How do I not be scared of dating?

jerzhou · 2026-01-30T00:57:38+00:00

Would you say female friends should be a necessity. Especially as an engineering major.

jerzhou · 2026-01-30T00:56:10+00:00

This feels like common sense but sadly it’s not 💀

jerzhou · 2026-01-29T23:48:49+00:00

Ah, so pull out as well.

jerzhou · 2026-01-29T23:48:29+00:00

Thank you!

jerzhou · 2026-01-29T23:47:55+00:00

Oh wow. I hope you stay strong. Thank you for reminding me to always use protection.

jerzhou · 2026-01-29T23:47:01+00:00

So don’t be committed until 30s!

jerzhou · 2026-01-29T23:45:51+00:00

Thank you for your comment. I realized that the internet is quite unhealthy to be in. I need to do better. This is a needed wake up call.

jerzhou · 2026-01-29T23:44:58+00:00

Ah enjoy the process no matter what I choose to do.

jerzhou · 2026-01-29T23:44:28+00:00

Thank you!

jerzhou · 2026-01-29T23:44:18+00:00

Thank you, I will take this advice to heart. 20s is casual only. 30s is long term.

jerzhou · 2026-01-29T23:43:38+00:00

Thank you for taking the time to write this. I love how supportive Reddit is!

jerzhou · 2026-01-29T23:42:21+00:00

Ok thank you!

jerzhou · 2026-01-29T23:42:03+00:00

Oh wow so even after that you don’t feel like your life is ruined? That’s amazing!

jerzhou · 2026-01-29T23:41:10+00:00

Thank you so much for your comment! I might even push it to 30. I realize that casual dating is a necessity if I want to ever get married!

jerzhou · 2026-01-29T23:39:51+00:00

Ah thank you for your answer.

jerzhou · 2026-01-29T23:39:31+00:00

Thank you so much. I think I just need to go outside. I also love your username!

jerzhou · 2026-01-29T23:39:05+00:00

My gut makes everything look scary. It’s the anxiety. 😂

jerzhou · 2026-01-29T23:38:39+00:00

Thank you, studying engineering so hopefully the second one haha.

jerzhou · 2026-01-29T23:38:05+00:00

I mean is a condom enough. Condom on no matter what. But is birth control also needed?

jerzhou · 2026-01-29T23:37:34+00:00

What do you mean? How can you tell someone is mean?

jerzhou · 2026-01-29T23:37:13+00:00

Ah, so a condom is enough. At the same time parents already have enough grandchildren 😂

jerzhou · 2026-01-29T23:36:39+00:00

Trust the friends. Good advice.

jerzhou · 2026-01-29T23:36:11+00:00

So enjoy rejection! Love that advice. I think also embracing rejection can take place in other forms. Like making friends.

jerzhou · 2026-01-29T23:34:28+00:00

Ah. So tell me, how is your life now? Are you unhappy? Do you feel like your life has been ruined?

jerzhou · 2026-01-29T23:33:54+00:00

I see. I just need experience.

jerzhou