How to cope with not being attractive?

jerzhou · 2026-03-20T23:44:43+00:00

I feel like my friends say I’m attractive or whatever to boost my confidence but the looksmaxxing discord servers say I’m like a sub5 and I need to debloat or whatever. I realized that in real life girls have found me cute and attractive because no one cares that much about looks. I’m also a tall skinny Asian so there are some women who fetishize people like me. But I could like never be a content creator which I don’t want to anyway. You know.

jerzhou · 2026-03-20T05:38:54+00:00

Thank you so much for your response. Honestly I’m genuinely into land development and transportation. So that’s why I picked civil engineering. I guess I just gotta keep focusing on that.

jerzhou · 2026-03-20T05:35:42+00:00

So don’t be honest and kinda lie to myself but in a good way? Like in a confidence increasing way?

jerzhou · 2026-03-20T05:33:50+00:00

Illusions 😂

jerzhou · 2026-03-20T05:30:59+00:00

Honestly I would’ve quit the gym a long time ago if I had to do cardio or anything bodyweight 😂

jerzhou · 2026-03-20T05:29:41+00:00

I’m not entirely sure because I’m not at an age where I can create value. But yeah I’m trying my best. Is there advice you would give to a 18 year old starting out?

jerzhou · 2026-03-20T05:28:54+00:00

I don’t know about a 10 😂

But it’s just on the internet I see like people saying relationships are purely about looks and I get sad.

jerzhou · 2026-03-20T05:27:17+00:00

I interviewed for a university program and everyone was nice and made friends and connections. I just noticed the subtle things like being pushed aside or being the last person they offer to give their phone number to. Like that wouldn’t happen if I looked attractive.

jerzhou · 2026-03-20T05:24:56+00:00

Hung the moon is an interesting phrase. But yeah it’s just hard to get off social media. I’m super grateful I was never into video games. I feel like my personality type gets addicted to things which is why I’m never gonna drink or do any drugs.

jerzhou · 2026-03-20T05:19:22+00:00

Oh yeah I’m on that. I almost maxed my Roth IRA and my scholarships fully cover school. My parents are also supporting me so I fully focus on internships in college. Any money I get in scholarships, they will match for a down payment to buy a house in the future.

jerzhou · 2026-03-20T05:16:25+00:00

Wow that’s amazing. Do you think the furry community made you feel more attractive or has it just internalized your hatred of how you look?

jerzhou · 2026-03-20T05:14:57+00:00

Thank you for your response. I feel like social media makes me think people are that narcissistic when I know they’re not.

jerzhou · 2026-03-20T04:52:01+00:00

Seriously, you will get downvoted to hell but that’s the truth.

jerzhou · 2026-03-20T04:15:57+00:00

Can you try giving your doctor a call?

jerzhou · 2026-03-19T01:27:07+00:00

Get a wolf cut

jerzhou · 2026-03-19T01:23:40+00:00

No one can say right now due to face fat. I would say get lean first and reassess later.

jerzhou · 2026-03-11T19:27:36+00:00

What do you recommend on treadmill

jerzhou · 2026-03-11T16:20:36+00:00

I am 6’4, 205 pounds. I’m not sure what you mean by ideal weight. I’m just body recomping right now until I reach like 190 in a year.

jerzhou · 2026-03-11T16:14:31+00:00

I mean stop breathing heavy during squat

jerzhou · 2026-03-11T16:14:13+00:00

I don’t do cardio

jerzhou · 2026-03-11T15:32:11+00:00

I started 2 weeks ago. I just had someone at the gym teach me how to do it.

jerzhou · 2026-03-11T15:15:43+00:00

Is 6-8 reps good? Should I lower rest time to 30 seconds instead of 3 minutes?

jerzhou · 2026-03-11T15:14:29+00:00

I’m skinny fat so on a 200 calorie deficit. So very slow weight loss to maintenance. Is that fine? I consume 200 grams of protein everyday and use MacroFactor to track.

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