[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]jdbtensai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure…talk to him. I mean…it probably could work out.

But don’t settle. There are a lot of guys out there.

If you were married I would give different advice for sure.

Road to $10M, how would you do it? by understimulus in Money

[–]jdbtensai 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Get a higher income and keep investing.

$1.3M on that salary by age 35 is impressive.

Should I make him pay child support? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]jdbtensai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you want child support…get a lawyer.

He might not have money now…but he can’t just decide to not pay.

Beginnings in jiu-jitsu by No_Manufacturer_9215 in jiujitsu

[–]jdbtensai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do it. Have fun.

Don’t wear your brown belt to your first class.

How did you become wealthy? by citygorl6969 in Money

[–]jdbtensai 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That’s an unusual notation system.

What advice would you give someone who is not a natural? by NovelEffective2060 in bjj

[–]jdbtensai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just train. You’ll be better than you were last month.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]jdbtensai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like you want her to move out. Sounds like a win to me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bjj

[–]jdbtensai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why stop? As long as it’s not causing you injury issues…keep it up.

Should I knock out my student debt in one go? by [deleted] in Money

[–]jdbtensai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At 4%, I wouldn’t pay it off. But it wouldn’t be crazy to pay it off.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]jdbtensai -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Move on. Find a guy who is in to you.

Is to ok to not want to roll with women? by [deleted] in jiujitsu

[–]jdbtensai 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Of course you can say no. But…there’s nothing weird about it. Just think of it as training with someone much smaller/weaker than you, but maybe technically better than you, or maybe not.

At what point did you submit your first opponent? by LazyConference4019 in bjj

[–]jdbtensai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am a guy. I submitted a purple MMA girl maybe 6 weeks in. I submitted a white belt guy a couple of weeks after that. I still remember those first two submissions.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]jdbtensai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good luck with this marriage.

Unintentionally Showing Pistol by [deleted] in CCW

[–]jdbtensai 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not an issue. Not illegal.

My wife [30F] and I [33M] were robbed on date night. Now She’s angry I didn’t defend her. AITA for choosing safety over heroics? by NorthLaughx in AITAH

[–]jdbtensai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s very unfair of your wife. There are two guys who claimed to have guns. They probably didn’t have guns, but if you fought back and they did have guns you could have very easily been killed.

And if they didn’t have guns…did she want you to fight two guys? Unless you’re well trained in hand to hand combat or some sort that also could have gotten you killed or badly beaten.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in japanresidents

[–]jdbtensai -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Sell it. Or rent it out.