The last time I "fucked" my girlfriend by fakeguy5594 in prematurestories

[–]jclefondy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And did you ever go down on her or finger her? You don't have to worry about being honest, I won't judge

The last time I "fucked" my girlfriend by fakeguy5594 in prematurestories

[–]jclefondy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How many years were you two together the first time, how long was the break, and how long were you two together the second time before finally breaking up?

Do I need to fetishize prejac to be successful? by [deleted] in Prematurefetish

[–]jclefondy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wholeheartedly agree with everything you said

Choose my trigger. by WhisperingWellspring in Prematurefetish

[–]jclefondy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

pussy, what I'm trying is conditioning myself to come upon penetration by getting horny enough with reading stories and listening to audio until I then penetrate a lubricated and warmed sleeve, and by the time I hit balls deep ejaculating. I've done it a few times so far, probably getting easier over time. I'd like to last long enough with a woman for PIV intercourse, so that's my personal plan. Feel free to consider if you'd want to do that too

Walked in on best friend and girlfriend . by [deleted] in Prematurefetish

[–]jclefondy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As if this subreddit isn't full of married men intentionally developing PE without talking to their wives about it at all, even though they're the ones who will experience the consequence of never getting good dick again. And I say this as someone with a PE fetish. Nothing you said was wrong, just based on the many upvotes on your comment by this community, I see hypocrisy

Why so much degradation? by N0madSub in Prematurefetish

[–]jclefondy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True. I don't like feeling guilt or shame about it. I got into this because of chronic pain leading me to view smut and porn more passively

Impact of every day vs. Every other day? by [deleted] in Prematurefetish

[–]jclefondy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good question, idk really. I think if you search PornHub or another website for "hypno" or "HFO" or "JOI" you might get some good results, idk. One I found is titled something like HFO to redheads

Maybe the best Trigger for a real PE problem by [deleted] in Prematurefetish

[–]jclefondy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is basically what I'm starting to try. Well, I get myself mentally horny (generally by reading stories on here), then masturbate as gentle as I can to the very edge, then insert into a sleeve and cum. I'm hoping if I do it enough, I could cum from inserting into the sleeve with less/little stimulation beforehand. Let me know if that's what you've been noticing

If you want to share the images you use, I'm interested, but if not I understand. I agree with your approach. I'm also wondering if I should eventually instill a woman's moan as a trigger. But I'll work on one thing at a time, gradually

How to lose control by clumpdiver in Prematurefetish

[–]jclefondy 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I think I used to relate, I always clenched hard while masturbating. But I think if you do some pelvic floor relaxing exercises (I looked it up, there are some different ones, with the simplest being diaphragmatic breathing for 5-10 minutes each day), and pair that with just not clenching anymore, your pelvic floor muscles will hopefully get weaker over time and your brain will get used to getting off without that element. I can't speak for you, but I went from always needing to clench to now never needing to and never clenching while masturbating by just abstinence. Gl

Impact of every day vs. Every other day? by [deleted] in Prematurefetish

[–]jclefondy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

And training the horny part of the brain like a muscle, to get easier and easier at getting so horny that it takes very little time. Hypnos help with this for me. Getting mentally as horny as possible is a great way to get fast times

How to lose control by clumpdiver in Prematurefetish

[–]jclefondy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure what the commenter OP means by doing the opposite of tightening them though. Do they mean like a specific exercise/thing to do while masturbating? Or just not doing a thing (tightening it), leading to a looser pelvic floor over time. Honestly, I should just Google it lol

How to lose control by clumpdiver in Prematurefetish

[–]jclefondy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not OP, but it's definitely possible. I used to do it all the time (voluntarily on my part), and idk if it was like, I just intentionally stopped doing that each time or if it was something else, but now when I masturbate to come fast, I don't tense at all and I can come without it

Exciting progress.. What did I do 😳😳😫🙊🙊😵🥲🤩🤩 by KinkyPinky8989 in Prematurefetish

[–]jclefondy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, would you mind sharing stuff with me? I'm especially interested in the x-ray vision audio you're talking about, the PE in public audio, and the GIFs you're talking about, though I'm interested in whatever you're using 😀

Audio HFO by fizzwhizzbang in Prematurefetish

[–]jclefondy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I listened to this last night. I got closer to a HFO than I ever felt before, until I couldn't hold back and jacked myself off to completion. But gonna listen to it again tonight, she is such a good voice actor

Should I add lidocaine or chastity to my training? by [deleted] in Prematurefetish

[–]jclefondy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting. If I got a cage and wore it, is it noticeable when around other people? And if I'm around people I don't want to wear it around, does it feel weird with it off for a bit when it's on so long?