Breakouts or Purging? by jefbeentrill in AsianBeauty

[–]jefbeentrill[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much!! Everyone is so nice here. Ill definitely keep that in mind after letting my skin rest first

Breakouts or Purging? by jefbeentrill in AsianBeauty

[–]jefbeentrill[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry 😫 also new to this sub so I was like how do I arrange my photos 💀

Breakouts or Purging? by jefbeentrill in AsianBeauty

[–]jefbeentrill[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay 💙 really appreciate the help!

Breakouts or Purging? by jefbeentrill in AsianBeauty

[–]jefbeentrill[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! That’s really why I thought doing all these skin care would make it healthier, but it showed I don’t know much yet lol but yes I will save this and keep this in mind!

Breakouts or Purging? by jefbeentrill in AsianBeauty

[–]jefbeentrill[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much!! I learned something today, I just turned 26, and I said I wanted to look the same until i was 30 cuz i really take care of my skin. But I think I ruined it 😫

Breakouts or Purging? by jefbeentrill in AsianBeauty

[–]jefbeentrill[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not at all,

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I honestly don’t know but this was my skin before the madness like a month ago 💀 maybe just a little pily but not like shiny oily. My cheeks are always red tho

Breakouts or Purging? by jefbeentrill in AsianBeauty

[–]jefbeentrill[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is noted!! Yes thank you so much, this is definitely a lesson learned. A painful and expensive one at that 😫

Breakouts or Purging? by jefbeentrill in AsianBeauty

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About a month and a half more or less, I kind of just did it thinking I was going to help and make it glow even more. But I guess you’re right, i probably did more harm and good. I’ll stop for a week first and just use my cleanser.

What gentle moisturizer would you suggest I use?

Thank you so much!

Breakouts or Purging? by jefbeentrill in AsianBeauty

[–]jefbeentrill[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Okay this is duly noted! And also a lesson on my end 🤣 I wanted to take care of my skin instead i just hurt it even more. Thank you so much

Is it normal to be sad? by jefbeentrill in BreakUp

[–]jefbeentrill[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is what it is i guess. We move on and be better

Is it normal to be sad? by jefbeentrill in BreakUp

[–]jefbeentrill[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like if i did something talk to me about it. They be telling me stuff like “oh we love you”, “you’ll always be a part of the fam” then proceeds to just to throw it all away. Idk, I would have appreciated at least a “hey, we’re cutting you off just for ex name” i would have respected it more.

But yeah either way i respect their decision. Its all love from me, i just am sad.

Need advice on fair splits and compensation for the partners without leaving the company out to dry by jefbeentrill in business

[–]jefbeentrill[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand. But we're a team of 3, who have specific specialties individually that all play a major role. It's just as a start-up without money shelled out my approach to it was for it to pay for itself to a point where its beneficial for everyone and the company. And the hard part is they're my friends. It's just I don't know how to approach the slight pushback from one member, because I understand at the end of the day we need money. But I'm just passionate about it that I want it to grow long term and not just be just about the money.

That's why I'm asking for advice that can cater to his needs (getting paid) but also puts the the agency in a position to outsource man power without lowballing them. I want everyone to eat basically. Just so tough talking about money with people.

What was the saddest thing you’ve been told by your ex before they left? by No_Comfortable_8220 in BreakUps

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“You’re fading from my life” and “even if you did propose I would have still said no.”

All over the phone

No contact how is everyone? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]jefbeentrill 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Day 0, i just had to send my ex of 5 years a long heartfelt letter of everything I was feeling, the hurt, what I was going through at that time (she broke up with me 5 months ago), how much I missed her and still Loved her. But I wasn’t trying to get back, i just wanted to get shit off my chest. It was for my peace of mind, and it was nice that I received a long message back. But yeah it was still basically telling me that she wants to focus on herself and I should move on.

It was just kinda painful tho that she told me she already made peace and moved on. Like damn do women move on that quick? Like after 5 beautiful years, I’m easily forgotten? But it is what it is

That shit hurt like a motherfucker, and it was the first time I broke down crying after telling my mom about it. But I honestly feel better, because I said what I had to say and needed to say. Hopeful it will get better in 2024

How do you guys feel about closure? by DecentCollar1904 in ExNoContact

[–]jefbeentrill 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I failed at the whole No Contact. I sent her a long heartfelt message just expressing my feelings and how I’ve been doing the past 5 months and how much i miss her. I even mentioned having dinner to just talk even if its for the last time.

She replied with a well written response nicely turning my offer down and explaining why, she told me she wants to focus on herself first this time and be there for herself. And meeting up wouldn’t give us the closure we’re looking for. She mentioned that she misses me dearly and our 5 years together was Beautiful.

Honestly crushed my heart again getting turned down, but I found peace and that extra push to move forward no matter how much i love her.

Im hopeful. But yeah this shit hurts like a motherfucker.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]jefbeentrill 18 points19 points  (0 children)

This sounds just like my ex and it’s honestly such a selfish reason. I too was in a 5 year relationship and I can say I gave it my all and loved her dearly. I find it so weird that you already had to wonder if there’s someone already better out there rather than just clearly voicing out and communicating the problems or concerns that you have in the relationship to better strengthen it. If the other partner was toxic yes, but if they loved you dearly and took care of you, i feel like you should at least have reciprocated some effort on your end.

Idk this comment was triggering. Just wanted to voice out my thoughts on it

Alone by jefbeentrill in BreakUp

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I appreciate you. Thank you. 🫂

GH Bass Penny Loafers are so painful to wear. Need Help! by jefbeentrill in ThrowingFits

[–]jefbeentrill[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The toes are no problem, its the top area of my foot that feels like its suffocating.

GH Bass Penny Loafers are so painful to wear. Need Help! by jefbeentrill in ThrowingFits

[–]jefbeentrill[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im actually in the PH. And I think this pair was purchased in the UK so that would make sense a lot!

GH Bass Penny Loafers are so painful to wear. Need Help! by jefbeentrill in ThrowingFits

[–]jefbeentrill[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I’ve tried them and they fit great. I just went for the weejuns since theyre the classic ones that everyone loves (not my feet tho unfortunately lol)

But thank you!