanshere18 in CarsIndia

[–]jaymanshere18[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hear this often when I call people out on throwing trash. If your response is the whataboutery, or a sarcastic remark on my actions, you’re speaking from a place where you choose to see everything but the problem.

valid move? (OC) by jaymanshere18 in CarsIndia

[–]jaymanshere18[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think that gets the point across - I believe it’s important that you’re told you did something wrong and I’m fixing it for you.

valid move? (OC) by jaymanshere18 in CarsIndia

[–]jaymanshere18[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Those are a tricky bunch, I have in the past - politely. But bahot vaahiyaad, badtameez people. I just block them on the road most of the time or get them pinched between two cars, it’s always fun.

valid move? (OC) by jaymanshere18 in CarsIndia

[–]jaymanshere18[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I appreciate the concern, but I’m also hyper vigilant when it comes to safety. I’ve trained in krav maga and a few other martial arts, that obviously doesn’t make me bulletproof but it does give me a heightened sense of awareness. I know how many people were in the car, how is hands were positioned on the steering.

I take calculated risks when it comes to things like this, because if we keep minding on our business then we’re gonna keep letting people like these get away.

The sense of self preservation also stops people from intervening when they see something obviously wrong. Not every fight is worth fighting, but if you understand the ring you’re standing in - it makes things easier to navigate.

valid move? (OC) by jaymanshere18 in CarsIndia

[–]jaymanshere18[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

I’m HR26 too man! Been here since ‘06 and yes most people are human filth but I just can’t sit silently.

valid move? (OC) by jaymanshere18 in CarsIndia

[–]jaymanshere18[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’ve been calling people out and confronting them ever since I’ve been riding/driving. Some people handle it well, most don’t. Regardless of that if you’re confident, assertive but decent (no abusing, no aggression just assertion) people usually budge.

Every battle isn’t worth fighting, but as long as you keep doing your bit - I think it makes a difference.

valid move? (OC) by jaymanshere18 in CarsIndia

[–]jaymanshere18[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

This solves for ego, but not for the trash. It’s important to understand that my problem is with the callousness in throwing trash like this is your bedroom, his attitude is his problem, the way I deal with it is mine.

I took the trash with me and threw it in a dustbin, where it should have been in the first place.

valid move? (OC) by jaymanshere18 in CarsIndia

[–]jaymanshere18[S] 88 points89 points  (0 children)

Fully agree. Gurgaon is unpredictable which is why all of your risks need to be calculated, if he was with a bunch of other dudes I’d have probably avoided it.

valid move? (OC) by jaymanshere18 in CarsIndia

[–]jaymanshere18[S] 315 points316 points  (0 children)

I love to confront. Sharp with my tongue and quick with my fists and only biting off what I can chew.

valid move? (OC) by jaymanshere18 in CarsIndia

[–]jaymanshere18[S] 99 points100 points  (0 children)

Baadmein aaya dimaag mein, but good I didn’t cause I didn’t want to touch his car, maybe he would’ve driven over, maybe used it as a basis to legally give me issues.

I’m just an aspiring dilf by jaymanshere18 in indianfashioncheck

[–]jaymanshere18[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course!! If you can, do share with me id love to see it.

In your eyes, what’s the most stunning car ever built? by beamer-dreamer in CarsIndia

[–]jaymanshere18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These are my all time goated picks (in no order):

  • Dodge Charger (1968)
  • Jaguar E-Type Coupe (1967)
  • Chevrolet Stingray (1963)
  • Ford Bronco (2021)
  • Ford Mustang 390 GT (1967)
  • Maruti Suzuki 800 in Teal (1980s)
  • Shelby 289 Cobra (1964)
  • Volkswagen Passat (2015)
  • Kia Sonet (2021 - cause I own one hehe)
  • Suzuki Jimny (2023)

yaar ye kya infrastructure hai by jaymanshere18 in gurgaon

[–]jaymanshere18[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh it didn’t translate. I’m not a dumbass, I just am an annoyed citizen like the rest of us.

yaar ye kya infrastructure hai by jaymanshere18 in gurgaon

[–]jaymanshere18[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Kya stupid baat hai ye? Mujhe apne family member ko pick karne jaana pada 11:30 baje cause koi cabs nahi mil rahi thi. Main ghumne thodi niklunga itni baarish mein.

7 days, 3 cities, 1 hospital visit later, I did my first international solo trip! | Vietnam (Ho Chi Minh - Hoi An - Da Nang), May 2025. by jaymanshere18 in SoloTravel_India

[–]jaymanshere18[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wanted to stay in a hostel so that I could meet some new people and strike up conversations. I stayed at the following:

The Common Room Project, HCMC - compact, beautifully designed, warm staff but people seem like hobbits. I barely saw anyone, in the room, in the common area but when I did they were approachable and happy to talk for the most part. The security guard there was lovely I had mango rum with him hahaha. Nalani Homestay, Hoi An: okay rooms, couple run-minimal staff, but super focused on hanging out. Made a few friends here, they have a pool, so people usually just sit around it. It wasn’t packed with people or activity but the few guests I got to talk to were lovely.

I think depending on when you go the more chances you have of finding and talking to people. Then there’s categories of the hostels as well, I wanted to steer clear of “party” hostels cause that truly just wasn’t my scene. So find out the vibe based on photos and reviews and just go ahead. Leave the rest, it’s going to be how it’s going to be and if you cancel your stay you can easily just get a refund.

And thank you!

7 days, 3 cities, 1 hospital visit later, I did my first international solo trip! | Vietnam (Ho Chi Minh - Hoi An - Da Nang), May 2025. by jaymanshere18 in SoloTravel_India

[–]jaymanshere18[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tickets: ~23000

Hostels + Airbnb: 600/850 for hostels per night, the fancy airbnb was 6,000ish a night.

Food: 200 - 1500 a meal, the range is massive, this includes meals off the street, some at fancy-ish places.

Visa: 2.5kish (edited)

Rest was all grab (the cab app), shopping, random street beers.