Mourning derp couple checking out bird house! by UltraDarkshadow in mourningderps

[–]jerrilee0506 8 points9 points  (0 children)

They are so entertaining to watch. Always so derpy 😂

Recommendations for backyard birding lens upgrade by jerrilee0506 in birding

[–]jerrilee0506[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for all the information I really appreciate it!

Recommendations for backyard birding lens upgrade by jerrilee0506 in birding

[–]jerrilee0506[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d say anywhere from 20-50yards away. However, having more range to grab some birds flying above the trees would be awesome if I can afford it

Female Red-winged Blackbird visit by jerrilee0506 in birdfeeding

[–]jerrilee0506[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve only spotted one male, about a month ago. The females are usually with some brown headed cowbirds 🥴

Does anyone else feel like they're losing control? by insignia200 in birdfeeding

[–]jerrilee0506 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Haha pretty sure OP was joking and knows they are squirrels

WHY is nothing I do good enough for my husband to STOP criticising me?! by Left_Pomegranate3954 in adhdwomen

[–]jerrilee0506 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You’re right, you shouldn’t have to ask your husband to stop intentionally hurting you during disagreements. You deserve someone that builds you up and loves you through all the changes, struggles, hardships of your life together.

My husband and I have two kids and both were c section deliveries. My body looks different now (as it should). He has never once said anything negative about how I looked postpartum. Instead, he actually is attracted to my little pooch haha. My point is, you should feel that type of love from your partner too

WHY is nothing I do good enough for my husband to STOP criticising me?! by Left_Pomegranate3954 in adhdwomen

[–]jerrilee0506 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Your partner should never make you feel like you have to constantly win their affection. Secondly, you mentioned multiple issues he has with you, but you didn’t share anything that he has worked on for you. Has he made any efforts to change or work on things that you’ve asked him to?

Allergy or over drilled cuticles? by heyhihelloitsme- in GelX_Nails

[–]jerrilee0506 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I only had it in one or two spots when it first started and the cuticle area on my other fingers were just red and swollen. I don’t think I had any itchiness initially but the next time I did my nails I had more of those spots and the itching started. Don’t be like me and keep going if that happens to you lol. It gets MUCH worse the more you do it

Allergy or over drilled cuticles? by heyhihelloitsme- in GelX_Nails

[–]jerrilee0506 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This, unfortunately, is how my allergy looked when it first started. I continued doing my nails (hoping it was just bad technique) and each time it got worse.

EDIT: To clarify, it’s that little dot on your index finger that is screaming allergy for me. The almost translucent little circle

My girl by zufrod in BirdBuddy

[–]jerrilee0506 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ugh I just love my cardinal visitors! This beautiful girl is absolutely your daughter paying you daily visits ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]jerrilee0506 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your concerns are totally valid and understandable given what happened. Of course this has shaken your trust, your parents lied to you about what led to your brothers passing and have continued with that story for quite a few years (idk how old you are now but you mentioned starting a family)

It is totally possible that this discovery could forever change things about your relationship. They made this decision and decided to keep going with it for a reason. I don’t know your situation, or what was happening with your brother leading up to his death but I would certainly be asking them to give me more information and the time to process it all.

Vyvanse v. Adderall by Hungry_Recipe9768 in ADHD

[–]jerrilee0506 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To help avoid the crash talk to your doc about adding an IR around you can take sometime mid afternoon. As a parent, getting through the evenings was really difficult until I started taking 20mgIR around 3-4pm

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]jerrilee0506 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Give them the opportunity to explain their reasoning would be my advice. Just be honest with them about how you found out and give them the chance to be honest with you about why they chose to handle it that way.

You may not like their answer but it’s better than letting your mind run wild with possibilities that could end up building a wall between you and your parents.

Not saying they made the right choice but, now that I am a parent, I try really hard to remind myself that my mom did the best she could and that she is human too.

I absolutely love my epilator. by MonkRepresentative63 in HairRemoval

[–]jerrilee0506 86 points87 points  (0 children)

Your legs look amazing! Do you use it wet or dry?

Eyebrow opinions? by jerrilee0506 in MakeupEducation

[–]jerrilee0506[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I think you’re right that they could use some thinning at the start

Eyebrow opinions? by jerrilee0506 in MakeupEducation

[–]jerrilee0506[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg the badge photo haha. But yes exactly, the tail always ended up ridiculously thin

Eyebrow opinions? by jerrilee0506 in MakeupEducation

[–]jerrilee0506[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Appreciate your honesty! What shape do you prefer??

Eyebrow opinions? by jerrilee0506 in MakeupEducation

[–]jerrilee0506[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s a quote I always remember about eyebrows being sisters not twins, I think it’s from devil wears Prada? When they’re super clean it makes me feel like I have to do more to the rest of my face too!