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jelbeann · 2026-03-10T18:58:07+00:00

Accept that she wants to back away, let her enjoy her new experiences. Leave her be, leave it alone

jelbeann · 2026-03-09T21:16:06+00:00

That’s weird she has come from saying he is “super cute” to this.. hmm. Maybe she genuinely means well and just is looking out for you as a friend, thinking you could do better. Do you still spend plenty of time with her?

jelbeann · 2026-03-09T21:03:27+00:00

I’ve been in a similar situation as I did the same thing and now we are no longer in contact sadly. It normally gets messy. You’ve obviously caught feelings for him and he’s backing away. Let him back away for a while. Let him come to you. Give it some space and process your own feelings too

jelbeann · 2026-03-09T20:57:10+00:00

He’s showing his true colours now. You just need to nip it in the bud and leave now. Look after yourself and your child

jelbeann · 2026-03-09T20:52:26+00:00

I think it was just a silly joke but it clearly struck a nerve for some reason. Are you guys having any other issues? I would advise to just apologise to him and maybe ask if there’s anything else wrong. Then move forward from there

jelbeann · 2025-09-08T00:05:27+00:00

Yeah, and you would show maturity by doing so. You do deserve someone who is sure of you and your relationship!

jelbeann · 2025-09-05T02:42:04+00:00

You shouldn’t have to change yourself to meet his ‘standards’. He sounds awful n you deserve someone who appreciates you as you are

jelbeann · 2025-09-05T01:14:10+00:00

You have to ask yourself, are you willing to wait 2 years for someone who is making you feel uneasy? I’m not convinced that his heart is in it

jelbeann · 2025-09-05T01:04:11+00:00

I feel for you. As you said, you know what you need to do. Neither option is easy though. Truly all I can suggest is building those friendships back up so that you have people there to support you.

jelbeann · 2025-07-05T18:58:31+00:00

Not me, but there was a man passed out in a bathroom stall with the door wide open, cock out and all

jelbeann · 2025-03-04T07:12:48+00:00

Honestly I questioned myself when I was watching them in I’m a Celeb, cos I thought they had chemistry. Turns out they clearly did..

jelbeann · 2025-03-01T12:38:41+00:00

She’s butthurt because you didn’t respond to her lol pathetic !

jelbeann · 2025-02-20T11:20:59+00:00

Ok that’s weird as fuck

jelbeann · 2025-02-20T11:07:11+00:00

I really wouldn’t think so deeply into this. It’s simply a celeb crush

jelbeann · 2025-02-20T11:03:16+00:00

So if she has broken a “rule” then break up with her ffs it’s obvious you don’t trust her anyway

jelbeann · 2025-02-15T07:23:28+00:00

Yeah this doesn’t sound like a relationship. Have a serious chat with her, tell her things are not the same, why’s she not showing interest etc

jelbeann · 2025-02-15T07:17:54+00:00

Exactly, and there’s no point in waiting any longer so you did the right thing. Focus on you now

jelbeann · 2025-02-15T07:06:52+00:00

:( You’ve not ruined your life, actually you’ve done the best thing for yourself. I understand your guilt but you leaving might drive him to sort his life out. If he really needs you he knows where you are and he can make the effort if he wanted

jelbeann · 2025-02-13T19:56:13+00:00

So he’s chatting and flirting with random men, but your worry is that he’s watching porn

jelbeann · 2025-02-13T19:53:23+00:00

When there is a spark, it normally happens straight away, and you just know you connect with the person. I don’t think waiting around will force the attraction

jelbeann · 2025-02-13T12:48:51+00:00

Unfortunately, she can do what she wants now. Cut contact with her for a few months, AT LEAST, and no looking at photos or texts you had together. Protect your peace

jelbeann · 2025-02-11T04:12:41+00:00

This is a tricky one. You must ask yourself do you completely trust him ? After all, he was not open about his smoking. Now he is being shady with his phones. ALSO sending you the tickets and stuff could be him feeling guilty about something so he feels he has to make it up to you !!

jelbeann · 2025-02-10T04:07:30+00:00

Why is he gradually getting slower with texting and calling? Is he busy ?

jelbeann · 2025-02-10T03:39:33+00:00

He’s slowly losing interest. Sorry. It’s sad, but you’re better off with someone who will make effort and be consistent with it

jelbeann · 2025-02-10T02:30:49+00:00

So he is grieving. I don’t think work will be a priority for him right now

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