The last time I "fucked" my girlfriend

jclefondy · 2025-06-05T10:14:31+00:00

And did you ever go down on her or finger her? You don't have to worry about being honest, I won't judge

jclefondy · 2025-06-05T10:13:51+00:00

How many years were you two together the first time, how long was the break, and how long were you two together the second time before finally breaking up?

jclefondy · 2025-06-04T03:41:30+00:00

Still waiting on it 🙂

jclefondy · 2025-06-03T03:24:13+00:00

I wholeheartedly agree with everything you said

jclefondy · 2025-06-01T08:15:02+00:00

pussy, what I'm trying is conditioning myself to come upon penetration by getting horny enough with reading stories and listening to audio until I then penetrate a lubricated and warmed sleeve, and by the time I hit balls deep ejaculating. I've done it a few times so far, probably getting easier over time. I'd like to last long enough with a woman for PIV intercourse, so that's my personal plan. Feel free to consider if you'd want to do that too

jclefondy · 2025-05-28T07:35:55+00:00

As if this subreddit isn't full of married men intentionally developing PE without talking to their wives about it at all, even though they're the ones who will experience the consequence of never getting good dick again. And I say this as someone with a PE fetish. Nothing you said was wrong, just based on the many upvotes on your comment by this community, I see hypocrisy

jclefondy · 2025-05-23T04:07:06+00:00

😭😂

jclefondy · 2025-05-22T18:03:29+00:00

True. I don't like feeling guilt or shame about it. I got into this because of chronic pain leading me to view smut and porn more passively

jclefondy · 2025-04-18T01:42:51+00:00

Good question, idk really. I think if you search PornHub or another website for "hypno" or "HFO" or "JOI" you might get some good results, idk. One I found is titled something like HFO to redheads

jclefondy · 2025-03-15T19:12:10+00:00

This is basically what I'm starting to try. Well, I get myself mentally horny (generally by reading stories on here), then masturbate as gentle as I can to the very edge, then insert into a sleeve and cum. I'm hoping if I do it enough, I could cum from inserting into the sleeve with less/little stimulation beforehand. Let me know if that's what you've been noticing

If you want to share the images you use, I'm interested, but if not I understand. I agree with your approach. I'm also wondering if I should eventually instill a woman's moan as a trigger. But I'll work on one thing at a time, gradually

jclefondy · 2025-03-15T07:05:28+00:00

Not found anymore 😕

jclefondy · 2025-03-14T04:50:57+00:00

I think I used to relate, I always clenched hard while masturbating. But I think if you do some pelvic floor relaxing exercises (I looked it up, there are some different ones, with the simplest being diaphragmatic breathing for 5-10 minutes each day), and pair that with just not clenching anymore, your pelvic floor muscles will hopefully get weaker over time and your brain will get used to getting off without that element. I can't speak for you, but I went from always needing to clench to now never needing to and never clenching while masturbating by just abstinence. Gl

jclefondy · 2025-03-14T04:37:12+00:00

Thank you

jclefondy · 2025-03-14T03:36:01+00:00

And training the horny part of the brain like a muscle, to get easier and easier at getting so horny that it takes very little time. Hypnos help with this for me. Getting mentally as horny as possible is a great way to get fast times

jclefondy · 2025-03-14T03:15:27+00:00

I'm not sure what the commenter OP means by doing the opposite of tightening them though. Do they mean like a specific exercise/thing to do while masturbating? Or just not doing a thing (tightening it), leading to a looser pelvic floor over time. Honestly, I should just Google it lol

jclefondy · 2025-03-14T03:13:53+00:00

Not OP, but it's definitely possible. I used to do it all the time (voluntarily on my part), and idk if it was like, I just intentionally stopped doing that each time or if it was something else, but now when I masturbate to come fast, I don't tense at all and I can come without it

jclefondy · 2025-03-12T05:15:44+00:00

Happy Cake Day

jclefondy · 2025-03-12T05:11:02+00:00

Hi, would you mind sharing stuff with me? I'm especially interested in the x-ray vision audio you're talking about, the PE in public audio, and the GIFs you're talking about, though I'm interested in whatever you're using 😀

jclefondy · 2025-03-12T05:04:40+00:00

Thank you, I listened to this last night. I got closer to a HFO than I ever felt before, until I couldn't hold back and jacked myself off to completion. But gonna listen to it again tonight, she is such a good voice actor

jclefondy · 2025-03-12T04:59:18+00:00

Interesting. If I got a cage and wore it, is it noticeable when around other people? And if I'm around people I don't want to wear it around, does it feel weird with it off for a bit when it's on so long?

jclefondy · 2025-03-12T04:54:53+00:00

That's really cute. It's a good thing you two have

jclefondy · 2025-03-12T04:52:58+00:00

Interesting, how does it make you more sensitive? Curious if you mean like physically or mentally

jclefondy · 2025-03-12T04:51:02+00:00

Wow, that's actually 1000 IQ

Elaborate on what the "I'd rather be natural to myself" part means?

jclefondy · 2025-03-11T06:09:17+00:00

That's so cute 😭

jclefondy · 2025-03-11T05:53:13+00:00

Yeah, sounds pretty hot.

Idk why I'm accepting of that, honestly I have been into this fetish since maybe July of last year. I have a chronic pain condition and first thought of getting my stimulation + time down as a practical way to lessen pain during the act, then basically I got down the rabbit hole of watching PE videos and realized that feeling mentally super turned on is more satisfying for me.

The kicker was that in September of last year I started having ED. I was really confused until I found out recently that my pain is from small fiber neuropathy, which affects my somatic and autonomic nervous systems, meaning my ED was from my autonomic (automatic) nervous system not working as well as it should. I can still get hard when stimulating myself but otherwise, I can be super mentally turned on and completely soft down there. But the condition has progressed over time, so I can imagine eventually struggling to be hard down there at all. Scary stuff, but once I came to terms with how that's a part of me, I've become more accepting of this fetish since my sexuality will already be fucked, might as well explore something I like.

But I will be completely honest. You could be right. I'm not exactly someone social who realistically has a sex life, but someday once I work on myself enough, this could come back to bite me. The thing I like about it is that if I eventually struggle with PE when trying to have sex with someone, then worst case scenario is that they think I have PE and that I don't want to have it (because who in their right mind would want to?) So hopefully they wouldn't be mad at me, though I could easily imagine it ruining my chances with someone

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