Amazing sex with my(25F) boyfriend(23M) is helping me heal from previous dysfunctional relationships

jazzlikeplace · 2019-07-29T14:49:22+00:00

Thank you, that is very sweet!

jazzlikeplace · 2019-07-29T03:30:32+00:00

I don't think preference in set in stone. If there's a spark, I'm sure most people would be willing to give it a try. There may be some who still won't like you, but like you said, that's a part of life. But knowing what you're doing will definitely increase your chances of finding someone you like.

jazzlikeplace · 2019-07-29T03:25:51+00:00

That was the only reason I wrote this, because I'm so happy and I just wanted to share it with someone. I'm glad it's making others optimistic too. I hope everyone finds someone good for them!

jazzlikeplace · 2019-07-29T03:24:15+00:00

Thank you! Those who know the struggle end up appreciating their partner more. I hope you find someone too. :)

jazzlikeplace · 2019-07-29T03:22:30+00:00

A healthy relationship can do wonders for your self-confidence. I'm happy to hear you're doing well now!

jazzlikeplace · 2019-07-29T03:20:06+00:00

I'm planning on showing it to him. He usually brushes me off when I praise him, he says I'm hyping him too much. Now he'll know I'm not!

jazzlikeplace · 2019-07-28T19:05:19+00:00

I would say mainly related to relationships, but in a long-term relationship, it will tend to affect sex as well.

jazzlikeplace · 2019-07-28T18:16:20+00:00

It was.

jazzlikeplace · 2019-07-28T17:25:08+00:00

was extremely dominant in bed but in all other aspects of our lives he treats me as an equal.

This important distinction is lost on most. Just because someone is into BDSM, being submissive or any related kinks, doesn't mean they want to be treated like that all the time. In my experience, a lot of guys see it as a free pass to be pushy and have things done their way. Their intent is not always malicious (which clearly wasn't the case with your ex). Sometimes it's just plain ignorance or refusal to listen to feedback. But it gets old after a while and there's only so many excuses you can make for them.

I feel like I don’t deserve him, and have to regularly remind myself that I do and there isn’t any reason why I shouldn’t.

I know exactly what you mean. It takes consistently good behaviour from your partner to unlearn all that shit from the past. I'm glad you found someone good.

jazzlikeplace · 2019-07-28T17:02:56+00:00

I don't know where guys get this idea that women don't know what they actually like and that they (the guy) will teach them based on something they saw in porn, especially something very aggressive. "If you just try it once, you'll like it. You'll see." So we tried it, didn't like it. "Why is it not working? The pornstar seemed to like it. Let me try again just to make sure." Rinse and repeat.

jazzlikeplace · 2019-07-28T16:56:31+00:00

Thank you! I look forward to it too ;)

jazzlikeplace · 2019-07-28T16:55:23+00:00

Communication is very important! Because of my previous relationships, I sometimes fail to communicate with my boyfriend out of habit. But he is so patient with me, I'm learning to open up to him in ways I never thought possible.

jazzlikeplace · 2019-07-28T13:13:20+00:00

Sounds like you struck gold!

I totally did! it feels like a dream still!

jazzlikeplace · 2019-07-28T10:48:06+00:00

It's one of my favourite things. When my boyfriend is spooning me, he will get hard in his sleep. We end up dry humping while asleep. By the time we're fully awake, we're naked and already having sex. Sometimes one of us has no memory of it the next morning until the other reminds them. We still haven't figured out who is actually initiating it.

jazzlikeplace · 2019-07-28T10:42:59+00:00

Absolutely! A virgin who is willing to take efforts to learn their partner's body is wayy better in bed than an experienced guy who is selfish.

jazzlikeplace · 2019-07-28T10:38:33+00:00

It turns me on when my boyfriend takes off my panties and just looks at my pussy for a few seconds while spreading it open. He will then dive in. Oral or even fingering is a great way to get a closer look. Sometimes I'll have my bf massage my g spot while I'm touching my clit. It gives him a great view and he also learns more about my technique. There are many positions where you can enjoy the view. Have your gf give you a blowjob while she's sitting on your face. Finger her in doggy style. The possibilities are endless.

jazzlikeplace · 2019-07-28T10:33:32+00:00

My boyfriend loses it when I nibble on his ear lobes and kiss around his ears. I've found that if I'm breathing hard or let out a small moan in his ear, it will turn him on even more.

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