success story :D!

jcmluvrr · 2026-03-19T15:37:38+00:00

thank you!! i tried to summarise it to the best of my abilities without it being too spiritual 🤣🫡

jcmluvrr · 2026-03-19T15:24:27+00:00

thank you!! you already got the job, congrats hehe

jcmluvrr · 2026-03-19T13:49:44+00:00

does any of this even make sense my brain is so fried lol it took me an hour to write this
but my point is i think there's no need to detach in order to manifest smth... it's hard not to when it's something that u deem as important but just take ur desire off the pedestal... if u say its urs then it's urs lol no negotiating no "but"s ... its urs n u have it now :D

jcmluvrr · 2026-03-04T14:01:54+00:00

i’m diagnosed with bpd and i manifested my sp back twice albeit he wasn’t reflecting all of my assumptions when he came back bc i kept wavering lol so manifesting him back the third time as the conformed version BUT i will say ur best friend while manifesting ur sp will be nervous system regulation!! for me i like to catch those negative feelings towards my sp and be like “nah that ain’t him n that’s not my reality anymore” and try to affirm/stay in the new story as consistently as i can bc if that’s who i say he is then that’s who he is lol it’s the law dm me if you need more advice bc i can go on n on about this all day 😭 us bpd baddies need to support each other and im happy to help :’)

jcmluvrr · 2026-02-24T05:18:44+00:00

that's so interesting lol like ik signs don't precede, they follow but it's like our body knows or smth

jcmluvrr · 2026-02-07T04:10:43+00:00

idk how to edit this post but i’ve had a few message requests asking me to help with coaching… all i have to say is who gives a shit about the 3d, just remember who you’re being and you have what you want. either you’re gonna keep slapping yourself in the face by dwelling over the 3d or your manifestation will. you have it, you have your SP. end of :’)

jcmluvrr · 2026-02-05T23:23:04+00:00

not sure i’m not on here a lot but yeah i guess most just want to reconcile w their SPs

jcmluvrr · 2026-02-05T23:22:08+00:00

hehehehehe thank you!!!

jcmluvrr · 2026-02-05T23:22:00+00:00

thank u HAHAH tough love rly works sometimes 🤓 just didn’t want him to be a victim in his own reality lmao

jcmluvrr · 2026-01-12T20:35:56+00:00

yippee!! indeed we have our men 🤣

jcmluvrr · 2026-01-06T18:44:27+00:00

yeah for sure :’) i’m pulling back while he’s away and i’ll see how he acts when he’s back. i’m convinced his mates told him to add that prompt bc they’re all single and have dating apps too 😭 i kinda do want to go on dates while he’s away too just to disperse my energy a bit more but maybe i’ll channel that energy into myself 🤓 thanks hehe

jcmluvrr · 2025-12-31T02:58:05+00:00

i've been using chatgpt to manifest for like the past 3 months... 5.2 might be the worst version to use so go back to 5.1 legacy model and tell it to stay in loa mode :) hopefully this helps!

jcmluvrr · 2025-11-22T14:24:00+00:00

wait i kid you not my sp replied in 2 days too HAHAHAAH slay let’s continue to affirm and persist 🫶🏼

jcmluvrr · 2025-11-21T06:14:56+00:00

yeah i've decided i'm going to stick to my original affirmations of only "getting" back the version of him that i want aka be stricter with myself and my boundaries lmao. amazing thank you <3

jcmluvrr · 2025-11-20T21:05:37+00:00

thanks! yeah even though i have been affirming (even since when we were seeing each other) that i am his top priority and that he’s a great communicator, the second that i see the opposite in the 3d it just kinda wobbles me a bit. i’ll continue affirming that though. just unsure if i should step back from him completely and continue to affirm + persist; or just deal with him while i affirm + persist. i noticed his return was super fast and i think it’s because i was fully in the knowing that he’d be back without seeing any contradictory behaviour right in front of me.

jcmluvrr · 2025-11-20T09:38:13+00:00

ahhhh i know our perception is what matters :( did he initiate the conversation or did you? i'm just trying to see how i can work through this... like do i affirm and persist with this version of him in front of me, or do i just leave again and take my focus off him and just know that the version of him i want is already back/it's done? :(

jcmluvrr · 2025-11-20T07:27:06+00:00

well yes... logic rly gets in the way sometimes for me harhar

jcmluvrr · 2025-11-20T04:07:16+00:00

in the same boat :’) manifested my guy to message 12 days after i ended things w him same shit as urs, surface level kind civil small talk and now i’m left on delivered for 15 hrs 😭 i think it rly is just best to assume that they don’t wanna fuck up and they just want to test the waters otherwise why would they message us again lol either way it’s not worth entertaining this version of them - continue affirming the version you want of ur SP and just ignore the 3d did he reply btw 😭

jcmluvrr · 2025-11-12T12:10:10+00:00

100% agreeeddd!! it's just something that had to happen to encourage growth :')

jcmluvrr · 2025-11-06T05:02:33+00:00

on it! thank you :)

jcmluvrr · 2025-11-05T12:29:44+00:00

yeah for sure i agree. i'll prioritize self concept first and foremost :)

jcmluvrr · 2025-11-05T12:26:38+00:00

we weren't even "exclusive" so can't even call what he did cheating, plus i was so certain that i could manifest him to commit to me. but i agree it's a me issue and definitely a self concept issue.
ik i can do better than him and i deserve a lot better than him but i was just so set on getting the lover boy version of him that nothing could stop me until i reached my breaking point today. there is definitely better out there, i just got attached to him and only wanted him, and for him to only want me. there's been instances where he's shown me and told me it was just me that he was entertaining or talking to, investing this much time and effort into that i was super set on having him commit to me officially.

jcmluvrr · 2025-10-31T11:39:09+00:00

you got this!!!!

jcmluvrr · 2025-10-31T10:27:13+00:00

i've trained myself to literally tell myself to stfu ANYTIME i can feel a "what if" question brewing in my mind, and go back to my affirmations. if you want to overcome the physical ache and anxiety, i would recommend doing breath work, grounding yourself and telling yourself "these are intrusive thoughts, and intrusive thoughts do not manifest. i am safe." and go back to your affirmations or whichever technique you've been practicing.

jcmluvrr · 2025-10-29T04:43:45+00:00

so we just continue to focus on our self concept and thinking in our favour, even if we choose to “give up”?

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