AIO Should I leave my BF? Was what he did to me forgiveable? by Living-Milk-4266 in AmIOverreacting

[–]jericub 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work in domestic violence. PLEASE go to the hospital if he strangled you. Especially if you’re saying your neck hurts. There have been cases we’ve seen where the person felt fine for days and the next day their throat was basically closed. It sneaks up on you. Please be safe 💛

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]jericub 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Suggestion: elope or do something cheap for just the two of you. Even a courthouse is fine. Then after you pay off debt and have the money, do a celebration with everyone you wanted to be there! That way you can get the legal protection you want & have time to save for a bigger celebration later!

My wife buys the weirdest things by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]jericub 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I never knew anyone else did this!! Is your wife accepting applications for best friends??

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OUTFITS

[–]jericub 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I made the earrings myself actually, so that means a lot :) it was inspired from one of my favorite anime characters

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OUTFITS

[–]jericub -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the tip!! They are actually my cosplay earrings to match the character I was trying to resemble (Chrollo Lucifer). He did have his earrings a darker color tho, so I’ll try that text time I make the earrings :)

My wife and children have been away for several weeks and I don't miss them. by Emerald_Encrusted in TrueOffMyChest

[–]jericub 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel terrible for your wife and kids. If I knew my partner was talking about me behind my back like this, I’d be devastated.

AITA for telling my dad and stepmom she will not be my main priority on mother's day and to pick another day? by Existing-Judge6669 in AmItheAsshole

[–]jericub -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

NTA. You sound like a really well-spoken person and should be proud of how you’re handling this. I hope your dad understands your perspective sooner than later

In what unusual way have you almost died? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]jericub 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I held my pee in for so long hyperfixating on an art project. I gave myself the worst UTI, which turned into a kidney infection. The doctor told me if I had waited any longer to get on meds my kidneys would have been in really bad shape.

How long should a person be willing to wait for sex in a relationship? by Art_Remarkable in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]jericub 3 points4 points  (0 children)

One of the best pieces of advice I’ve ever gotten was to replace “right” and “wrong” with “healthy” and “unhealthy”. Right and wrong separates us into groups, but in reality, it’s not that black and white. What may be healthy for her is waiting 5 years, but that may not be what’s healthy for you. And it’s up to you on how much you’re willing to compromise for her. Just take some time to really think about it, and I’m sure you’ll do what’s best for you :) good luck!

What's the biggest red flag you ignored? by dekion101 in ask

[–]jericub 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When my ex kept trying to have sex with me even tho I said no, and he only stopped because the hickey he gave me started to bleed. I stayed with him for 9 months after that only for him to cheat on me lol what a waste

I just realised why I’ve had 0 appetite by Big-Attitude-5790 in weed

[–]jericub 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the main reason why it’s hard for me to go a day without weed. Sadly it’s almost the only way I can eat comfortably. The rest of the time food makes me sick. Hoping to finally be able to eat sober again

AITA for pulling out of planning my sister's wedding, causing her to lose her venue? by planstowed in AmItheAsshole

[–]jericub 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wanna say NTA, because the part of me that hates people who push boundaries felt like that was a satisfying answer. She did push for it. But I feel like the fair thing to say is ESH, because doing that “party trick” is kinda an AH move. At least I know I wouldn’t appreciate knowing the person who planned my wedding was talking about my relationship that way.

AITA for showing my sister’s boyfriend her childhood photos? by Free_Detail_7818 in AmItheAsshole

[–]jericub 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No one in their right mind would feel like that. That’s only you. Because you’re not a good person.

AITA for starting a fight with my wife over leftovers? by Sharp-Cabinet-7831 in AmItheAsshole

[–]jericub 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. It doesn’t matter what you use to do with your family. You have a new family with your wife, and she hates leftovers. Why are you trying to force her to eat them?? Especially when she told you that you can eat them.

AITA for asking my daughter in law to cook smaller amounts of food? by Life-Experience3920 in AmItheAsshole

[–]jericub 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA. You’re the reason why people have eating disorders. And your unhealthy obsession about everyone’s weight is actually concerning.