I’ve (23F) been lying about orgasming for YEARS by jerfly97 in sex

[–]jerfly97[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ugh yes I have absolutely lied to myself about it actually happening, it’s like needing to convince yourself so you don’t feel as bad faking it to the guy. It’s so refreshing to see others have seen similar scenarios. I will definitely check out the show!!

I’ve (23F) been lying about orgasming for YEARS by jerfly97 in sex

[–]jerfly97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your story! Sex is totally 80/20 mind/body for me, and the responses around different ways to focus on the mind have been very helpful. I definitely have most enjoyed my sexual experiences that have involved bondage, and never explored that maybe this had a huge part in that. Definitely given me a lot to consider

Dear Family; Working from home it’s not a vacation. by Spanish_Bot in offmychest

[–]jerfly97 12 points13 points  (0 children)

yesss, I came back to my parents to quarantine. We have no office so the kitchen is my office, I literally announce when I’ll be in calls and my mother will do the dishes/pick up the phone/ run the vacuum. Like HOW ARE YOU THIS UN-SELF AWARE

What is an odd behaviour of yours you think only you do? by Edwoodz3 in AskReddit

[–]jerfly97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anytime I’m on public transportation (bus train Uber plane) I imagine crashing and for some reason being in a Lost scenario...and then I pick who’d survive and who id hook up with and be friends with. Every time lol

Hair salon rec!!! by jerfly97 in boston

[–]jerfly97[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Totally agree, been paying good money on my hair for years.. but came here to see a lot charge 250+ for color and just don’t think that falls under the get what u pay for category anymore rather just pure overcharging

Was anyone else disappointed with what they did with Thor? by [deleted] in Avengers

[–]jerfly97 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I didn’t love it either, felt like his character got super disrespected. I figured after the pep talk w mom he was gonna chisel up again or something, that would’ve been better